MaleTickleeDC
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This seems to be one of the neverending topics of TMF, so I thought I'd start an "official" thread on this subject.
One of the common complaints from men who are into tickling is that they have trouble letting their interest be known to women in a non-creepy way.
I thought that getting the ladies of TMF to weigh in on this with some tips would be helpful. Let's just keep this thread rolling so that it becomes a kind of handy "how to" guide for the men of TMF. The guys are encouraged to comment as well of course.
Here are my thoughts on the subject.
As my screen name suggests, I am predominantly a male lee. I now realize that I should never have chosen this screen name, as I tend to get messages and PMs both here and on other tickling sites from guys who assume that I must be into m/m. I am NOT into m/m at all. I only desire to be tickled by women. Anyway, the guys who contact me to find out if I'm down with talking tickling with another dude will often show a complete lack of tact or forethought. They will immediately jump right into asking me personal tickling questions without even stopping to find out if I'm even interested in talking tickling with them. It's very annoying.
Now, I'm a pretty normal guy, in the sense that I'm "easy," and I don't need to be wined and dined before talking sex and tickling. But given that even I'm creeped out by the way some of these dudes go about approaching potential lees, I can only imagine how many of the ladies may be creeped out by it. And that's especially true given that women spend every day being leered at by men on the street, at work, at the gym, etc, and thus have their guard up. So I imagine when some dude PM's them with a one-liner like, "Are your feet ticklish?" many women will just delete and move on.
So those are my thoughts. Any others?
One of the common complaints from men who are into tickling is that they have trouble letting their interest be known to women in a non-creepy way.
I thought that getting the ladies of TMF to weigh in on this with some tips would be helpful. Let's just keep this thread rolling so that it becomes a kind of handy "how to" guide for the men of TMF. The guys are encouraged to comment as well of course.
Here are my thoughts on the subject.
As my screen name suggests, I am predominantly a male lee. I now realize that I should never have chosen this screen name, as I tend to get messages and PMs both here and on other tickling sites from guys who assume that I must be into m/m. I am NOT into m/m at all. I only desire to be tickled by women. Anyway, the guys who contact me to find out if I'm down with talking tickling with another dude will often show a complete lack of tact or forethought. They will immediately jump right into asking me personal tickling questions without even stopping to find out if I'm even interested in talking tickling with them. It's very annoying.
Now, I'm a pretty normal guy, in the sense that I'm "easy," and I don't need to be wined and dined before talking sex and tickling. But given that even I'm creeped out by the way some of these dudes go about approaching potential lees, I can only imagine how many of the ladies may be creeped out by it. And that's especially true given that women spend every day being leered at by men on the street, at work, at the gym, etc, and thus have their guard up. So I imagine when some dude PM's them with a one-liner like, "Are your feet ticklish?" many women will just delete and move on.
So those are my thoughts. Any others?