Ladies, Please explain the "Ravage/Rape" fantasy???

[ThatPayPhoneGuy]

Just for the record, I'm a man, and I have them too., so I kind of get it. I suspect any switch or lee would understand it where the surrendering of control is concerned. However I thought it might make for an interesting topic, especially since erotica targeting women is stacked with it. Feel free to drop any fantasies and/or role playing experiences. I specifically requested women's input because I know they have more leeway to discuss this topic, but men folk are clearly welcome to speak on it as well.

To be clear to the White Knights that no doubt abound the forum, anybody with common sense know that having "Ravage/Rape" fantasies isn't an invitation, so don't bother getting on your soap box thank you.