No- he has no desire for "vanilla sex". Thing is... I don't either... I enjoy being kinky and adventurous. My concern is that he is so into porn that real physical contact doesn't arouse him anymore. Or perhaps it is me that doesn't arouse him... but since he is affectionate in other ways, it makes me wonder. Any thoughts? I want to save my relationship, but this is a deal-breaker.
Have you talked to him about the issue at all? What does he say?