Ideas for the weekend

Time_of_your · May 29, 2009

I posted a question yesterday, asking if my boyfriend is into tickling.

Here is the link:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=153695

We're seeing each other over the weekend - any ideas of what to do to lead to tickling?

Keep in mind, we're both Korean. It's not your average North American relationship. Our families will probably be around us during the weekend.

Thanks!
Jennifer

Adam · May 29, 2009

I suppose you could always initiate it by giving him a few pokes and see if he responds by tickling you back. I'm sure you'd be more comfortable if you could have time away from your families, though. In any case, good luck to you Jennifer. 🙂

Capnmad · May 29, 2009

Time_of_your said:
I posted a question yesterday, asking if my boyfriend is into tickling.

Here is the link:
http://www.ticklingforum.com/showthread.php?t=153695

We're seeing each other over the weekend - any ideas of what to do to lead to tickling?

Keep in mind, we're both Korean. It's not your average North American relationship. Our families will probably be around us during the weekend.

Thanks!
Jennifer

I suppose it depends on how conservative your families are... He's already poked you in the ribs once -- tell him you owe him one from last time, and start tickling him in earnest. Tell him you just can't help yourself. He should respond with a counter-tickle, unless any of what I said is unacceptable culturally...

Then maybe later play around with that whole "forgetting" ploy... Tell him you liked something he had done earlier. If he asks what it was, he's showing at least mild interest in you and what you like. Look at him with a coy smile and say, "Oh, I forget..." and perhaps give him a poke in the ribs to make your point. Hopefully, he'll catch on.

Alternatively, just while you're having conversation, hopefully, he'll be asking things about you and your life. When there's some random thing he wants to know, tell him it's a closely guarded secret revealed only to those who can tickle it out of you.

Really, there are countless ways to do this, but it all depends on reading the person, reading the dynamic to make sure the situation is right, and being creative.