Lucky Women?!

[Newcastle Uni]

Do you think women have an unfair advantage on these boards?

If I was a woman and asked someone to come and tickle me / let me tickle them I'm sure that I could get about 20 men interested in meeting me. Furthermore I'm sure that I could persuade at least a couple of these to come and visit me entirely at their expense.

Women have it easy in this place!

 

[toyou444]

Well thats just part of life in my opinion. Sexist or not, women do have it easier with meeting people. Maybe that's because the people they want to meet are men and men tend to be more desperate?!?! LOL!!

Man, I just KNOW I offended someone! Sorry!

~ toyou

 

[Newcastle Uni]

Ha ha! A very astute observation. Men are all desperate. Unfortunately, its true (I don't think there is a man alive who is either not desperate or hasn't been desperate at some stage of his life)

 

[chickles_:)]

Hiya

Hmm, yeah, i think you have a point Newcastle. It's easier for us in some ways. 😛 Guys are more likely to make contact and want to meet up, it's true. But don't forget, while nasty incidents do happen to guys - we're still way more vulnerable out there.

But more particularly to the tickle-forums, and this isn't a criticism just the flip side of the coin, there are probably 20 times as many guys on here as women. This differential results in a very noticable bias of the threads in favour of male oriented interest. Take the tickled-by-celebs thread as a case in point 😉

I'm not complaining, just alerting us to the fact that what may look like a straight advantage is really more complex. Does that make sense?

Many blessings,
Chickles_🙂

 

[vampirecult]

Guys have it hard on forums like theses ones. Because if you don't live in a big popular up and go tickling city (like me i don't) then thier is really no chance of meeting up for any sort of tickling or play time.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I am the luckiest man on earth having the LOVE of my life in shygirl but in general the women have it beyond easy. All they have to do is be here and ask once and they are flocked with respones, opportunities and offers etc. Like I have said many times before, they are like steak to a pack of wild hungry dogs!
For a male.......there is a better chance of finding a pool of water in a Desert.

TTD

 

[NeitherSparky]

You're all right, but unfortunately its not easy being a female who doesn't WANT a lot of attention! There was a time when my pm box would be flooded just because I made a post, even a completely vanilla one. "OMGyou'reachickImustPMyoooouuuuu!!!!one!" It does get old, especially when all the messages say something like "Where r u ticklishh???" Lol. 😀

 

[chickles_:)]

Hiya

You're right on Q-of-H! *nodsnods*
Or what if you just want to be penpals?

For me, it's not that I don't appreciate the fact that a guy has taken the time to PM me, which is really sweet. I just feel guilty that i seldom have the time or energy to do them all justice.

It helps too if they're more creative or interesting than the oversimplified e-style of prose you mention 🙄 😀
am I old fashioned or what?? 😱
Sorry. 😛

Anyway, guys, being a girl is definitely great, but it has its own challenges - trust me. 😉

Many blessings,
Chickles_🙂

 

[NeitherSparky]

Of course not ALL of the messages were like that. 🙂 But enough were to ruin everyone's fun, I guess you could say. 😉 Oh well.

 

[Drago69]

Seems that way. I've made a few posts a little while ago asking if there were any girls that would mind at least talking to me, and I got no responses. =p

Saw a few made by girls with like 20+ responses. Funny that.

 

[Drago69]

Why is it that whenever I seem to post on any thread anywhere, it suddenly dies? Seems wierd to me...

 

[vampirecult]

Because us guys don't have TITTIES. If we we had some tits and a bush down below then we would get alot of responses and offers on our posts. The woman of this forum are way more lucky then guys! guys just flock to most of the girls that post here. damn you girls!

 

[ticklkitten]

Hey, getting attention is sometimes flattering and often not what I'm looking for. I can't even count the number of times I've received EXTREMELY explicit pm's with guys describing in detail what they'd like to do to me. Sooooo, for all of you men/boys out there that think this is the best way to get someone to talk to you... think again. It still stuns me.

 

[Raul]

Good point Kitten.

Jeff

 

[vampirecult]

Getting attention is sometimes good. But wanting attention all the time well then nope. That is bad.

 

[Haribo!.]

Personally i would hate to be a woman and have the tables turned,on example, in the chat room, women are seen by most men who enter as sex objects and the first thing they want to know....no....demand to know , is what where and how old they are and then badger them with more and more questions, what happened to decent respectfull conversation?

At least being male you have the choice to a little piece and when you earn a little respect then can choose who you talk to and when, without feeling preasured into having another baracade of sexual taunts and questions,

Thats just my opinion anyway, im sure there are many guys like myself who dont feel the need to know all this stuff about every woman who they talk to but there is a fair portion who do,

it is hard to get a meet going tho, but not impossible, its been a possibilty for me for a while now but i never got round to doing it,

i now have a girlfriend and once i felt comfortable enuf, i told her about it and now its regular play, i seriously believe most girls will have a similar approach to it, you dont allways need a girl with a tickl fetish, its fun either way,

thats all the input i can give i think, hope it helps abit...

 

[none]

Do you think women have an unfair advantage on these boards?

If I was a woman and asked someone to come and tickle me / let me tickle them I'm sure that I could get about 20 men interested in meeting me. Furthermore I'm sure that I could persuade at least a couple of these to come and visit me entirely at their expense.

Women have it easy in this place!

are you serious...
let me introduce you to every single message board on the internet sweetheart.
let me tell you.
i just joined 5 minutes ago. loterally.
A. i know how to post on a message board.
B im a fucking woman.
C. thats not saying anything, but right away , i bet you like 7 people already checke dout my profile.
fact is though, its really a desperation of odds.

im a woman.
im not quite getting what i want at the momenet, hence, im posting on a messageboard, with a bunch of guys aching to do one thing or the other, and i assure you, we love it.....

 

[none]

Personally i would hate to be a woman and have the tables turned,on example, in the chat room, women are seen by most men who enter as sex objects and the first thing they want to know....no....demand to know , is what where and how old they are and then badger them with more and more questions, what happened to decent respectfull conversation?

At least being male you have the choice to a little piece and when you earn a little respect then can choose who you talk to and when, without feeling preasured into having another baracade of sexual taunts and questions,

Thats just my opinion anyway, im sure there are many guys like myself who dont feel the need to know all this stuff about every woman who they talk to but there is a fair portion who do,

it is hard to get a meet going tho, but not impossible, its been a possibilty for me for a while now but i never got round to doing it,

i now have a girlfriend and once i felt comfortable enuf, i told her about it and now its regular play, i seriously believe most girls will have a similar approach to it, you dont allways need a girl with a tickl fetish, its fun either way,

thats all the input i can give i think, hope it helps abit...

wow.
thats a very telling post.
maybe im not going out enough on chats anymore, but the fact is, I think at least, is personality rules front and foremost... being a woman does tend to lead in one direction, as does being a male, which is pretty funny because of the annominity (sp?) involved as well as pretty much the personal statement you get from hearing a persons thoughts before meeting them in actual life...
i would say going into any relationship with a grain of salt is the most efficiant way of doing things. im sure some gt turned on and im sure im pretrty annoying to others, fact is, thats how life is in general too...
you just have a penis, thats all...