is it wrong to like tickling someone who hates to be tickled?

[eclipse]

Well, I wouldn't exactly call it illegal, but don't do it if they really hate it. It's just...mean.

 

[LD_Tickler]

is it wrong to like tickling someone who hates to be tickled

I'm going to make a pretty critical distinction here. The question is, is it wrong to like it. Not is it wrong to do it.

I very seriously and profoundly believe it is not, nor can it be wrong, to like, or think, or feel any thing. Thus, it is not wrong to like tickling somebody who hates it.

You've all been discussing actually tickling somebody who hates it, not liking it. There's a difference.

 

[BlackestLily]

...or does it just belong in the fantasy world?

If they don't like it, then they don't like it. Contrary to the popular belief of stories here, people don't tickle others who hate it and suddenly that person becomes inflamed and bursting with sexuality, begging you for sex afterwards and their secret love of non-con tickling sprouts forth like a weed with a vengeance. Mostly they may punch you in the nads. If you like that, the please continue, but otherwise, tsk tsk and no no.

Sorry babe.

 

[CD216]

Is it wrong to like tickling someone who doesn't like to be tickled? No, technically it's not wrong to like doing it. However, it IS wrong to continue to do it incessently when you know they dislike it.

Case in point, I refer you to my ex girlfriend from senior year of high school. Girl absolutely hated to be tickled, which caused a wee bit of an issue for me since, ya know, I tend to enjoy tickling and being tickled. As a result, I would lightly, quickly tickle her on occasion, but never anything serious because I knew it would end in me pissing her off, which would suck. She never knew about my fetish, so maybe if she did she would have lightened up a bit, but I opted to never pull the question up in our year long ordeal.

Slightly long story short: If it's gonna make the person mad, don't do it bulk. It's fine to like doing it, but there are simply too many factors to take into consideration, and if its going to do more harm than good, you should probably pass.

Least that's my two cents anyway.

 

[luvtoez_1982]

I always play with a safe word, so until they say the safe word, tickle away!

 

[Mephistopheles]

I always have to keep my sadistic side in line at such moments. With varying results.

 

[LD_Tickler]

I always have to keep my sadistic side in line at such moments. With varying results.

You even attempting to restrain yourself is cause for celebration, Meph. 😉 `

 

[Mephistopheles]

You even attempting to restrain yourself is cause for celebration, Meph. 😉 `

😀

Let's just say it's a good thing that I'm not in a position in which the rules of a free society do not apply. Bad things would happen.

 

[SilverHealer84]

I think it's VERY wrong. I don't like invading other people's personal space, especially if they hate it being invaded or are tickle-phobic. It squicks me out to even think of it. And besides, I wouldn't find it fun in the least o_o

 

[Rectangle]

Depends.
Outside of the fetish world, most tickling goes on against someone's will, dont it?

If its like, malicious, then yeah, its wrong, like everything else meant that way.

If its some girlfriend tickling her boyfriend for a few minutes to "beat him up" playfully and he wants it to stop, well, he can just suck it up lol.

 

[Coda]

I don't think it's wrong to <I>like</I> anything, since liking things takes place only in one's mind, and can't hurt anyone. Fantasies are the appropriate venue in which to explore all desires, regardless of acceptability.

It can please or hurt people to actually do things, though, and it matters that we're thoughtful and considerate about our actions outside of privacy.