Long Island Ler Looking to Connect (Before I Lose My Mind)

[FJSLikesTickling]

Long Island born and raised, currently based in Nassau. I’m in my late 40s—a small business owner, music obsessive, and enthusiastic (if occasionally overambitious) home cook. Lately, I’ve also been diving back into a part of myself I’ve kept tucked away for years: a lifelong, incurable, oddly joyful interest in tickling.

My wife is lovely and supportive (even if not personally kinky), and I’m navigating what exploration looks like within the boundaries we’ve set. That’s mostly meant chatting with like-minded folks, making new connections, and writing way too many posts—making up for lost time, I guess.

I’m especially hoping to meet actual humans in the area. Munches, meetups, events—anything that proves the local scene isn’t just a myth whispered about in ancient TMF threads. We live near NYC, for goodness’ sake. There must be something. Or is there?

If you're nearby and also tired of yelling into the void, feel free to reach out. Or check out my writing on FetLife (same username)—I promise at least a few laughs.

Hope to meet some of you soon. Be well—and stay ticklish.

—Frank

 

[SugarSoaker]

I know it’s a hike (but maybe you can make a weekend of it!?) the New England community has very successful monthly munches (50+) people just north of Boston.
Might be worth a drive

 

[FJSLikesTickling]

Thanks so much! That actually sounds kind of amazing—and a solid excuse for a weekend road trip. I’ll definitely look into it. Is there a Fet group or Discord server where these munches get posted?

I do have one concern, though: I hope attending doesn’t require me to become a Red Sox fan. As much as I’m into tickling, that might be a bridge too far.

 

[beefjerky26]

I haven't heard of that event north of Boston, anyone got the deetz?

 

[SugarSoaker]

It’s probably “classified” (these people are such assholes), but my guess is that it’s in Salem MA.

Yeah. I mentioned an event just to be like HAHA JK YOU CANT COME. Not sure what your problem with me is but I’m glad I listened to others. now kindly hop off being a dick to me. ✌🏼Thanks.

It’s called the TTT munch: fetlife.com/events/1834869.

 

[Navegazer11]

Yeah. I mentioned an event just to be like HAHA JK YOU CANT COME. Not sure what your problem with me is but I’m glad I listened to others. now kindly hop off being a dick to me. ✌🏼Thanks.

It’s called the TTT munch: fetlife.com/events/1834869.

Thanks for the intel