It's all about the mood, dude

[OmahaTickler]

People sometimes ask on this forum and others---do you get off on (A, B or C) of tickling, or do you get off on the (A, B or C)?

For me, it depends on my mood. There's no hard and fast "urge" that aplies to every case. Sometimes, it's about sensory stuff----the sounds of giggles, the feeling of wriggling, jiggling flesh under my fingers, the sight of painted toes or wrinkles in soles....sometimes it's about the helplessness of the ticklee, the power trip of that person being at your mercy...AND NO, JUST BECAUSE YOU POWER-TRIP AS A TICKLER NOW AND THEN DOESN'T MEAN IT'S S&M/B&D.

Sometimes, you want semi-spontaneity, i.e. scam your girlfriend/wife into a foot massage, then just when they start to doze, begin a tickling frenzy, or else become a tickling alarm clock as you raspberry her belly/pits/butt to wake her up.

So the next time you're asked: What gets you off about tickling? Just answer: What time is it?

 

[LD_Tickler]

I'm pretty specific in what aspect I like: the objectification and domination. What varies with my mood is what specific details I connect to that aspect. So while it's true that sometimes I may prefer to be direct while at other times I may adopt a voyeuristic role, they're all reducible to objectification. The variables are simply tactics.