(I can't believe I've got the guts to make this thread🙂)
Everyone...shut up and listen to me
I
Have
Been
Changed
😀
(I warned a certain somebody I was gonna start a thread when I came home from seeing him, so here it is
. Be prepared to see a lot of 😀's throughout this post 😀)
I want those who have gotten to share this kink with someone they love to weigh in and share what it is that makes tickling such a blissful thing to share openly in a relationship. There is no doubt in my mind that for those whom this kink is intimate and sensual/sexual, that it creates a ridiculously blissful element that cannot be experienced in a relationship where the mutual desire of tickling cannot/does not take place. I'm not talking to those of you for whom this is only friendly fun, I'm talking to those of you who know full well how much it turns you on to explore tickling in your intimate relationship.
What's the point of this thread besides that? Before meeting and subsequently spending a few days with TKLMAN (whom I love the f*** out of because he is an awesome and amazing human being, funny as hell, intelligent, a f***ing gentleman, and a deviant/devilish bastard of a tickler)
...where was I?
Oh yeah, before all this sh** happened and having my very first actual tickling session with him, I had it in my brain that tickling wasn't all that big a deal to have as a part of a relationship. That I could ultimately be happy with someone who probably didn't share my kink. I know now that's a lie...a big fat lie...there's no way I would ever want to hide this part of myself from the person I loved, and furthermore, to have someone who truly enjoys and is fantastic at destroying my f***ing sanity 🙂D) is the best feeling in the whole world to me. To see the enjoyment on his face as he drove me out of my f***ing mind was the warmest and most beautiful feeling I've ever had looking at another human being. No Bullsh** 😀.
But also to not have to hide how much I...enjoy
what's happening to me, is more freeing than I ever thought possible.
There have been a lot of threads lately, some expressing anxiety about sharing this kink with a significant other, some about the inability to find someone to hook up with for a session. Advice has been given to start participating in this wonderful forum. That is the only way. And open your mind to the possibility of connecting to someone and possibly developing a deeper/romantic connection to them. Ladies, all the guys on here are not creeps. Guys, treat getting to know the ladies like you would in person...slowly, and sincerely (Sincerity or GTFO 😀) We're all people with interests and sh** in common besides tickling. Tickling is a given here, so what's left is to get to know the people behind the 'given'. Make friends.
Make more than friends
😀. Because I am convinced that this is the most wonderful thing to be able to share intimately with someone you love.
If you think you can live without it, fine. But I'm not fooling myself a second longer. This is a magnificent thing to have go on in a relationship openly, and actually enjoyed by both parties, not just someone going along with tickling.
So I think I have a point somewhere 😀. I don't want nay-sayers here. I want those who are able to openly share this in their relationship to say what is so great about that, perhaps even more so than relationships where tickling was not present. How much more comfortable do you feel with yourself sharing this with someone you love? That sort of thing.
Like I said...I've been f***ing changed. And I've never
felt more wonderful in my life.
😀
(I swear I hope I didn't embarrass him by writing this...but f*** it. 😀 Too late plus I said I was gonna. 
)
Everyone...shut up and listen to me
I
Have
Been
Changed
😀
(I warned a certain somebody I was gonna start a thread when I came home from seeing him, so here it is
. Be prepared to see a lot of 😀's throughout this post 😀)I want those who have gotten to share this kink with someone they love to weigh in and share what it is that makes tickling such a blissful thing to share openly in a relationship. There is no doubt in my mind that for those whom this kink is intimate and sensual/sexual, that it creates a ridiculously blissful element that cannot be experienced in a relationship where the mutual desire of tickling cannot/does not take place. I'm not talking to those of you for whom this is only friendly fun, I'm talking to those of you who know full well how much it turns you on to explore tickling in your intimate relationship.
What's the point of this thread besides that? Before meeting and subsequently spending a few days with TKLMAN (whom I love the f*** out of
because he is an awesome and amazing human being, funny as hell, intelligent, a f***ing gentleman, and a deviant/devilish bastard of a tickler)...where was I?
Oh yeah, before all this sh** happened and having my very first actual tickling session with him, I had it in my brain that tickling wasn't all that big a deal to have as a part of a relationship. That I could ultimately be happy with someone who probably didn't share my kink. I know now that's a lie...a big fat lie...there's no way I would ever want to hide this part of myself from the person I loved, and furthermore, to have someone who truly enjoys and is fantastic at destroying my f***ing sanity 🙂D) is the best feeling in the whole world to me. To see the enjoyment on his face as he drove me out of my f***ing mind was the warmest and most beautiful feeling I've ever had looking at another human being. No Bullsh** 😀.
But also to not have to hide how much I...enjoy
what's happening to me, is more freeing than I ever thought possible. There have been a lot of threads lately, some expressing anxiety about sharing this kink with a significant other, some about the inability to find someone to hook up with for a session. Advice has been given to start participating in this wonderful forum. That is the only way. And open your mind to the possibility of connecting to someone and possibly developing a deeper/romantic connection to them. Ladies, all the guys on here are not creeps
. Guys, treat getting to know the ladies like you would in person...slowly, and sincerely (Sincerity or GTFO 😀) We're all people with interests and sh** in common besides tickling. Tickling is a given here, so what's left is to get to know the people behind the 'given'. Make friends. Make more than friends
😀. Because I am convinced that this is the most wonderful thing to be able to share intimately with someone you love.If you think you can live without it, fine. But I'm not fooling myself a second longer. This is a magnificent thing to have go on in a relationship openly, and actually enjoyed by both parties, not just someone going along with tickling.
So I think I have a point somewhere 😀. I don't want nay-sayers here. I want those who are able to openly share this in their relationship to say what is so great about that, perhaps even more so than relationships where tickling was not present. How much more comfortable do you feel with yourself sharing this with someone you love? That sort of thing.
Like I said...I've been f***ing changed. And I've never
felt more wonderful in my life.
😀(I swear I hope I didn't embarrass him by writing this...but f*** it. 😀 Too late plus I said I was gonna
. )
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