Picked up from a goth/fetish site, here in TO:
6. Be honest.
If you're a beginner, admit it. Exaggerating your level of competence may briefly impress people -- that is, if their bullshit detectors aren't functioning too well -- but in the long run it's not going to help you any, because sooner or later you'll be expected to perform, be it publicly or privately, and it will become blatantly apparent that you don't have a clue what you're doing. There's no point in introducing yourself as Mistress Supreme So-and-So The Almighty Dominant Bitch Goddess From Hell, if the first time you play it becomes clear that you're really Jane Doe The Waitress Who Picked Up a Riding Crop For The First Time Last Week And Still Isn't Sure Which End Is Which!!
Cheers.😀
6. Be honest.
If you're a beginner, admit it. Exaggerating your level of competence may briefly impress people -- that is, if their bullshit detectors aren't functioning too well -- but in the long run it's not going to help you any, because sooner or later you'll be expected to perform, be it publicly or privately, and it will become blatantly apparent that you don't have a clue what you're doing. There's no point in introducing yourself as Mistress Supreme So-and-So The Almighty Dominant Bitch Goddess From Hell, if the first time you play it becomes clear that you're really Jane Doe The Waitress Who Picked Up a Riding Crop For The First Time Last Week And Still Isn't Sure Which End Is Which!!
Cheers.😀
