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Longtime lurker finally coming out. Please be kind.

tftman

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Hi all!
I’ve been an almost daily visitor and lurker here since 2005. Possibly even before that as I seem to remember being able to view images and videos before a rule changed and I had to create a login in order to see everything. Regardless, I have not been a contributing member of this community until today. I can’t say that I will ever have the guts to post video or images, but I have certainly enjoyed the work of many contributing members for the entirety of my membership.

Like many others here, I have a massive foot and tickling fetish. I have been this way as long as I can remember (I’m 40+) and the TMF has been internet gold for me since the day I stumbled upon it. So many things have changed in my life and I still need to find a few minutes each day to see the latest stories, images and videos. Not only has this forum given me tons of material to fill the old fantasy file, but lots of ideas on how to approach my partners with these fetishes to try and create a scenario where all parties can feel safe and enjoy what I desire. A relationship with a woman who cannot accept it or who is not ticklish has always been less fulfilling than one with an open-minded or like-minded woman.

I have been very lucky, as I was blessed with the right combination of genetics that I have never had much trouble with meeting and dating women and having some long term relationships as well as lots of mutually satisfying shorter-term encounters. Long before the internet, I didn’t really raise the subjects much, just took opportunity to tickle girlfriends and dates when in a comfortable enough and private enough setting, and always hoping for glimpses of a dangled shoe or nylon-covered sole. As I got older, I confided in a few, thanks to tips and stories I’ve read right here and sometimes a few doses of liquid courage. I do have lots of short, true stories to share, if I can muster the courage and find a way to put them down eloquently enough to really tell them.

I am lucky enough to be married to a wonderful and very attractive woman (almost ten years now) who is intelligent and classy, educated and fun to be with AND who accepts and partakes in my foot fetish desires and somewhat grudgingly accepts the tickling fetish as well. (she does not know I frequent this site and never asks about that kind of thing) The only unfortunate part is her absolute hate of being tickled, especially on her feet. She is extremely ticklish, but it’s more like pain for her. She does tolerate and accept and has even allowed some light bondage-like allowing me to tie her ankles and give a few tickles while she gives a footjob or some rib tickling during sex. The fact that she does not fully embrace it is sometimes difficult to take, but there is so much more to our marriage and relationship that this is not a very big deal.

To conclude this, I really want to thank the creators, moderators and contributors of the TMF for giving shy guys like me a place to feel welcome, to learn new tricks, and for at least eight years-remain anonymous while feeding my tickling fetish frenzied needs without fear of judgement or negative backlash. I hope to gain enough confidence to contribute to the story section as well as the discussion section and maybe even sneak in a few pics of wifey’s delicious soles. I am happy to interact and answer any questions. thanks!
 
Welcome aboard my friend! While it may be a shame that your wife doesn't care to have her feet tickled much, at least you are wise enough to see the value in your relationship to not take it too far and enjoy everything else with her. Treat her well and who knows, she may warm up to more as time goes on. Stranger things have happened! 😉
 
Hi and welcome tftman!

Don't be so insecure and shy! I think you found some eloquent and intelligent words to present yourself and describe your situation. As for your relationship I can only agree with what has been said by robmic: Do not force it into any direction. It seems that she loves you and even accepts your fetish (to a certain degree). At least she doesn't confound you!
 
Congratulations on delurking and joining the active posting members of the TMF! :couch:
 
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