Lee's vs Lers- Who has it best?

[IDareYou]

Just wondering what you guys think is a better position to be in. if you had to choose would you only be a lee or only be a ler and why?

Personally I like being a lee beacause there's just something so wonderful and exciting about being touched, restrained and forced to giggle thats fun and oddly tortuous. I don't know, it's hard to explain... okay, your turn!!

 

[FlockOfSeagulls]

Just wondering what you guys think is a better position to be in. if you had to choose would you only be a lee or only be a ler and why?

Personally I like being a lee beacause there's just something so wonderful and exciting about being touched, restrained and forced to giggle thats fun and oddly tortuous. I don't know, it's hard to explain... okay, your turn!!

I believe for most who aren`t a switch this question kind of answers itself. I am 1000% ler and couldn`t even imagine EVER, and I mean EVER wanting to be a lee.

 

[DLazarus]

I usually claim to be a switch, but I have to admit that I am predominately a Lee.
I think it is due to the loss of control........it makes it exciting.

 

[ticklemonster99]

I'm about 90% 'Ler...

...but being the 'Lee can occasionally be a blast, but only with a easy going 'ler...i dread being at the mercy of a talented and evil 'Ler! 😱 But ladies, if i ever get my fingers and toys on you...you are in deep, DEEP trouble!!

 

[jessieticklish]

Hard to decide, im normally a lee and i love it but i do find it fun when im the one in control

 

[love2ticklefeet]

lee's vs ler's

i have to say that i'm a ler. the whole thing of having someone at my mercy and tickling them until i get bored is my idea of hevean.

 

[tklee88]

I like both, but if I had to choose I would want to be lee, obviously lol.

 

[Artoo]

Switches have it best. We be greedy bastards!

 

[The Sean Man]

Most definitely a 'ler. Unless I meet the right person who can convince me to be a 'lee

 

[ThatPercussionGuy]

Switches have it best. We be greedy bastards!

I agree with this 🙂

 

[Dave2112]

I don't really think it's a matter of "who has it best". 'Lees and 'Lers, Tops and Bottoms, Dons and Subs...all are doing what they do for thier own reasons. As long as those reasons and desires are being fulfilled, you're getting the best out of it.

Every 'ler is going to say they have it best, as is every 'lee. It's when the two connect that the real magic happens. Give and take, positive and negative poles.

 

[BostonTickling]

I don't really think it's a matter of "who has it best". 'Lees and 'Lers, Tops and Bottoms, Dons and Subs...all are doing what they do for thier own reasons.

I think Dons have it the best 😉

 

[wishfoot88]

LEE

i wish to be a lee.
in my profile it says that i'm a lee but technically i'm neither a ler or lee.
i have never been tickled properly.

i ultimately want to be mummy wrapped in a long thick king sized duvet and have my feet tickled for 10 15 minute sessions with a 5 minute break in between.

this will probably never happen. .

tickling is such a rare treat that when on the rare occasions it does happen i tend not to struggle (if i can) just to savor it.

the fact of the matter is; i want, what i know i can't have.

it's not as if i can say to my best mate "hey, how about you come round my house, tie me up and tickle my feet? sound good?!"
tickling is not something that is very common here.

if i was to come out as a tickle fan then my family would disown me.
my small town would know.
i would be an outcast.
any other tickle fans would see how badly i was treated my the public and hide their feelings on the matter.

sorry i seem to have strayed from the point.

the sensation of tickling is unique.
no other machine can simulate it.
no other feeling is like it.
it only really happens in 4 scenarios.
1. childhood
2. your partner or friend or whatever is a ler.
3. you are a tickling model
4. accident

i am well past 1
2 is a long way off and the chances are nil
3, i wish
4 very rare.

i hope that somehow you got my point from all of this.
sorry for going on a bit.
thank you for reading.

 

[Adam]

It all depends on your point of view. If forced to choose, I'm picking 'ler since I've been one my entire life.

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

I think lers have it best because we can turn a lee into a ticklish mush.

 

[Artoo]

i wish to be a lee.
in my profile it says that i'm a lee but technically i'm neither a ler or lee.
i have never been tickled properly.

i ultimately want to be mummy wrapped in a long thick king sized duvet and have my feet tickled for 10 15 minute sessions with a 5 minute break in between.

this will probably never happen. .

tickling is such a rare treat that when on the rare occasions it does happen i tend not to struggle (if i can) just to savor it.

the fact of the matter is; i want, what i know i can't have.

it's not as if i can say to my best mate "hey, how about you come round my house, tie me up and tickle my feet? sound good?!"
tickling is not something that is very common here.

if i was to come out as a tickle fan then my family would disown me.
my small town would know.
i would be an outcast.
any other tickle fans would see how badly i was treated my the public and hide their feelings on the matter.

sorry i seem to have strayed from the point.

the sensation of tickling is unique.
no other machine can simulate it.
no other feeling is like it.
it only really happens in 4 scenarios.
1. childhood
2. your partner or friend or whatever is a ler.
3. you are a tickling model
4. accident

i am well past 1
2 is a long way off and the chances are nil
3, i wish
4 very rare.

i hope that somehow you got my point from all of this.
sorry for going on a bit.
thank you for reading.

Don't despair!

With a little patience, being on this forum can work wonders, boost your confidence to chat to real life people about tickling, gives you the opportunity to get to know and meet other tickling-lovers...

You seem to have quite a defeatist attitude - don't! That probably doesn't help matters much. Not putting you down here, just some friendly advice. 🙂

 

[ticklebunny 2]

Since I am a switch, I got to say it is best and great to get to experience and savor both roles.
But must admit while being a switch. I really do love to be the one in charge and love being dominant when playfully tickling my lee.
I can't help it-a thrill like no other!!

Also enjoy also being a lee and getting playfully tickled and love to giggle and laugh and enjoy myself when getting tickled but even being a switch-find I love being dominant and ler more to be honest. Something about dishing out tickles and hearing someone laugh and giggle and go hysterical and seeing a person smile and have a great time, makes me feel warm and happy inside-feel great made another person feel great.
I love to give more than receive tickles-to be honest. No thrill like it. But still a switch, feel both roles should be equal btw ler and lee.

 

[chicago]

I'm biased in thinking les have more fun, but they definitely have it easier when it comes to telling significant others about this interest.

 

[huskys]

Since I am a switch, I got to say it is best and great to get to experience and savor both roles.
But must admit while being a switch. I really do love to be the one in charge and love being dominant when playfully tickling my lee.
I can't help it-a thrill like no other!!

Also enjoy also being a lee and getting playfully tickled and love to giggle and laugh and enjoy myself when getting tickled but even being a switch-find I love being dominant and ler more to be honest. Something about dishing out tickles and hearing someone laugh and giggle and go hysterical and seeing a person smile and have a great time, makes me feel warm and happy inside-feel great made another person feel great.
I love to give more than receive tickles-to be honest. No thrill like it. But still a switch, feel both roles should be equal btw ler and lee.

This sums it up for me.
Switches can have the best of both worlds. Depending on what mood your in.
And there's nothing like a little bit of "payback" !!!!