I want some advice and I hope this is the right place to post

[tickleteasing]

Ok at Thanksgiving I had a hard time because for two reasons. One I was depressed and two I did not want to be a downer to my family. So when they asked me how I was doing I had a hard time knowing what to say. Now what does this have to do with tickling well I will get to that now.
My grandmother asked me if I had met anyone on the net and I told her I met a few but I was really down because I had not met anyone close by. She said well find someone near by so you can go see her. I understand her point however my family does not know all the reasons.
Its hard when you have a tickle fetish and there is not many people in the area who also have the fetish. Its also hard when its not something that comes up normally. I have lived without it before but I long for it. I see it as something sweet and cute in a woman who loves it. How do you all deal with it?

 

[shadow365]

Don't seek out a woman with a tickling fetish. They are out there, but they aren't plentiful. The trick is to find a woman who is accepting of your fetish and will allow you to participate in related activities with her. Hopefully some of the TMF women can back me up on this, but I don't think that ALL of the TMF women probably had tickling fetishes before someone introduced them to it. Happy searching, sir.

 

[ShadowTklr]

First, you have to examine the depth of your own fetish. If this is something that you cannot compromise within yourself - in other words it is something that must be satisfied through a relationship with any woman, then do yourself a favor, and seek out women whom you can grow into the fetish.

Good candidates would be women who enjoy a teasing, playful personality, adventurous, unafraid, and willing to try new things. That's the type of woman with whom you will have more success in venturing into tickling, IMHO.

If you need more than the ocassional tickle interaction, then you'll need to focus on lifestyle women. I would suggest querying alternative lifestyles dating services to start. It will be a good way to introduce yourself to others who don't need apologetic explanations about what they like.

Best of luck to you.

 

[Tidas]

Don't seek out a woman with a tickling fetish. They are out there, but they aren't plentiful. The trick is to find a woman who is accepting of your fetish and will allow you to participate in related activities with her. Hopefully some of the TMF women can back me up on this, but I don't think that ALL of the TMF women probably had tickling fetishes before someone introduced them to it. Happy searching, sir.

Bingo. Ellie hadn't even heard of it until I told her. She is a sweet, wonderful, caring, and open-minded girl, and she took the whole fetish thing great (as you can see by her forum posts here...). The trick is not to find someone with the fetish, (if you can great...but you probably won't be able to) the trick is to find someone that truly loves you and is willing to be open-minded and accepting of all of you, even your idiosyncracies.