Is This a Common Thing? Tickling While He Watches?

[laughsforhim]

Hi everyone,

I’m L, and my boyfriend (J) has always had a thing for tickling — especially when it comes to me. Lately, he’s been sharing little thoughts about how hot it would be to see someone else tickling me while he just… watches. Not in a serious, planned way — more like random teasing comments that I’ve started thinking about a bit more than I expected to.

I’ve never really seen tickling as anything beyond playful, but the way he talks about it — and the way he looks at me when he does — makes me wonder if there's more to it. The idea of being tickled by someone else, with him watching from the side, kind of half-teasing and half-possessive… I guess it’s starting to stick in my mind.

I’m just wondering if this kind of thing is common in the tickling world? Like, is that something people actually do — one person tickling while the boyfriend or partner watches? And if so, what’s a good way to ease into something like that, especially if you’ve never done anything outside your own relationship before?

I’m not really looking for anything wild right now — just curious how people explore this kind of dynamic and what makes it work. Would love to hear from anyone who’s experienced it, or even just thought about it.

Thanks for reading,
– L🙂

 

[WickedTouch]

There are definitely people into this. In the wider kink world, there are those that like to do things to others, those that like to have things done to them, those that like to be seen having things done to them, and those that like to watch things being done to others.. The last two are basically variations on exhibitionism and voyeurism kinks. Sometimes a cuckold dynamic comes into play as well, but not always. When one person in a couple has exhibitionist tendencies and the other has voyeur tendencies, the natural fantasy of an outside ler tickling the lee of the couple becomes satisfying for everyone involved. For some people, that is only fantasy, and there is no desire for it to manifest in reality. For others, it's how they spend their Sunday afternoons. If you do decide to pursue something like this, obviously clear, careful communication is required between all involved, and ensuring that all boundaries are established and respected.

This is personally not my thing. My wife and I do occasionally play with others, but it's usually with everyone playing an active role. Sure, sometimes one of us sits out to let one-on-one rotations occur, but the intent is not as much the voyeur/exhibitionist dynamic. We generally only play with females, but we've considered doing this with a couple that has this kind of dynamic. At this point, I think it's just something we're wrapping our minds around, as it is not as intuitive for us. But playing with others in all sorts of different contexts is doable. You just want to move slow and keep the boundaries clear and the communication flowing.

 

[South_Atmo]

A model I worked with, Tori, her husband absolutely loved seeing her tickled almost more than tickling her, himself.

 

[torturoustickle]

Voyeurism is quite big in the tickling community. There are a lot of threads dedicated to it. Your boyfriend is certainly not alone with that desire.
As with a lot of fetishes some people like to play in public, some in private. As long as you are both on the same page, I'm sure you will have fun. 🪶

 

[laughsforhim]

There are definitely people into this. In the wider kink world, there are those that like to do things to others, those that like to have things done to them, those that like to be seen having things done to them, and those that like to watch things being done to others.. The last two are basically variations on exhibitionism and voyeurism kinks. Sometimes a cuckold dynamic comes into play as well, but not always. When one person in a couple has exhibitionist tendencies and the other has voyeur tendencies, the natural fantasy of an outside ler tickling the lee of the couple becomes satisfying for everyone involved. For some people, that is only fantasy, and there is no desire for it to manifest in reality. For others, it's how they spend their Sunday afternoons. If you do decide to pursue something like this, obviously clear, careful communication is required between all involved, and ensuring that all boundaries are established and respected.

This is personally not my thing. My wife and I do occasionally play with others, but it's usually with everyone playing an active role. Sure, sometimes one of us sits out to let one-on-one rotations occur, but the intent is not as much the voyeur/exhibitionist dynamic. We generally only play with females, but we've considered doing this with a couple that has this kind of dynamic. At this point, I think it's just something we're wrapping our minds around, as it is not as intuitive for us. But playing with others in all sorts of different contexts is doable. You just want to move slow and keep the boundaries clear and the communication flowing.

Okay that's nice to know!

There are definitely people into this. In the wider kink world, there are those that like to do things to others, those that like to have things done to them, those that like to be seen having things done to them, and those that like to watch things being done to others.. The last two are basically variations on exhibitionism and voyeurism kinks. Sometimes a cuckold dynamic comes into play as well, but not always. When one person in a couple has exhibitionist tendencies and the other has voyeur tendencies, the natural fantasy of an outside ler tickling the lee of the couple becomes satisfying for everyone involved. For some people, that is only fantasy, and there is no desire for it to manifest in reality. For others, it's how they spend their Sunday afternoons. If you do decide to pursue something like this, obviously clear, careful communication is required between all involved, and ensuring that all boundaries are established and respected.

This is personally not my thing. My wife and I do occasionally play with others, but it's usually with everyone playing an active role. Sure, sometimes one of us sits out to let one-on-one rotations occur, but the intent is not as much the voyeur/exhibitionist dynamic. We generally only play with females, but we've considered doing this with a couple that has this kind of dynamic. At this point, I think it's just something we're wrapping our minds around, as it is not as intuitive for us. But playing with others in all sorts of different contexts is doable. You just want to move slow and keep the boundaries clear and the communication flowing.

Thank you for the intel, it's good to know. I never had any problems with it but he also never wanted to try it he just likes the fantasy. I wouldn't definitely not be comfortable with it happening in real life..
But then again it's only fantasy so it's okay

 

[laughsforhim]

A model I worked with, Tori, her husband absolutely loved seeing her tickled almost more than tickling her, himself.

That's definitely not his thing ahah again, just fantasy

 

[laughsforhim]

Voyeurism is quite big in the tickling community. There are a lot of threads dedicated to it. Your boyfriend is certainly not alone with that desire.
As with a lot of fetishes some people like to play in public, some in private. As long as you are both on the same page, I'm sure you will have fun. 🪶

It's just weird for me because i am not into it so o don't have any ideas that i can tease him with because he likes being teased

 

[kucheeku]

Hey, if there are Chicago m/f couples who are into having me tickle him while she watches, let me know

 

[bandt001]

It's just weird for me because i am not into it so o don't have any ideas that i can tease him with because he likes being teased

I bet some folks here could give you some links to on-theme stories to give you several ideas... ;-)

 

[laughsforhim]

I bet some folks here could give you some links to on-theme stories to give you several ideas... ;-)

That would be super awesome! He did suggest that i could come here to gather ideas so.. 😀

 

[torturoustickle]

It's just weird for me because i am not into it so o don't have any ideas that i can tease him with because he likes being teased

I totally get that.
Voyeurism is a kink in itself totally different to whatever the "watcher" likes watching. Lol
I am curious though. Is your bf on this site as well? This is predominantly a tickling site. Though there are people who do advertise in the personals section along the lines of what you are talking about.

 

[laughsforhim]

I totally get that.
Voyeurism is a kink in itself totally different to whatever the "watcher" likes watching. Lol
I am curious though. Is your bf on this site as well? This is predominantly a tickling site. Though there are people who do advertise in the personals section along the lines of what you are talking about.

Uhm he also likes to tickle himself yes and sometimes i just tell him some stories of someone else tickling my feet

 

[bandt001]

That would be super awesome! He did suggest that i could come here to gather ideas so.. 😀

Here's one a quick search turned up... can any of you gentlemen help the lady out with more??

https://www.ticklingforum.com/threa...anticipated-session-with-my-wife-mm-f.447466/

Also one from the True Stories forum...

J

Thread 'Finally had a long anticipated session with my wife (MM/F)'

Apr 9, 2025

Calling my wife X for privacy.
We finally did it. And can’t wait to do it again.

So, last Saturday night, April 5, 2025, I pulled off this insane fantasy with my wife, X. She’s 23, 5 feet even, with this tight, curvy little body that’s been killing me since we tied the knot four years ago. X has these full C-cup tits, perky and perfect, with dark, dusky nipples that get stiff at the lightest touch, a tiny waist that flares out into hips I can’t stop grabbing, and these smooth, toned legs that look unreal on her petite frame. Her skin’s this creamy olive shade, and her dark hair falls...

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