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If you were dating someone and found out that he/she didn't like tickling.....

If you were seeing someone and they confessed they didn't like tickling, would you...


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ndj101982

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If you were in a relationship with a person who either wasn't ticklish, or didn't enjoy being tickled, would you stay with that person? I know this has been a controversial issue on here in the past because many members have stated that they wouldn't want a partner who isn't into tickling. For me, I'm not willing to spend the rest of my life alone unless I find a girl who is into tickling. Tickling is sexy, but it's not that big of a deal to me in a relationship.

Just wondering how many of you out there would consider a serious relationship with a person that didn't like to be tickled or the concept of tickling in general?
 
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Yep, if they let me A) keep my Dom (if I have one at the time), or B) let my play with others within predefined boundaries (no sex, he has to be present, etc). If not...well it ain't gonna work out.
 
Yep, if they let me A) keep my Dom (if I have one at the time), or B) let my play with others within predefined boundaries (no sex, he has to be present, etc). If not...well it ain't gonna work out.

You'd probably want option B then. You would be willing to carry on with the person just for the fun of dating, but knowing that eventually your lust for tickling will cause the relationship to end.
 
I would gradually end it. I'd just be dating them though, and it would be early in the relationship, so it wouldn't be a huge deal.
 
I would gradually end it. I'd just be dating them though, and it would be early in the relationship, so it wouldn't be a huge deal.

I hear ya. It would be kinda of strange to just be like "so you don't like tickling huh? Well, see ya!" That would definitely result in the girl telling people that you're strange.

A fun little anecdote though...My ex gf's aunt married some guy when they were barely 20. They guy was obsessed with sex and if she wasn't in the mood, he actually would burn a candle to soften the wax, then stick his dick into the soft wax and have sex with himself.
 
Tickling isn't everything. However knowing that I would never be completely sexually happy wouldn't work either. I would have to end it, which is why I will bring it up early in the relationship.
 
I always tickle my girlfriends. Only one made a comment, "You like tickling don't you?' My reply was yep. It was only a few weeks in the relationship so I didn't wanna say anything yet. Regardless that relationship didn't last long either. She did say uncle after a few seconds of me tickling her sides though. Now when you guys say you want a partner that is into tickling, do you mean they "get off" by it too or don't mind it so much? If the girl absolutely hates being tickled and gets annoyed/upset even with a little poke to her sides or lightly touch her neck etc, then I would probably end the relationship at some point gradually. However I don't think I will find someone that would wanna be restrained and tickled and vice versa.
 
I AM with somebody who not only dislikes tickling, but hates to be tickled.

Since we knew this about each other from the start and continued to be together, we made it clear that I need it in my sex life or things won't work out. While she still hates it, she lets me tickle her all I want because it satisfies me.
 
I would probably stay. Not being ticklish would be something she couldn't help, and hating to be tickled.. it's been my experience that most girls who are not into tickling, and who are ticklish, dont like being tickled.

What I would be more apt to be upset with.. is if I met someone who said : "You can never play with my feet, ever". Feet is just a body part.. like breasts. etc. My reply to that would be: "Why can I touch your breasts.. and other parts.. but not your feet?".

I think I would be more apt to end it with someone who said "No feet, ever", then for someone who isnt ticklish.. or didnt like to be tickled.

Mitch
 
If I meet someone that will compromise like every once in awhile have a little tickle session then yeah it could work. But if the person actually got upset everytime she was tickled even if it was once in awhile, then I'd be annoyed to.
 
Only 50% of the voters would consider pursuing a serious relationship if their gf/bf didn't like tickling.

I love tickling as a pre-cursor to sex, but it doesn't have to be done every time. I can't tell you how many days would go by when I wouldn't even think to give my ex gf light playful poke. Like anything else, I think it works best for me in moderation. I think if I tried to tickle a girl everyday it would get lame after a while and lose it's arousing affect.
 
If the scenario isn't simply that she "doesn't like tickling" but rather "will never allow me to tickle her at all (regardless of how lightly), under any circumstances, ever" then I'd have to go with option A. This would be a fundamental sexual incompatibility that would eventually poison the relationship.

That said, I can't imagine that I would have ever fallen in love with someone that wasn't prepared to allow it, even if only as a "special treat". Personally I intensely dislike having my nipples played with (it actually makes me feel sick) - but if that was something that the girl I loved desperately wanted to do me, and it would make her happy, then I'd damn well learn to live with it. In essence, it would be the total lack of willingness on her part to compromise at all about something that was really important to me that would be the deal-breaker.
 
If the scenario isn't simply that she "doesn't like tickling" but rather "will never allow me to tickle her at all (regardless of how lightly), under any circumstances, ever" then I'd have to go with option A. This would be a fundamental sexual incompatibility that would eventually poison the relationship.

That said, I can't imagine that I would have ever fallen in love with someone that wasn't prepared to allow it, even if only as a "special treat". Personally I intensely dislike having my nipples played with (it actually makes me feel sick) - but if that was something that the girl I loved desperately wanted to do me, and it would make her happy, then I'd damn well learn to live with it. In essence, it would be the total lack of willingness on her part to compromise at all about something that was really important to me that would be the deal-breaker.

To keep this poll simple, we'll go with Tickling is simply not gonna happen. He/she just flat out doesn't like it.

For me personally, personality is the make or break aspect. A moody girl that likes tickling isn't worth the aguing and frustration in other parts of the relationship. On the other hand, a really nice girl who just doesn't like tickling, because maybe she had a traumatic experience as a child or something, is worth staying with if I like spending time with her.
 
While she still hates it, she lets me tickle her all I want because it satisfies me.

I doubt it will continue to be that way though! At one point in time, she will most likely cut it off - probably after you put the ring on her finger. 🙂

But what I don't get either: Why do something to her that you know she hates? Don't you love her?
 
I doubt it will continue to be that way though! At one point in time, she will most likely cut it off - probably after you put the ring on her finger. 🙂

But what I don't get either: Why do something to her that you know she hates? Don't you love her?

Selfishness: Morality for a shitload of men.
 
I doubt it will continue to be that way though! At one point in time, she will most likely cut it off - probably after you put the ring on her finger. 🙂

But what I don't get either: Why do something to her that you know she hates? Don't you love her?

I doubt we'll ever break up over tickling. We've talked about it on day one and it's been a year (minus breaking up for a while in between... not because of tickling though).

I do it because it's what I need in a relationship, and while she hates it, it usually leads to other things that make it all worth it for her. And when it doesn't, she can live with the playful tickles.

All in all, I combine tickling with other things that make for a pleasant experience, even if she hates the tickling part.
 
I doubt we'll ever break up over tickling. We've talked about it on day one and it's been a year (minus breaking up for a while in between... not because of tickling though).

I do it because it's what I need in a relationship, and while she hates it, it usually leads to other things that make it all worth it for her. And when it doesn't, she can live with the playful tickles.

All in all, I combine tickling with other things that make for a pleasant experience, even if she hates the tickling part.


Did she have a traumatic experience growing up? Like, did her creepy uncle used to tickle her, or did her parents use tickling are a way to punish her for being bad (i've known this to happen).
 
I've never been out with a woman who I didn't try to tickle on the 1st date. That's the whole reason I'm out with her in the 1st place, to get some tickling action (and also in the long run to find out if she's someone who I could see fulfilling my needs). So if she's not ticklish or objects to being tickled, that's the end of it right there. As far as a relationship goes, it would have to come up as something new during the relationship that she didn't want to be tickled anymore. If that happened, she can either do it because it makes me happy or there's the door.
 
I'm looking at both sides here. I dated a girl for two years that tolerated ticking, and she was very ticklish by the way but did not want to have it happen to her all the time and I understood.

I had marathon tickling sessions with her and she laughed like a hyena but I did it in moderation and never for long periods of a time. She was fine with it and even wore nylons because she knew it turned me on, then let me tickle her for awhile because she knew if I was that turned on, she would have great sex. Theres the trade off, she let me tickle her and she got the best sex. That is the perfect girl my friends...

Unfortunately she was kind of a drama queen and it ended with her but at least we connected that way.

I guess my point is, you have to find someone who at least tolerates it and indulges you from time to time, if not shes not the one. At the very least she should let you play with her feet if not straight tickling.
 
I'm looking at both sides here. I dated a girl for two years that tolerated ticking, and she was very ticklish by the way but did not want to have it happen to her all the time and I understood.

I had marathon tickling sessions with her and she laughed like a hyena but I did it in moderation and never for long periods of a time. She was fine with it and even wore nylons because she knew it turned me on, then let me tickle her for awhile because she knew if I was that turned on, she would have great sex. Theres the trade off, she let me tickle her and she got the best sex. That is the perfect girl my friends...

Unfortunately she was kind of a drama queen and it ended with her but at least we connected that way.

I guess my point is, you have to find someone who at least tolerates it and indulges you from time to time, if not shes not the one. At the very least she should let you play with her feet if not straight tickling.


That's awesome. Unfortunately for you, all her friends and new boyfriends definitely have been told you are into tickling as a sexual stimulant. That's the only thing that kept me from telling my ex. I knew if it ended that tickle fetish would be outed to everyone, and she knew lots of people I knew.
 
She just doesn't like it, that's about all there is to it. Yeah her dad did it in the past, but that's not where it comes from I don't think. She just doesn't like it.

But she's perfectly okay with it so long as I'm the only one that does it because she understands it's something I need. I told her from the get go and she knew she hated it from the get go, so she isn't doing it for any other reason than she wants to which sounds pretty healthy to me.

By the way, to those who said I'm selfish or some fuck like that.... do you open your mouths like that in public before assessing the situation and getting your facts straight? If you do, you are very lucky you have not come across somebody who has punched you in the jaw. 🙂
 
She just doesn't like it, that's about all there is to it. Yeah her dad did it in the past, but that's not where it comes from I don't think. She just doesn't like it.

But she's perfectly okay with it so long as I'm the only one that does it because she understands it's something I need. I told her from the get go and she knew she hated it from the get go, so she isn't doing it for any other reason than she wants to which sounds pretty healthy to me.

By the way, to those who said I'm selfish or some fuck like that.... do you open your mouths like that in public before assessing the situation and getting your facts straight? If you do, you are very lucky you have not come across somebody who has punched you in the jaw. 🙂


I feel ya. So many people on here consider themselves the moral police and cast judgment on others. As the saying goes, "people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones."
 
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