Lost my lee

[ticklebug101]

Hey y'all.
This is just a note to say please, if you see me around in the chatroom or for any of you who have me on MSN or YIM, dont ask me how tickle fan 03 is, because scince last Sunday, I dont know anymore. I wont go into detail, because I dont wanna break any forum rules but please dont ask me, if you wanna know how she is, go ask her.
Because as of last weekend, I dont have a lee anymore.

 

[11225]

Oh dear...that's messed up. 🙁 I'm sorry that you lost your lee. It must've been rough for you huh.

 

[ticklebug101]

Yeah but stuff happens, I'm over the worst of it.

 

[11225]

Good for you. ^_^

 

[ticklebug101]

Helen and I talked last night.
It may still take some time to get back to where we were but
I think it's safe to say we're a lot better than we were. And I hope,
soon, we can be seen as a lee and a ler who are
on the road to recovery. But I know we're not there yet.

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

Well,that's good to hear,Bug.

 

[tickle_fan031]

Seeing as Bug decided to make this public I'd just like to set the record straight as I am being made out like the "bad guy" in this.

Unlike Bug I like to keep my problems to myself and not make things so public, especially when I don't know them so well. So when I didn't wanna share something Bug walked out on me- She was the one that blocked me and removed me from her contacts etc. She was the one that took action....I didn't do anything. I was still there so technically she shut out "her lee".

Things have just been blown out of proportion.

 

[melanie2]

o dear i hate when things private are made public..sorry for you both.

 

[ticklebug101]

She's right, this is all my stuff.
Fan didnt do anything wrong at all, and yeah, things have been blown way out of proportion.
As for making things public, I make threads when something is up, because when I do,
I always find I get good advice from what I see as a very supportive community.
Helen, I'm sorry.
I told you why I took you off my contacts, and apologised for it last night.
You said it was ok but maybe it's not, I just wish you would have told me the first time I asked.
If I have screwed this up so much that it cant be fixed, tell me, I'll understand.
I hope I can fix it but if not, let me know and I'll leave you alone.
If we are done, I wanna thankyou for putting up with me so long, and yes it will suck,
But I guess I'll have to find someone else to bug, the only way the Bug knows how.

 

[melanie2]

ya buggs you usually do things that way and yes you do get good advice..however..and remember how much i adore you..sometimes it is best to handle this privately if at all possible..but if you cut off all contact with her, then i guess that wasn't possible..i suppose i should keep my big nose out of this lol.

 

[ticklebug101]

It's ok Izzy, I'm greatful for your advice. Oh, and I adore you too btw.
I know how much of an idiot I've been and maybe this time, I have screwed it up too much. The choice is Helen's now, and if she never wants to see or hear from me again then I only have my self to blame.

 

[tickle_fan031]

As for making things public, I make threads when something is up, because when I do, I always find I get good advice from what I see as a very supportive community.

Yes I can understand your reason for wanting to get advice either from here or anyone else but you have to think about the consequences of your actions when you do i.e. the effect that it has on the other person involved. I am not the only one you have done this to- I can't remember the guys name now but the problems you were having with a guy from another forum- I don't know what went on with that in the end but imagine how he must have felt if he had read what you put on the forum about him.

Bug you are a great ler you really are but you just gotta think about your actions. You might wanna make your problems public but the other person involved might prefer to keep it private. Which is why I don't want to tell you stuff. I don't want to be made a fool of.

I told you why I took you off my contacts, and apologised for it last night.
You said it was ok but maybe it's not, I just wish you would have told me the first time I asked.
If I have screwed this up so much that it cant be fixed, tell me, I'll understand.
I hope I can fix it but if not, let me know and I'll leave you alone.
If we are done, I wanna thankyou for putting up with me so long, and yes it will suck,
But I guess I'll have to find someone else to bug, the only way the Bug knows how.

It is fine but I just didn't wanna seem like the bad guy here- coz that's not fair when you did the walking and made it look like you were the victim!

Bug you are a nice person. Life is too short to give up completely and I don't want tension between us here on the forum coz it's not fair on other members.

ya buggs you usually do things that way and yes you do get good advice..however..and remember how much i adore you..sometimes it is best to handle this privately if at all possible..but if you cut off all contact with her, then i guess that wasn't possible..i suppose i should keep my big nose out of this lol.

No you're fine Izzy....that's exactly it- you just put it a nicer way than me :lol

Anyways this has gone on long enough.
I'm done.

🙂

 

[Budweiserbob!]

... I've been away for far too long.

 

[ticklebug101]

Helen,
I know I'm an idiot, and you never have to tell me anything ever again if you dont want to, I just didnt wanna loose you, because that is all I was ever afraid of.
I'll shut up now, in fact maybe I should ask for this to be taken down.
Come MSN me soon.

 

[Relent<]

"Shippin off to boston!" (Ohh--ayy-ohh-oohh)
"I'm shippin off to boston to find me lee!"

Terrible joke^ But I do feel for you.

 

[theteam1]

I hope everything worked out between you two. It's always nice to hear that people who met on this forum have got together for some fun.

 

[Frost King]

Well i just hope everything works out for you both as i know how things can change as i have lost a close friend of mine as she ditched me. but i'm healing. but i just hope everything can be settled ok.

 

[hazelf1]

Like others have said, i hope you make things up and all goes well for you both.

Bug to admit your to blame and to annouce it in public is a brave thing to do and takes courage.

I think your possibly impetuous and race in and do and say rash things, and regret it later, i'am exactly the same.

So give her a hug 03 life is too short.

I had a similar problem on mds and i wish i had been a little bit less eager to open by big mouth and jump in feet first, it ruined a friendship and it was very painful, i would not like you two to feel such pain so try gradual to get back even on a casual basis.

Issy your nose looks fine to me gal.

 

[Inverse]

Funny, I never saw anyone as being made out to be bad, or the victim here~ all I felt was a lot of sadness... ; ;

Be fair to each other~ and be at peace.

There is too much mutual affection here to let the small things in this world bog us down for so long...

Kilobytes of text on the internet should not keep two living breathing souls~ with affection in their hearts at bay. I've always felt that to be true... <3