Incorporating tickling and bondage into sexy times for the first time - advice

[BritTickler]

Hello all. I've been in a few relationships before and, whilst I've always been completely open and honest about my (many!) fetishes, somehow I've never really managed to explore them with a partner too extensively. I'm now with a more much sexually open and adventurous girl - and happily one I'm a lot emotionally closer too as well! - and she's keen to explore a little. She's been happy with me giving her a few quick tickles during sex/oral/whatever, but nothing too intense yet. She seems to have a few mild sub tendencies... she's very keen to get into at least some mild bondage, although the most we've done so far is to (badly!) tie her to the bed with a scarf before getting down to naughty sexy times, plus the occasional quick tickle 😉 Any better household things which could be used for such purposes? Techniques for tying? (I didn't have much luck) Or better, what would be a good 'starter kit' of stuff to get from a sex shop for light bondage and tickling play? Anyway her general bondage/submissive interest, combined with an aversion to any serious pain or hardcore stuff, would seem to make some naughty sexy time tickling a good choice for her 🙂 But neither is tickling something she has any real natural interest in, so obviously no hardcore 'tickle torture' type sessions would seem in order, to begin with at least... I want to combine tickling with the light bondage, subbing and sex she craves to give her a great experience. So any tips on how to introduce all this in the most pleasurable way possible? And perhaps on how later to place more emphasis on tickling as a pleasurable activity for its own sake.

Many thanks!

p.s. I imagine this sort of question must have been extensively dealth with on these sort of forums before, but a search didn't reveal much, so sorry if this is going over old ground 🙂

 

[icebadger26]

Communication with her is always going to be the key to this happening for you and her. Make sure you both understand each other and what you both expect. If you are both on the same page with this then maybe explore getting a decent bondage set together. I do wish you luck with this.

 

[iloveddub]

You could purchase an under the bed restraint kit. It's velcro and adjustable. Try different things, and make sure you respect what she doesn't like. We all have preferences, and hers being respected will help things move forward easier.