LEES, What does it take to bring out the small bit of LER inside of you?

[CuteJill143]

I would say that 97% of the time, I am strictly a LEE. I do not understand how certain people seem to drag that 3% of LER lingering deep down inside. I usually love being tickled but my new guy, for some reason I love tickling HIM. He is ultra sensitive to it and never gets angry or makes me stop and his laugh is just freakin' ADORABLE. In my past experience with tickling guys, their reactions were never positive. Could it be that his good reaction is whats making me enjoy it? The first time I find out how ticklish he was happened to be completely by accident. We were all cute and cuddly one night ( sigh 🙂 ) and my hand brushing his tummy got a sweet laugh and smile out of him. I just couldn't resist 🙂~ For some reason this case is very different for me. It doesn't bother me not being a lee. is this normal?

 

[milagros317]

I would say I'm 90% lee and 10% ler. It is very easy for a woman to bring out the ler in me. All she has to do is tell me, "If you tickle me then I will take revenge on you." That will make me tickle her enthusiastically.

 

[No_Style]

I only 'ler to hopefully get the retalitation

 

[CuteJill143]

I only 'ler to hopefully get the retalitation

Me too hahaha. Most of the time. I love seeing this guy laugh and smile too though Its so sweet.

 

[Angel77]

You hit the nail on the head for me Jill. 🙂

It's all about the reactions. If I'm sensing that someone isn't into it or just get an a certain vibe? I'm going to be much less likely to want to engage that side of me - what's the point?

I know people react to being tickled in different ways but I'm a reaction *****. I feed of off reactions and getting good ones just encourages me even more.

I wanna see facial expressions, hear them laughing (double bonus for screams mixed in and a bit of begging added) and watch them struggle. My sick, sadistic side likes to be fed in that way.

Also, revenge and that time of the month sometimes helps too. 😛

That side of me is totally there and has been all my life.

 

[leafstk]

OMG... I can't wait to see that side of her Though I'm scared @ the same time

 

[Sunriseticklee]

It depends on my moods. I am a true switch... but sometimes my desire to ler is WAY stronger than my desire to lee and vice versa.

I've also found out that I really love to top guys- A LOT. I mean, I just want to destroy a man. Line them up!

LOL... Sorry- got carried away. Honestly, a ticklish guy with a great sense of humor and and wonderful smile- that's what gets me every time.

 

[gigglemakr]

The reverse might be me....."lee curious". Depends on the female ler of course.

 

[Coda]

Surely "tickler" and "ticklee" describe tendencies, not fundamental and strict characteristics of us (generally). There's nothing perplexing about finding some new pattern in yourself around a new person.

 

[Sandisk444]

I'm the opposite, i'm 90% 'ler and 10% 'lee, but my girlfriend can bring out that 10% of my 'lee side, i dunno how she does it. Maybe i just want her hands on me ;P

 

[LD_Tickler]

Always a ler, don't like being tickled. Don't touch me, weirdos.

 

[Lea28]

I turn LER, more often last few years, to enahnce his reaction especially while making love. I have only had one guy ever ask me not to tickle him... and he was no fun, and a bit fo a conrol freak. It's pretty easy to see / tell if a guy is getting in to my fingers or toes tickling him...

Lea

 

[Deleted member 66627]

Always a ler, don't like being tickled. Don't touch me, weirdos.

*touchtouchtouchtouchtouchBITCHSLAPtouchtouchtouchtouch*

 

[tommytikl]

You hit the nail on the head for me Jill. 🙂

It's all about the reactions. If I'm sensing that someone isn't into it or just get an a certain vibe? I'm going to be much less likely to want to engage that side of me - what's the point?

I know people react to being tickled in different ways but I'm a reaction *****. I feed of off reactions and getting good ones just encourages me even more.

I wanna see facial expressions, hear them laughing (double bonus for screams mixed in and a bit of begging added) and watch them struggle. My sick, sadistic side likes to be fed in that way.

Also, revenge and that time of the month sometimes helps too. 😛

That side of me is totally there and has been all my life.

This is me exactly!!

 

[Skipadeedoodah]

I really don't consider myself a switch. I'm 99.9999% lee, but every once in a while there is a teeny tiny little bit of ler that pops up. I really have no idea what triggers it. The first time I ler'ed it was only because someone asked me to.

There is a certain aspect of curiosity that plays a part, I think. I spend alot of time observing people and thinking about how they feel, what they think and/or how they would react to things - so maybe with some people that leads to wondering how they'd react to being tickled.

Even once I get them into a session, the whole thing is kind of driven by curiosity. I like to see what I can do where to get what kind of reactions and responses and how what kind of mixtures of circumstances will illicit different reactions. It's like an experiment LOL and it keeps me entertained, which is very important because ler'ing is not natural for me so if I don't stay entertained I get bored very easily.

 

[TicklesForFun]

The "ler" inside of me usually lies dormant. I can tickle to try to get the person to tickle me back, sure, but most of the time, it never works out quite the way I want it to. Plus, you never know who is a fan of being tickled, and who might kick you in a place not meant for kicking.

Now, if I know someone who enjoys being tickled, then I can get into it a bit.