Lees - “casual tickling” experiences?

[Toesheldback]

I hesitate to post this but I’ve been thinking about this for awhile, and I am certain most folks will just scratch their heads and move on..

Full disclosure - I’m not a lee at all. But had an experience I wanted to bounce off the folks here and see if any of it resonates. Again, I’m probably an outlier here.

I’ve got a female friend named Heather whom I’ve known for a really long time. We dated very briefly before we discovered that we were friends, but that was it. She’s married now and has been for awhile.

Heather can talk and talk and talk. Hanging with her is like being blasted by a firehouse of words. She can go from subject to subject effortlessly and it…just…never…stops. I guess the good thing is that most of the time she doesn’t require a response, so you can smile and nod your head without becoming emotionally invested in anything she says. Which brings me to my question.

When we dated for probably a month, we had sex, but when she would give me a handjob, she would talk the entire time just like we were at a restaurant or bar. It took zero response from me, so I didn’t even really have to listen as she went on and on about something. Anything. She’d stroke away and talk away until I’d orgasm, when she’d become quiet for the first time till I was empty and then would talk while helping clean me up.

And it was so damn hot. It felt like it was so “casual”, like her giving me a handjob was just like every day brushing her teeth or talking on the phone. There was no romance or anything that I had to say. It was just like she was doing a favor for a friend, which I guess she was.

So ‘lees... Does this translate to tickling? What if you were tied and Heather was tickling you (she’s very very beautiful BTW). But the entire time she was talking about something else, like I don’t know - her car breaking down, how she doesn’t get along with her boss at work, etc. but she expertly tickles you and is completely so self-absorbed in what she is saying that she has no idea how bad you are getting it.

This example is f/m but it would work for any combo. Would this be as hot as the HJs were for me but in a tickling scenario? Just curious.

 

[Phineas]

So ‘lees... Does this translate to tickling?

I don't think so. At least, not in my experience.

I was a total n00b to the gathering scene at one point, and I have a tendency to just randomly jaw like Heather did, especially around people I don't know very well. I either wind up dominating the conversation or shutting up entirely and making people wonder why I'm not socializing.

Well, I did this at a gathering once. Prolly maybe my second or third one I'd ever attended. I was sitting off to the side while a scene was going on and just talking about whatever.

The woman who was bottoming got really pissed off. Said it distracted her and kept her from getting into the proper headspace to focus on what was being done to her. From then on, "external chatter" was against the rules during a scene.

 

[Ticklish_Pirate]

Ranked competitive tickling

 

[Wade]

I dunno: having someone ramble on endlessly about what happened earlier today when she was waiting in line at the post office, as meanwhile her fingertips casually alight relentlessly on one of my ticklish places after another, sending me steadily into helpless fits of escalating laughter, rendering me every bit as as desperate and frenetic as she is relaxed and conversational -- I admit that juxtaposition piques my interest.

 

[BuckWild]

I'm a lee and yes... I think that would be very hot. (Maybe even hotter with a gag involved?) I think the thing that hits that button for me is the idea that she can do so much with so little effort! Also, there's a very fun power dynamic there when one party is cool and calm and the other is a complete mess.

 

[Hiphophooray]

Hmmm..... This is pretty darn interesting, I must admit.

 

[Hiphophooray]

So during y'all's month long romance.... No tickling of any kind took place?

 

[Deleted member 2452]

that would be great! totally destroying you and not caring.. hot as phuc!

steve

 

[milagros317]

I dunno: having someone ramble on endlessly about what happened earlier today when she was waiting in line at the post office, as meanwhile her fingertips casually alight relentlessly on one of my ticklish places after another, sending me steadily into helpless fits of escalating laughter, rendering me every bit as as desperate and frenetic as she is relaxed and conversational -- I admit that juxtaposition piques my interest.

This!
Even better would be two women, both tickling the crap out of me, while they talked to each other about a subject in which I have no interest.

 

[Toesheldback]

So during y'all's month long romance.... No tickling of any kind took place?

She hated being tickled. Probably still does. I’d poke her ribs or get a quick tickle on her feet, and get a “Jack!” Or “Stop!”

 

[brotherted]

Thanks for such an original post.

As a 'ler, I definitely love talking as a psychological accelerant, but I think talking about the tickling reaction, or where or how I might tickle next, is hotter than talking about unrelated subjects, as in your example.

 

[Hiphophooray]

She hated being tickled. Probably still does. I’d poke her ribs or get a quick tickle on her feet, and get a “Jack!” Or “Stop!”

Well that had to suck, but I can see where the scenario you described could be kinda hot tho