UpsideDizzy
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Heya! I’m Dizzy, and I’m a 26 year-old living on the East Coast - that’s EST time zone (UTC-4) in case you’re wondering when I might be more active. As you can already tell from the title, I’m making this post to see if anyone here prefers detailed roleplaying. I’m talking multi-paragraph, some actual plot and story, buildup, and maybe a bit of worldbuilding and character development depending on the setting and how long we plan to have the roleplay go. I know that I wrote a post on here for a similar reason in 2019 (yikes!), so now I’m going to re-write a slightly updated post to reflect any changes I had. Let’s get down to it.
Me as a roleplayer
For simplicity, I’ll make a list here on what to expect by me, and you can read further below:
I love roleplaying because it feels like writing an actual story with someone else. I consider us to be more like “co-authors” in a story rather than just roleplayers, because while I don’t have a spark when it comes to writing stories, I really really enjoy writing out stories with others. There’s something satisfying about writing a piece of a story, sending it to someone who enjoys reading it, and getting a continuation of the story back for my satisfaction. I have a small passion for reading and writing, especially because of all the imagination and how fun it is to visualize the scenes happening. What better thing to apply it to than a story involving our shared love on this site - tickling?
When I write, I write in the third person perspective, but if my partner prefers first person then you can stick to first person while I use third. I don’t find it disjointed at all and I’m welcome to all sorts of writing styles. After all, part of the fun of roleplaying for me is seeing everything someone else brings to the table with their writing. I learned that I actually love writing with other people, because I already know what to expect from my own writing. While I try to keep my own biases out of my characters and the world, I can’t deny that we’re all shaped by our experiences so our biases are inherently baked into our writing, even if it is just a little bit. That’s part of why I just LOVE writing with others, because it feels like I’m getting a taste of someone else’s writing, complete with their writing styles and experiences that shaped them, and I get something new to the table that I wouldn’t have if I was just writing by myself. Does that make sense?
I think it’s better to plan a roleplay for one lengthy scene and maybe make it go longer from there if it clicks well. I also hope for partners who are literate and have decent grammar. No, I don’t mind the occasional typo; we all make mistakes and you can’t catch every single one, but things like just outright not capitalizing the letter “i” by itself or too many errors at once is just going to distract me too much. I’d really love to find a partner who can match that creativity and discuss ideas for a tickling-oriented RP.
Oh, and just to touch on this, I strictly roleplay in PMs or e-mail. Call me old-fashioned, but I didn’t really find a liking to Discord. It’s not that I don’t use Discord; I have a personal Discord with friends, and I’m well aware of the potential for roleplays. It’s just that I don’t really use it enough to buy nitro and even then I just prefer writing lengthy messages every now and then instead of something more rapid-fire. I tried getting used to the shorter word limit and breaking apart my roleplay replies, but it’s just a huge pet peeve that I can’t overlook. I also don’t use kik or other medium for roleplay, sorry.
What I look for in a partner
Real quick, I’ll add another short list:
Like I said before, I love writing stories so I hope to find like-minded individuals who aren’t just interested in short-term, rapid roleplays but people who enjoy writing. I love partners who love tickling with a context or buildup to it, and preferably those who enjoy more “out there” scenarios. I know it sounds a bit cheesy, but the typical slice of life scenario of “you and I are friends and I discover how ticklish you are” is really bland to me. I’d love to brainstorm and talk about ideas with you, or even propose some of my own depending on your tastes.
Let’s have fun writing together, and I hope to read some messages in my inbox from you wonderful writers, soon. Oh, and before I forget - Happy Memorial Day to you all!
Please answer these questions in a PM
As said above, I’d really like it if you broke the ice by reaching out with answers to the questions below. It’d help get the ball rolling and know what you prefer in a roleplay and we can see if we’ll mesh well together. I’ll also answer these questions for you so that you have an idea of my own writing.
1. Do you prefer being the ticklee or tickler in an RP?
I’m mostly a ‘ler myself, but I’d like to know if you prefer being a ‘lee, ‘ler, or switch in the roleplay and maybe how much of each you fall into if you’re a switch.
2. What type of tickling do you prefer: F/F, M/M, M/F, or F/M?
I know that there’s also things like groups (multiple M or F/ M or F) or things like machines or magic involved in the tickling (*/M or F), but you get the idea. I’d love to know which story you’re itching to write for a roleplay at the moment, and we can talk from there. I understand if there are those of you out there who are fine with any of these, but I’m just trying to pin down if you have a preference.
3. What are your kinks and limits?
Obviously I know that tickling (duh) falls into your kinklist if we’re on this site, but obviously I’d like to know what your kinks and limits are - emphasis on the limits. I really don’t want to step on your toes or cross a boundary you’re not comfortable with, so please don’t tiptoe around your limits. If you’re on the fence about something or don’t want something included in the roleplay, just let me know from the get-go instead of thinking you might do something because I like it, only to not like it yourself.
I’ll be sure to get a bit more detailed in PMs, but as a basic list right now I’m interested in the potential for things like edging, orgasm control, forced orgasms, denial, bondage (light, heavy, encasement), outfits, dub/non-con, and more. Of course I think I’ll narrow down a kinklist depending on what scenario we pick.
4. What type of settings do you prefer in a roleplay?
This is a big one. I know you might not have an idea, but I’d really love to know what you prefer. Settings are very integral to the type of plot we can do. While there’s definitely potential in a normal, modern roleplay set in our day-to-day world, there’s also other ideas that can about from all sorts of different settings. Things like sci-fi, space travel futuristic sci-fi, medieval fantasy, low fantasy, dark fantasy, superheroes and supervillains (especially the stereotypical, cheesy comic-book type of setting), and even modern fantasy involving things that we can imagine the average person doesn’t know exists in our world. I’m also a fan of trying to craft out unique scenarios together, like involving a few horror elements (I’m a bit of a fan of horror games and settings like Silent Hill).
Let me know if you have any preferences or interests and we can get a story going, together!
5. Has there ever been a scenario or idea that you’ve been itching to try but haven’t gotten off the ground?
I will be honest, I’m just asking this in case you had ideas of your own that you wanted to bring up. I should temper your expectations that I can’t always guarantee we’ll go the route of bringing your idea to life, and even if we do it might be through tweaking and a bunch of discussion in my experience, BUT I’m always happy to hear your ideas and share some creative input with you and try to set a roleplay up. After all, we’re here to talk about ideas and hopefully get a roleplay, so no harm in hearing out other ideas that partners have had and learning what they love.
I’ll end it here since this is already a REALLY long post. Oh, and feel free to ask me questions too when you send a message too if you have any! I can’t wait to read any of your messages, so please send some my way!
Dizzy
Me as a roleplayer
For simplicity, I’ll make a list here on what to expect by me, and you can read further below:
- My writing is in third person POV.
- I roleplay either in PMs on this site, or via e-mail.
- I prefer detailed writing, no script roleplaying (like this/ “HAHAHA”), add some detail please as if you’re writing a story.
- When I roleplay, I prefer OC x OC, and original ideas or settings. I don’t like pre-established fandom roleplay.
- I mostly write as a ‘ler, since I’m mostly a tickler in my stories, but I can also be a switch or ‘lee if you really want me to be.
I love roleplaying because it feels like writing an actual story with someone else. I consider us to be more like “co-authors” in a story rather than just roleplayers, because while I don’t have a spark when it comes to writing stories, I really really enjoy writing out stories with others. There’s something satisfying about writing a piece of a story, sending it to someone who enjoys reading it, and getting a continuation of the story back for my satisfaction. I have a small passion for reading and writing, especially because of all the imagination and how fun it is to visualize the scenes happening. What better thing to apply it to than a story involving our shared love on this site - tickling?
When I write, I write in the third person perspective, but if my partner prefers first person then you can stick to first person while I use third. I don’t find it disjointed at all and I’m welcome to all sorts of writing styles. After all, part of the fun of roleplaying for me is seeing everything someone else brings to the table with their writing. I learned that I actually love writing with other people, because I already know what to expect from my own writing. While I try to keep my own biases out of my characters and the world, I can’t deny that we’re all shaped by our experiences so our biases are inherently baked into our writing, even if it is just a little bit. That’s part of why I just LOVE writing with others, because it feels like I’m getting a taste of someone else’s writing, complete with their writing styles and experiences that shaped them, and I get something new to the table that I wouldn’t have if I was just writing by myself. Does that make sense?
I think it’s better to plan a roleplay for one lengthy scene and maybe make it go longer from there if it clicks well. I also hope for partners who are literate and have decent grammar. No, I don’t mind the occasional typo; we all make mistakes and you can’t catch every single one, but things like just outright not capitalizing the letter “i” by itself or too many errors at once is just going to distract me too much. I’d really love to find a partner who can match that creativity and discuss ideas for a tickling-oriented RP.
Oh, and just to touch on this, I strictly roleplay in PMs or e-mail. Call me old-fashioned, but I didn’t really find a liking to Discord. It’s not that I don’t use Discord; I have a personal Discord with friends, and I’m well aware of the potential for roleplays. It’s just that I don’t really use it enough to buy nitro and even then I just prefer writing lengthy messages every now and then instead of something more rapid-fire. I tried getting used to the shorter word limit and breaking apart my roleplay replies, but it’s just a huge pet peeve that I can’t overlook. I also don’t use kik or other medium for roleplay, sorry.
What I look for in a partner
Real quick, I’ll add another short list:
- I prefer partners who are at least in their 20s, but I don’t have an upper age limit. I also hope I don’t have to say this, but I absolutely don’t want any characters under 18 at all in the roleplay.
- Your IRL gender doesn’t matter to me, anyone is free to apply. I write M/M, F/M, M/F, and F/F stories, and since I consider roleplays more like writing a story, you’re welcome to write from the perspective of any character you want. Trans people are people too, and anyone who falls under the LGBTQ+ umbrella is welcome.
- Have a love of writing and details, like writing a bit of a story to go along with the tickle torture.
- Be comfortable roleplaying either in PMs on this site or in e-mail.
- Someone who understands we’re all adults and we may be busy now and then, so expect replies at a pace of at best once a day.
- Be fine with NSFW elements. Let’s not beat around the bush here, this is an erotic tickling site, but I also like writing smutty elements and including other kinks like bondage and maybe tickling in erogenous zones in my roleplays. If this is a limit of yours, I am willing to discuss but I should be up front that we might not be a perfect fit. We can talk more in-depth about kinks and limits in RP.
Like I said before, I love writing stories so I hope to find like-minded individuals who aren’t just interested in short-term, rapid roleplays but people who enjoy writing. I love partners who love tickling with a context or buildup to it, and preferably those who enjoy more “out there” scenarios. I know it sounds a bit cheesy, but the typical slice of life scenario of “you and I are friends and I discover how ticklish you are” is really bland to me. I’d love to brainstorm and talk about ideas with you, or even propose some of my own depending on your tastes.
Let’s have fun writing together, and I hope to read some messages in my inbox from you wonderful writers, soon. Oh, and before I forget - Happy Memorial Day to you all!
Please answer these questions in a PM
As said above, I’d really like it if you broke the ice by reaching out with answers to the questions below. It’d help get the ball rolling and know what you prefer in a roleplay and we can see if we’ll mesh well together. I’ll also answer these questions for you so that you have an idea of my own writing.
1. Do you prefer being the ticklee or tickler in an RP?
I’m mostly a ‘ler myself, but I’d like to know if you prefer being a ‘lee, ‘ler, or switch in the roleplay and maybe how much of each you fall into if you’re a switch.
2. What type of tickling do you prefer: F/F, M/M, M/F, or F/M?
I know that there’s also things like groups (multiple M or F/ M or F) or things like machines or magic involved in the tickling (*/M or F), but you get the idea. I’d love to know which story you’re itching to write for a roleplay at the moment, and we can talk from there. I understand if there are those of you out there who are fine with any of these, but I’m just trying to pin down if you have a preference.
3. What are your kinks and limits?
Obviously I know that tickling (duh) falls into your kinklist if we’re on this site, but obviously I’d like to know what your kinks and limits are - emphasis on the limits. I really don’t want to step on your toes or cross a boundary you’re not comfortable with, so please don’t tiptoe around your limits. If you’re on the fence about something or don’t want something included in the roleplay, just let me know from the get-go instead of thinking you might do something because I like it, only to not like it yourself.
I’ll be sure to get a bit more detailed in PMs, but as a basic list right now I’m interested in the potential for things like edging, orgasm control, forced orgasms, denial, bondage (light, heavy, encasement), outfits, dub/non-con, and more. Of course I think I’ll narrow down a kinklist depending on what scenario we pick.
4. What type of settings do you prefer in a roleplay?
This is a big one. I know you might not have an idea, but I’d really love to know what you prefer. Settings are very integral to the type of plot we can do. While there’s definitely potential in a normal, modern roleplay set in our day-to-day world, there’s also other ideas that can about from all sorts of different settings. Things like sci-fi, space travel futuristic sci-fi, medieval fantasy, low fantasy, dark fantasy, superheroes and supervillains (especially the stereotypical, cheesy comic-book type of setting), and even modern fantasy involving things that we can imagine the average person doesn’t know exists in our world. I’m also a fan of trying to craft out unique scenarios together, like involving a few horror elements (I’m a bit of a fan of horror games and settings like Silent Hill).
Let me know if you have any preferences or interests and we can get a story going, together!
5. Has there ever been a scenario or idea that you’ve been itching to try but haven’t gotten off the ground?
I will be honest, I’m just asking this in case you had ideas of your own that you wanted to bring up. I should temper your expectations that I can’t always guarantee we’ll go the route of bringing your idea to life, and even if we do it might be through tweaking and a bunch of discussion in my experience, BUT I’m always happy to hear your ideas and share some creative input with you and try to set a roleplay up. After all, we’re here to talk about ideas and hopefully get a roleplay, so no harm in hearing out other ideas that partners have had and learning what they love.
I’ll end it here since this is already a REALLY long post. Oh, and feel free to ask me questions too when you send a message too if you have any! I can’t wait to read any of your messages, so please send some my way!
Dizzy
