its been said before but

[sugarmouse]

im a bit nutted at the mo because my bf has told me i have put a bit of weight on, he insists im stil beautiful and he just told me for my sake because he knows i wont like to get a lot bigger so he thought hed tell me before it got out of control. thing is, i seem to get fatter when im happy, and he makes me happy, so its his folt! im more self conscious when hes tickling me now tho, because i know hes noticign. what do the guys here think, do u prefer to tickle realy slim women, bigger ones, or arent you bothered either way? at the moment i couldnt care les im quite happy with the way i look, so he can sod off! lol

 

[chrisheaven]

im a bit nutted at the mo because my bf has told me i have put a bit of weight on, he insists im stil beautiful and he just told me for my sake because he knows i wont like to get a lot bigger so he thought hed tell me before it got out of control. thing is, i seem to get fatter when im happy, and he makes me happy, so its his folt! im more self conscious when hes tickling me now tho, because i know hes noticign. what do the guys here think, do u prefer to tickle realy slim women, bigger ones, or arent you bothered either way? at the moment i couldnt care les im quite happy with the way i look, so he can sod off! lol

don't worry!
it's entirely up to you how you wish to look!

 

[The Pianist]

Slim is nice... not slim is still nice.... I preferr people that are not too overwieght. But you are right, its totally up to you how you look...but the thing I always think about when I hear that... is all the chemistry, biology and general health stuff that I've done and remember all the nasty things that come with being overwieght... the lower life expectancy, increased chances of XYZ occurring.

Ummm...yeah... a little extra wieght is fine. Just for yourself (not anyone else) stay clear of getting too heavy.

 

[the_Baron]

you're just so damn cute its not relevant. and, as long as you're nice and you're ticklish, you're perfect!

(oh yeah - you want me now! 😛 )

 

[Deleted member 2452]

i'd rather..

.. a girl to be 10lbs over wt., than 10lbs under wt..
here's a thought, just talk with him, no rancor, just straight discussion. does it bother him that you have gained a few lbs.?
if it bothers him, then you have a choice to make.
simple really.

steve

 

[Krokus]

Just remember, your happiness with yourself is all that matters. It would be wise to keep in shape though. For your health, if nothing else.

 

[cs217903]

It doesn't matter, as long as you're still tickling and you have a cute giggle! 🙂

 

[Traveler]

Well,here we go.My bf thinks I"m fat,my mother thinks I am getting old and should be married.My sister has three kids and wonders why I don't have any.I went to my class reunion and I was the fattest one there.We live in a negative world,people seem to only feel good when,they have a problem.Well,get over it be happy.I personally am not going to let anyone make me unhappy because of the way I look,the car I drive or where I live.And,when it comes to body size,that don't matter,you love what's inside not outside and if someone can't love you because you go up a dress size or a waist size in pants.They probably didn't love you in the first place.If you are happy with you hell,with the rest of them.

 

[sugarmouse]

lol i can dig yu there!! my sister aslo thinks i should have kids , my mom wants me to get married, my gran wants me to dye my hair and get a job instead of studying! im jus tryin to stop eating junk now! lol
an thanku to baron for callin me cute! yes im still ticklish and loving it!lol

 

[chrisheaven]

glad to hear you're still so ticklish- just keep on loving it- and have fun!😀

 

[daddy]

sugar dear...first always be happy with who YOU are and what you feel comfortable with. Second, you can work this too your advantage. I read this book one time called "The dieters guide to weight loss during sex" and believe it or not it actually said the most calories that could be burned was by being tickled and trying to escape from the bondage!!! Sooooooooo...maybe b/f needs a hint or two???

peace out,
your bud daddy

 

[dreamboy]

Sugar - the important thing is that you DO like the way you look; guys may come and go, but YOU are with you 24/7, and as long as you are satisfied right now, SUPER ! 😀
Since you ask what guys here like, IMHO, I go for a person who is comfortable and at ease with herself, whatever her physical appearance. And if other people aren't pleased with how you are, it's not really YOUR problem to deal with.