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If I don't play tickle soon, I'm going to explode!

ticklesfeetintx

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How do you handle a tickle drought? I felt like I haven't been able to have a good tickle session in quite some time. The videos and pictures and tickle chat help, but sometimes all it does is make me long for the real thing... to tickle and to be tickled!

I hate keeping something like this bottled inside for such a long amount of time. I'd hate to just start randomly asking people I know to engage in tickle play with me because they might find me funny, but I feel like if I don't do it soon, I'm a time bomb ready to go off! It's starting to hurt!

Has anyone been through this? Any suggestions on what I can do to either diminish this urge, or better yet, how to solve the problem (i.e. tickle someone and get tickled myself!)

Any suggestions... or someone offering to help personally (for the good of humanity)... would be great! I really hate to sound so sad and desperate, but I don't know what else to do. I had prospects before, but I've moved and I just don't know where to turn anymore except for my fellow TMF brethren...

Thanks for listening.
 
Just in case anyone was wondering, I live in southern California... I really ought to change my name...
 
Have you considered paying for it? Its not for everyone, but its available if you look in the right places.

Also feel free to send me a private message if you ever feel like a rant 🙂
 
There are three professional dungeons in southern California where you can tickle the girl of your choice for less than two hundred bucks - I never had the chance to do a tickling bondage session either, especially since I have the greatest fondness for younger female ticklees - I went to Passive Arts and spent an hour tickling a 25-year old Japanese girl - then I went back a second time and spent an hour tickling an 18-year old Filipina girl - but be warned - it's so great I can hardly wait to go back again.

www.passivearts.com
 
Break out the wallet and bite the bullit! you gotta do what you gotta do for a fix. :bowing:
 
Since tickling is a sexual fetish, what you're basically saying here is "I'm horny."

let's hear it for assumptions!

tickling may be a sexual thing for some, but not all. some people enjoy the sensation. some people enjoy the rush. and some people are just nuts.

ticklesfeet: best thing you can do is try not to focus on it so much. find someone you can share this with, but don't make it your #1 priority.
 
Hm.... you might be on to something there. Lets try to replace the word "tickle" with someone non-sexual to see if it makes sense.

How do you handle a checkers drought? I felt like I haven't been able to have a good checkers session in quite some time. The videos and pictures and checkers chat help, but sometimes all it does is make me long for the real thing... to play checkers!

I hate keeping something like this bottled inside for such a long amount of time. I'd hate to just start randomly asking people I know to engage in a checkers match with me because they might find me funny, but I feel like if I don't do it soon, I'm a time bomb ready to go off! It's starting to hurt!


Well I'll be damned. It is just a hobby.
 
Try Passive Arts in LA.

Just in case anyone was wondering, I live in southern California... I really ought to change my name...

I also live in S.Cali and have been having the same problem.. for 3 yrs... I am a male Ler.. have chatted with a few of our Lee's and Ler's here and there is usually a gathering every few months in LA at PA. may I ask.. R u M or F..Lee or Ler?
 
How do you handle a tickle drought? I felt like I haven't been able to have a good tickle session in quite some time. The videos and pictures and tickle chat help, but sometimes all it does is make me long for the real thing... to tickle and to be tickled!

I hate keeping something like this bottled inside for such a long amount of time. I'd hate to just start randomly asking people I know to engage in tickle play with me because they might find me funny, but I feel like if I don't do it soon, I'm a time bomb ready to go off! It's starting to hurt!

Has anyone been through this? Any suggestions on what I can do to either diminish this urge, or better yet, how to solve the problem (i.e. tickle someone and get tickled myself!)

Any suggestions... or someone offering to help personally (for the good of humanity)... would be great! I really hate to sound so sad and desperate, but I don't know what else to do. I had prospects before, but I've moved and I just don't know where to turn anymore except for my fellow TMF brethren...

Thanks for listening.

I know exactly how that feels. Even though I've been into tickling all my life, I've never experienced a real tickling session before. Sometimes it becomes unbearable, but I usually get over it. I just keep telling myself that it will happen someday. I've tried those tickle chats before, but they just make the desire for the real thing more intense, so I kind of stay away from them.
 
Since tickling is a sexual fetish, what you're basically saying here is "I'm horny."

As cute as your "checkers" metaphor was (I actually laughed at that... I kept thinking what if there was someone out there longing for a checkers partner), this has nothing to do with horniess or sex. I'm not looking for sex, it's tickling I'm interested in doing. Yes, it is exciting and can be stimulating, but not in "that" way, at least for me. To each it's own. But for me, I don't see tickle play as foreplay for sex, I look at for exactly what it is... tickling and being tickled and that's it.

Weird, I'm having deja vu, I think I've talked about this subject before...
 
There are three professional dungeons in southern California where you can tickle the girl of your choice for less than two hundred bucks - I never had the chance to do a tickling bondage session either, especially since I have the greatest fondness for younger female ticklees - I went to Passive Arts and spent an hour tickling a 25-year old Japanese girl - then I went back a second time and spent an hour tickling an 18-year old Filipina girl - but be warned - it's so great I can hardly wait to go back again.

www.passivearts.com

I've heard about that, but the thought of that makes me nervous. It's just I've never been to a place like that before. In the past, my tickling experiences have been pretty conservative... Could you tell me more about it? Like how long it lasts, what are the rules, is it discreet, do you just tickle them, can they tickle you, can they stay clothed (I'm not looking for nude tickling...) hmm, I guess I could just contact them, huh, ha ha!

I'll think about it, but for some reason, it scares me a little. Dunno why...
 
let's hear it for assumptions!

tickling may be a sexual thing for some, but not all. some people enjoy the sensation. some people enjoy the rush. and some people are just nuts.

ticklesfeet: best thing you can do is try not to focus on it so much. find someone you can share this with, but don't make it your #1 priority.

Thanks a lot for sticking up for me, cloudgazer... and I do follow your advice about not focusing. I try to keep myself busy, which makes me not think about it. It's usually during idle time that it pops in my head... or when I spend time on here... that's it, it's all your fault TMF... no it's not, I can't stay mad at you. 🙂

I think it's the whole being in a new place, not knowing a lot of people anxiety that makes me more concerned I can't find a tickle buddy... unless of course me and Drew Barrymore start hanging out, ha ha!
 
I've been feeling this way for the past 5 years. Welcome to the club. :wavingguy
 
They should have those in EVERY state.

I know - I've been trying to compile a list of professional dungeons - that means a dungeon with submissives or switches as well as dominas - some domina with a playroom is not a professional dungeon to me - so far, I've only found them in Los Angeles, Montreal, New York and Toronto - for me, that's a three or four hour flight away - I wish there was one in western Canada, especially the very wealthy city of Calgary, awash in oil revenue - if I had the money, I would set one up.
 
I've heard about that, but the thought of that makes me nervous. It's just I've never been to a place like that before. In the past, my tickling experiences have been pretty conservative... Could you tell me more about it? Like how long it lasts, what are the rules, is it discreet, do you just tickle them, can they tickle you, can they stay clothed (I'm not looking for nude tickling...) hmm, I guess I could just contact them, huh, ha ha!

I'll think about it, but for some reason, it scares me a little. Dunno why...

Oh, boy, now you've done it - I'm going to relive my entire first visit just for you - and talk about nervous - I thought about shelving the whole idea as I was driving down to Passive Arts from two stops in Hollywood and Universal City - and my hands were sweaty when I arrived there - and, get this, I am a highly experienced writer of tickling bondage with a tickling fetish that started in the seventh grade - I am middle aged now.

To begin with, Passive Arts is located on a main street just out by LAX, La Cienega Boulevard - it is an unmarked building with street parking in front and private parking along the side and in the back - it is simply one industrial building among others - nobody is likely to see you going there - there is an intercom bell at the front door that you ring and the door will be unlocked for you. It is totally discreet and they are very nice people who will make you feel comfortable right away.

When you enter, there is a desk staffed by either the owner, John, or one of the ladies who works there. They will ask you what you would like to do and you simply tell him or her that you would like a tickling session. You tell them if you want to do the tickling, if you want to be tickled, or both. They will ask you how long you would like your session to be - I suggest you ask for an hour since you can extend it if you want to. If you want to tickle a girl, you will pick a submissive - if you want to be tickled, you will pick a domina (Mistress Feral is a British lady expert at this) - if you want both, you will pick a switch. You could also ask for a switch only to tickle or be tickled if there is a partical switch lady you like.

For my first session at Passive Arts, I wanted a particular Japanese girl I had seen on their website, 25-year old Sachi, with a Japanese schoolgirl outfit - so, that's what she wore when she came in. Once you pick your girl, you and the girl will go to a private room and talk to each other - you will tell her what you want to do (tickle her) and other concerns (no nudity) - she will tell you her limits (no touching genitals, for example). If you are comfortable with each other, she will show you the various dungeon rooms available and take you back out to the front desk where you pay for your session. Then, you go into the dungeon room with her and you can tickle her (or have her tickle you, if that's what you're after).

As I said, the staff at Passive Arts are very nice - but they are also a group of talented professionals - your domina, switch or submissive will help you in your session - if you want to tickle her feet, for example, she can show you what bondage devices to use and how to use them - if you're not sure how to tickle her, she can tell you how and where to do it - and so on - they are there to help you and they want you to leave happy so that you'll be back again.

My suggestion - go to their website www.passivearts.com - click on ladies and then submissives (or dominas or switches) - look at the photos and bio for each one - the bios will tell you what the lady allows and doesn't allow - then click on schedules and see if the girl you like is available on the date and at the time you want (if she is in a session, though, you might have to wait) - then, go down there at the appropriate time. If you want to write to the particular girl before you go, there is an email link for each girl with her bio. If you need help picking a girl, the staff will be glad to help you.

So, go for it. You won't forget a session at Passive Arts.

And if it still scares you, I'll take you with me the next time I go there. We'll get a burger or something first and, if you're comfortable enough, we'll go there together.
 
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