Good Evening all,
It has been a long time since I stopped being a regular poster on here, up until around the time I met my now wife, I used to post many stories and frequently engage in topics of conversation.
I wish I was back here on a brighter note but an issue has come up in my relationship which quite frankly I don't think I could talk to anyone else about and have them understand the situation I am dealing with.
I'm almost fully convinced my wife does not like being tickled in my favorite places to tickle.
As with many folk here, I have a foot fetish which accompanies my love for tickling which of course makes my favourite spot to tickle, feet.
Back almost 10 years ago when we first met, my hands would constantly be on her ribs, feet, underarms etc. There never seemed to be a problem, if anything, she seemed to really enjoy it.
During the first half of our relationship, we'd always be getting up to things all the time and as I said. There never seemed to be any real issue. But as time passed I began to notice a small suttle change which has lead to what I am about to explain.
The other night (her birthday) I had her tied down to the bed and I planned on fucking her in a manner she loves but before then, I wanted to hear some laughs.
There were some laughs for the first few minutes whilst tickling her back and ribs but it eventually turned into sounds of what could only be described as someone groaning in light pain (like lifting weights but not so intense). When it came to tickling her feet, no laughs, just the disgruntled groaning sound. So to finish off the situation, I made sure that she cummed hard whilst fucking her and untied her.
After I untied her she could tell something was up so she asked what was wrong, I asked her "Why don't you laugh? It sounds like your in pain and just frustrated/pissed off/angry after tickling your ribs for a while or just going near your feet at all"
"Because it really tickles" she responded, said in such a way as if I was dumb for even asking.
Fast forward to today, I was getting ready for work whilst she was still in bed, watching her show for the past 40 minutes, and I was feeling playful. I slid my hand under the duvet, reached for her feet and began spider tickles. She just sort of huffed and kicked her foot away. I persisted because I didn't want to believe what I thought might be happening. I reached for a hairbrush, got an ok grip on her ankle and made slight contact with a bit of movement on her foot and the same thing happened again like the other night, the pissed off, discomfort groaning.
At this point I just stopped, got up and continued getting ready for work. She knows me very well and asked what was up, I replied "Nothing, just sounded like you were in pain" I think instantly realised that I was reffering to the comment I made the other night and realised that she was beginning to let slip.
She seemed concerned about me, asking if i was alright before I walked out the apartment for work. Fortunately I managed to make her believe her that nothing was up and left, I didn't need to have that "discussion" before a day in the office.
During my drive to work I received a picture message from her and its her feet, soles face up, with the hair brush resting on them.
I honestly didn't know what to say as I am now almost certain, its a problem for her, and I dont want to put her through something that she doesn't enjoy.
"Looks Dangerous" was all I could think to remark...
"mmmmm" was the response... heard nothing from her until late afternoon just asking how my day had been.
Well thats the context, all day at work I have been trying to come to terms that I may never get to fully induldge in my "tickle side" again. Don't get me wrong, she is accomadating when it comes to the foot fetish aspect, not as dominating as I day dream about but I am no means deprived in that department like some unfortunate people. I just have no clue how to broker this topic with her because I know she will tell me, what she believes I want to hear and then offer to be tied up, but if someone isn't laughing and seems to be groaning in pain, its not gonna do it for me, especially if they are in real discomfort and would prefer not to engage in that activity.
Has anyone else faced this scenario before? Is there a way to turn it around? What would you do in my situation?
I'm really at a loss here on what to do so any advice/ideas that could be shared would be very much appreciated!
Sincerely
TKL_Rebel
It has been a long time since I stopped being a regular poster on here, up until around the time I met my now wife, I used to post many stories and frequently engage in topics of conversation.
I wish I was back here on a brighter note but an issue has come up in my relationship which quite frankly I don't think I could talk to anyone else about and have them understand the situation I am dealing with.
I'm almost fully convinced my wife does not like being tickled in my favorite places to tickle.
As with many folk here, I have a foot fetish which accompanies my love for tickling which of course makes my favourite spot to tickle, feet.
Back almost 10 years ago when we first met, my hands would constantly be on her ribs, feet, underarms etc. There never seemed to be a problem, if anything, she seemed to really enjoy it.
During the first half of our relationship, we'd always be getting up to things all the time and as I said. There never seemed to be any real issue. But as time passed I began to notice a small suttle change which has lead to what I am about to explain.
The other night (her birthday) I had her tied down to the bed and I planned on fucking her in a manner she loves but before then, I wanted to hear some laughs.
There were some laughs for the first few minutes whilst tickling her back and ribs but it eventually turned into sounds of what could only be described as someone groaning in light pain (like lifting weights but not so intense). When it came to tickling her feet, no laughs, just the disgruntled groaning sound. So to finish off the situation, I made sure that she cummed hard whilst fucking her and untied her.
After I untied her she could tell something was up so she asked what was wrong, I asked her "Why don't you laugh? It sounds like your in pain and just frustrated/pissed off/angry after tickling your ribs for a while or just going near your feet at all"
"Because it really tickles" she responded, said in such a way as if I was dumb for even asking.
Fast forward to today, I was getting ready for work whilst she was still in bed, watching her show for the past 40 minutes, and I was feeling playful. I slid my hand under the duvet, reached for her feet and began spider tickles. She just sort of huffed and kicked her foot away. I persisted because I didn't want to believe what I thought might be happening. I reached for a hairbrush, got an ok grip on her ankle and made slight contact with a bit of movement on her foot and the same thing happened again like the other night, the pissed off, discomfort groaning.
At this point I just stopped, got up and continued getting ready for work. She knows me very well and asked what was up, I replied "Nothing, just sounded like you were in pain" I think instantly realised that I was reffering to the comment I made the other night and realised that she was beginning to let slip.
She seemed concerned about me, asking if i was alright before I walked out the apartment for work. Fortunately I managed to make her believe her that nothing was up and left, I didn't need to have that "discussion" before a day in the office.
During my drive to work I received a picture message from her and its her feet, soles face up, with the hair brush resting on them.
I honestly didn't know what to say as I am now almost certain, its a problem for her, and I dont want to put her through something that she doesn't enjoy.
"Looks Dangerous" was all I could think to remark...
"mmmmm" was the response... heard nothing from her until late afternoon just asking how my day had been.
Well thats the context, all day at work I have been trying to come to terms that I may never get to fully induldge in my "tickle side" again. Don't get me wrong, she is accomadating when it comes to the foot fetish aspect, not as dominating as I day dream about but I am no means deprived in that department like some unfortunate people. I just have no clue how to broker this topic with her because I know she will tell me, what she believes I want to hear and then offer to be tied up, but if someone isn't laughing and seems to be groaning in pain, its not gonna do it for me, especially if they are in real discomfort and would prefer not to engage in that activity.
Has anyone else faced this scenario before? Is there a way to turn it around? What would you do in my situation?
I'm really at a loss here on what to do so any advice/ideas that could be shared would be very much appreciated!
Sincerely
TKL_Rebel