I'm too shy to open up my intrest in tickling to other girls what should i do?

[Kenny1288]

help? lol im afraid it may scare them away

 

[maniactickler]

I could never admit to a woman i have a tickling fetish. they usually find out i like tickling as just a fun, playful, thing that i enjoy. then i gauge their reaction based on that.

 

[LD_Tickler]

Well don't shout it from the rooftops.

No need to tell anyone until you need to. If you wind up with a girlfriend and tickling is a sexual necessity, bring it up then, once some trust and and strength have built up between you.

Also, don't use the word 'fetish' if and when that happens. Just say it turns you on, or you find it sexy.

 

[Scouse]

Be it tickling or something as simple as a fondness for boobs, if you announce it to a potential playmate at the start, it may seem a little strange to them. However if you pay their boobs a lot of attention when you're alone together she'll work it out soon enough.

Works the same with tickling 🙂

 

[spillane22]

Message from Dorothy--

All good counsel (above)--

Don't appear to be embarrassed; that sort of handicap wll prove infectious (the girl, who may actually gauge the fetish as fun, will suddenly apply a darker shade to the activity). First, be a really good listener. And just be yourself. Casually integrate "tickling" into your conversation without inhibition (don't preface it with "This is going to sound strange" or "This is going to sound whacked!" That's death. She'll impulsively assume that the fetish actually is strange or whacked). Just admit that "laughter" is a turn-on. Remember, tickling isn't a heresy nor it is misogynic (there's plenty of fetishes that lapse into the latter category). To be succinct, THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING "WRONG" WITH TICKLING. There's a likelihood the girl may have met dudes with really sinister psyches; she'll probably be relieved that tickling is your turn-on. Have fun!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

Do you have a specific girl in mind? Or do you just mean in general?

If you mean in general, which I suspect you do, join the club! LOL The vast majority of people have either gone through, or continue to go through the struggles of telling S.O.'s

My best advice is don't be eager to tell every single girl you're remotely interested in if you're not comfortable with that. Wait, feel it out, and get comfortable with her. When the time comes that you want to tell her, mention it casually. Maybe after you get done tickling her, which I'm sure you'll do LOL when ya'll are lying there out of breath and snuggling, just say "I love tickling you. You're so cute I just can't get enough...do you have fun too?" and take it from there.

Best of luck!!!

 

[Artoo]

Pretty much what everyone else has said. If you don't feel comfortable telling someone about your love of tickling, ask yourself why it is? It may be (as you said) because you are shy, but it may also be to do with how intimate you are with the person in question. You'll have to guage how much of it is to do with your shyness on a case-by-case basis.

Having said that, it's okay to step out of your comfort zone once in a while. Most girls I've told about my fetish have said it sounded fun, many of them said they'd be willing to try it, and none of them responded negatively. Compared to some of the things people are into, it's relatively "tame", and in that lies it's strength; it's not nearly so difficult to talk to people about as, for example, scat fetishism.

 

[Musicroxmysox]

Like everyone else has said, just gauge a girls reaction to how they respond to hints at tickling. Take your time with telling someone. There really is no rush. Eventually you will find someone who is understanding and also accepting.

 

[DamselAdmirer]

help? lol im afraid it may scare them away

I'll throw out my view on the subject. Others may not agree.

I think it is best to be up front with your erotic interests. If it scares someone off, so much the better. You will waste no time that way. You can look elsewhere, and you will not wind up in the position of having to ask "How do I get my significant other(s) to like my erotic interests?"

You may well be surprised how in this day-and-age many people will not freak when you calmly announce your interests. If someone likes what you like, great! If not, there is no reason that you still can't be friends, even if not erotic partners. If the person can't handle your "weird" interests, you are better off knowing that at the beginning.

 

[Scouse]

Although I suppose it depends on the tickling in question. Every girl I've been in any way involved with, be it kissing and cuddling at age 14 or more serious stuff nowdays, tickling has been involved. Its combined with nibbling, licking and other forms of foreplay. I could list countless examples of guys tickling their girlfriends who DON'T have a fetish for tickling.

Now, tying a girl up and tickling the bejesus out of her is a different game altogether.