Looking for help

[dcs8240]

Hi everyone,

I posted a message a short time ago sharing my rookie status, and by that, I do mean "rookie.” I came across this arena merely by accident; I was doing research on torture for history, which led to sites devoted to tickling. Never really thinking tickling as torture or enjoyable it did peek my interest. However, because this area is so new to me, I have no idea what to expect, or can truly be able to put my feelings into words on the subject. Secondary to my first post I was able to find out what a “lee” and “ler” meant, nevertheless I am not too sure if I would like either one. Having now seen several videos of people tickled both tied up as well as free is very intriguing to me enough that I now need to experiment with this first hand.
Therefore, my question is this, what can I do to find or approach people not only on this site but also on campus, or at a store… so I can actually be tickled, and do the tickling to find out where I stand without being offensive or turning people away.
I am looking for honest feedback both positive and or negative.

Thanks,

 

[Big_Dogg85]

Hey dcs.

While technically I'm a rookie here too, I've been over at TTC (Tickle Theater Community) for several years and from everyone I've talked to and learned from I say this: Going to someone at random with a request like this will probably be met with general disdain. (Why can't people learn that tickling is fun... oh well for the people that know, they are that much better 🙂 😛 ) The best method I believe is to experiment with someone you know, who you like/trust and who likes/trusts you in return. Just explain that it's something you want to try and ask if it's okay. If it does or doesn't work out, you have learned something about yourself. 🙂

That's just my opinion on this and I hope that whatever you do that it works out for you. Another option could be to look at the posts regarding meetings, such as NEST, read up on it and make a decision on that.

I hope that helps, somewhat... 🙂

 

[XAsMoXDeUsX]

In general, tickling is a very underground fetish, as it hasn't recieved any of the mainstream attention that S&M has (even though it is a common fixation within the BDSM community) . Because it is so esoteric, many of us have a hard time being open about our fetish with our friends and family, who we fear might not understand. This naturally makes approaching people rather difficult, and it may make us much more hesitant to respond to those who approach us.
That being said, my advice to you (if no one else has already responded to your inquiry) would be to keep posting bulletins. Repeat your request as many times as it takes for someone to notice. Once people start to see that you are an earnest, genuine individual who means no harm, they will start to respond. Oppurtunities will unveil themselves from there.

 

[Scinsor]

Unfortunately, you have only two choices: ask someone you know if you can tickle them (you can imagine how they'll react to that), or you can meet with someone on this forum (which is dangerous and unpredictable). Yeah, tickling is a difficult fetish...although, since I don't have a tickling "fetish" in the true sense of the term, I may be wrong.