Just a question to stir some memories

[toyou444]

I seldom contribute to this area of the forum, but during a long drive over the weekend I thought of a question, three actually:

1) Who was your first "love"?
Mine was freshman year of high school. She was blonde and thin and quiet and shy. We shared a mutual, unspoken crush for three yearts before finally going to the prom together and realizing by then we were better off as just friends. We are still friends to this day.

2) Who is your current love?
My wife is mine. We have our disagreements and we are not 100% compatable (probably not even 75% LOL!) but I cannot imagine my life without her in it. She is the one that gives me balance and having almost lost her twice (once to speration, once to sickness) I do not ever want to lose her again.

3) Who is/was your "true love"?
By this I mean the one person who has a part of your heart and you can never break it. I had a girlfriend in college that I completely ruined the relationship with. I screwed it up, made it up and then lost it for good. We tried to be friends but my feeling were way too strong and always got in the way. I was in contact with her a couple years ago and still screwed up...🙁 . She may never even think of me, but she crops up into my mind from time to time and I wonder "what if?" We were like oil and water sometimes, yet we were alike in so many ways.

Anyway, maybe some otheres would like to share?

~ toyou

 

[KoocheeKoo]

1) Who was your first "love"?
Her name was Amanda....a pretty little blond I lived next to for five years. For a couple years I rode to school with Amanda and her mom (who was a teacher), and Amanda was as cute as a doll, and just as sweetheart. Call it a boyhood crush, but I wasn't shy about calling her my "girlfriend"....and she never objected. Sadly, her parents divorced when Amanda was 11, and she moved to Florida....I've never seen or heard from her since 🙁


2) Who is your current love? My g/f Traci...although we've known each other since she was four years old (and me 8), it was always a good friendship; Traci was like my little sister when we were growing up. I learned last summer she was divorced, and called just to see if she and the girls were okay...as a friend. We met for lunch one afternoon, one thing led to another, and we've fallen deeply in love 🙂


3) Who is/was your "true love"?
I've always felt the lady of my dreams, my destiny was a lovely petite redhead I met while living in Mississippi in 1995. Her name was Connie, and she was a nurse....and I loved her so much. She had a sexy, smooth southern accent that drove me absolutely wild. Connie was also a kind sweetheart who loved everyone...and everyone loved her. We seemed perfect for each other....except for one thing: Connie was recently divorced, and I learned from a co-worker she was trying to patch things up with her ex-husband...for the sake of their two small children. I loved Connie so deeply, but I didn't want to be the reason those children didn't have their dad and mom together....I saw what broken homes did to kids (i.e.- my stepsister; friends at school). I didn't want to cause the same pain for Connie's kids that my stepsister endured after her parents divorced.

I could have competed for Connie's hand in marriage, but being a southern gentleman, decided to back off. Connie cared more about her kids than her own happiness....I respect her for being that way. She and her ex remarried in 1996, and are still married 8 years later....the kids are doing well. I don't regret my decision, even though it broke my heart (was a major reason I resigned my job and moved back to Atlanta from Jackson).

 

[dskodj]

"First Love" - Wouldnt really call it true love as I was only 12 and it was my first girlfriend I ever had but..special thing was I lost my "pureness" to her😀 She was 13, I was 12..ahhh, young lust LOL

"Current Love" - None

"True Love" - This one gal that was pretty much like my best friend in my later teen years. We never were together as a couple nor did anything with each other sexualy (accept an almost phone sex convo one time when we were on the phone and she was bitching about how her boyfriend at the time was a real "dork" and didnt know how to satisfy anyone lol). Things had happened and totaly screwed up everything as the time was coming close for both of us to finaly do what we both had been keeping in for so long. I still think about her from time to time and wonder how she is and if she's happy.