Found this on youtube about tickling. Please watch and tell me if you agree.
http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=RhZ3STlHl-k&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=RhZ3STlHl-k&feature=related
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Uh...
I agree with the statements in the video about as much as I believe purity pledges actually work in keeping people from having sex--which amounts to zero.
The big problem with the statements are the generalities. "Do you have tickle fights with your buddies?" "I'll bet he says no."
I'll tell you one thing--I'm not headed to Las Vegas with that guy. Loser.
Getting your hormones racing when you are tickling someone means you have sexual feelings for that person before you tickle them. The question asked is a veiled version of "are you gay?" What do you think a straight guy is going to say?
What's really offensive about the video is that it gives the impression sex must happen when tickling is occurring. That'll be big news to grandma next time she tickles the baby.
If sex becomes a must for every single time you tickle someone, it's a problem. But if you can tickle anyone just for enjoyment and be certain the other person shares in the fun, then you have a great attitude about tickling and will get the most out of it along with solidifying your friendships.
I agree with the statements in the video about as much as I believe purity pledges actually work in keeping people from having sex--which amounts to zero.
The big problem with the statements are the generalities. "Do you have tickle fights with your buddies?" "I'll bet he says no."
I'll tell you one thing--I'm not headed to Las Vegas with that guy. Loser.
Getting your hormones racing when you are tickling someone means you have sexual feelings for that person before you tickle them. The question asked is a veiled version of "are you gay?" What do you think a straight guy is going to say?
What's really offensive about the video is that it gives the impression sex must happen when tickling is occurring. That'll be big news to grandma next time she tickles the baby.
If sex becomes a must for every single time you tickle someone, it's a problem. But if you can tickle anyone just for enjoyment and be certain the other person shares in the fun, then you have a great attitude about tickling and will get the most out of it along with solidifying your friendships.
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The thing is, tickling can be flirting, and it is often the ideal form of it: when people transition from being "just friends" to being intimate, tickling expedites the change, as it is often percieved as being merely mischevious. But think about it--no other ostensibly "harmless" social interaction allows one to touch another with whom he/she is not necessarily intimate quite as much as does tickling, and have it be percieved as innocuous fun at that.
For me, tickling is always sexual. Always. I don't tickle anyone about whom I wouldn't be comfortable fantasizing later on because I can't divorce the sexual and the social components. So, if I tickle someone, it's usually because I find them attractive--which means I don't tickle family members and a good amount of friends.
That being said, I still agree that it's wrong to say that tickling is always sexual. Many of my friends tickle one another all the time, guys and girls included, many of whom I know for a fact don't have a tickling fetish (yes. for a fact). When they tickle one another, it's just for fun.
Tickling can be a lot of things. Sexual, friendly, mean-spirited. . . for most people, it's many. but for the rest, like me, and, i suppose, the individual who posted the youtube video, it's one.
For me, tickling is always sexual. Always. I don't tickle anyone about whom I wouldn't be comfortable fantasizing later on because I can't divorce the sexual and the social components. So, if I tickle someone, it's usually because I find them attractive--which means I don't tickle family members and a good amount of friends.
That being said, I still agree that it's wrong to say that tickling is always sexual. Many of my friends tickle one another all the time, guys and girls included, many of whom I know for a fact don't have a tickling fetish (yes. for a fact). When they tickle one another, it's just for fun.
Tickling can be a lot of things. Sexual, friendly, mean-spirited. . . for most people, it's many. but for the rest, like me, and, i suppose, the individual who posted the youtube video, it's one.
This video is retarded.
The answer is so simple except to someone narrowminded like the creator of this video. Tickling could be sexual. It could be innocent flirting. It could be nothing but friendly fun. It could be highly arousing. Growing up tickling was a fun thing...nothing sexual, more of just a fascination I guess you could say. Getting older, it began to change when I saw girls get tickled. When I became sexually active it became a whole different ballgame.
But I can still tickle out of just friendly fun. I just got out of a relationship with a girl that I tickled constantly, sometimes fun, sometimes sexual.
As lame as this video is, I would agree with it if it didn't imply that the only reason a guy would ever a tickle a girl is to get into her pants. As great as tickling is it isn't always like that.
The only other thing I liked about this video was the redhead. 😀
The answer is so simple except to someone narrowminded like the creator of this video. Tickling could be sexual. It could be innocent flirting. It could be nothing but friendly fun. It could be highly arousing. Growing up tickling was a fun thing...nothing sexual, more of just a fascination I guess you could say. Getting older, it began to change when I saw girls get tickled. When I became sexually active it became a whole different ballgame.
But I can still tickle out of just friendly fun. I just got out of a relationship with a girl that I tickled constantly, sometimes fun, sometimes sexual.
As lame as this video is, I would agree with it if it didn't imply that the only reason a guy would ever a tickle a girl is to get into her pants. As great as tickling is it isn't always like that.
The only other thing I liked about this video was the redhead. 😀
