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males tickling males what do you think?

brianspencer66

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This question is for everyone. Why is it that we see M/F, F/F and F/M but hardly ever any M/M tickling? I will admit like most guys the idea of 2 males tickling repulses me and it makes me struggle with my own homophobia. I honestly think it does not bother women as much yet men will say riduculas thinks about gay men yet when two women do the same thing they love it!! What is the sheer resistance built into our straight male minds that makes us feel so threatened? Anyway I wanted to know what others thought men and women. Thanks.
 
I wrote four stories that involved m/m tickling:
Douglas Needles/Marty McFly
Christopher Lloyd/Michael J Fox
Mike Flaherty/Alex Keaton
Alex Keaton/Mike Flaherty
 
This is an issue that's been asked more than once here.

For the most part, I personally don't enjoy male ticklers. Hence, I've very little interest in m/m or m/f tickling. I like female ticklers, so I'm far more interested in f/f and f/m tickling.

Having said that, I've had the opportunity to look at quite a bit of m/m material, and I have to admit there was a clip or two that appealed to me. This was because the tickling was exceptionally delivered to a very sensitive recipient, and the result was a very productive non-erotic session. Unfortunately this combination is rare, at least in the m/m material I've seen.

As for why m/m seems less popular than the other three orientations, I don't honestly believe it has anything to do with feeling threatened. I think it's just a matter of personal preference. There are more guys on this forum than ladies, and most guys don't dig other guys in their fantasy scenarios unless they can identify with them. With m/f, they can identify with the tickler. With f/m they can identify with the victim.
 
When Michael J Fox or one of his characters is the ticklee, I'm not too picky about who the tickler is. 🙂
 
bttf4444 said:
When Michael J Fox or one of his characters is the ticklee, I'm not too picky about who the tickler is. 🙂
I don't know, man. I think you're premise is a little shaky. :blaugh:
 
I don't want to take the thread off topic, so all I'll say is take a look at any recent footage of Michael J Fox and you'll see what I mean. If not, then just disregard my comments. 🙂
 
It's a reflection of societal norms and expectations...

...regarding members of the same sex. Being a product of the environment in which I was raised, which was likely similar to many people's, I have come to accept many of the viewpoints that, admittedly, could stem from a bit of homophobia. But all of us see it everyday, and I'm not necessarily saying it's right, but again, it's what people expect, and it reaches far more areas than tickling when it comes to what most people are comfortable seeing two women do together but would be uneasy, even appalled, at the sight of two men doing the same thing. Women can dance together at clubs, go to a public restroom together, hold each other's hands when they talk (even if they're merely friends), and obviously can tickle one another. I'll freely admit that the idea of two men doing any of those aforementioned things together does not interest me at all or even strike me as appropriate, and on this site I would never tickle another man in cyberplay, want another man to tickle me, and certainly not watch a stream or clip that involved two men tickling each other. This is merely a product of how I was raised and what I've come to feel as an adult, and I don't judge anyone with interests in men tickling each other. But since it's the case that that's what a society in which men still "make most of the rules" dictates, hardly any m/m videos or clips or stories will surface; it isn't creepy or gross necessarily by nature, just not a big draw or sell because not many prefer to see it. Luckilly, this forum seems to cater to literally every tickling preference or taste imaginable, and hopefully all members feel comfortable exploring, even expressing, their interests regardless of how uncommon they may be, and I'm glad it exists.
 
I prefer m/m tickling over anything else because to put it quite simply, I find it more exciting.
 
ChosenofMystra said:
I prefer m/m tickling over anything else because to put it quite simply, I find it more exciting.

I do too. Go figure. I also have a lesbian friend who does same sex ballroom dancing and I'm told by other friends that watching the males is quite da bomb (as it were), so that's on my list to do too now.
 
Any time a male gets tickled, I get interested. It doesn't matter to me if it is a female doing the tickling or another male. All I'm really focused on is the fact that a guy is the helpless ticklee...that's a turn-on for me. 🙂
 
The majority of people who buy videos and come here are straight men. The majority of that majority are male lers who like female lee's. Thus m/m tickling material is only requested and produced by a very small and quiet minority. When material like that does come around its ignored by most and detested by others. Thus demand for it fizzles out.
 
I dont understand how if someone is against M\M, it makes them homphobic to a degree
I just dont see anything interesting in m\m
If many people were homophobic, they'd be anti F\F as well for what it displays
 
I personally see nothing wrong with m/m clips of tickling..if a male enjoys being tickled by another male, who am i to say it's wrong? I enjoy watching f/f clips..so i probably would enjoy the m/m clips as well..to each their own, i always say...
 
Fire Sprite said:
The majority of people who buy videos and come here are straight men. The majority of that majority are male lers who like female lee's.

I think I disagree with this. I've met any number of men who claim to be lers, all lers, then the next thing you know, they just want to "try it." Then all they want to do is lee.

Then there are ones who claim ler online and ask you not to tell anyone that they really like to lee. It makes one think that some men have a macho complex.
 
Hmmm. This topic makes you think. I am glad to see it hasn't become a flame war. I am a straight male who enjoys */m tickling of any type. I enjoy tickling for what it is: tickling. Regardless of who gives or receives.
 
Goodieluver said:
I dont understand how if someone is against M\M, it makes them homphobic to a degree
I just dont see anything interesting in m\m
If many people were homophobic, they'd be anti F\F as well for what it displays


well truly think about what you just said, then tell me why f/f is ok and m/m is not, lets face it alot of us men are wired to feel uncomfortable with m/m myself included.
 
brianspencer66 said:
well truly think about what you just said, then tell me why f/f is ok and m/m is not, lets face it alot of us men are wired to feel uncomfortable with m/m myself included.

What brianspencer66 said makes sense. Though I enjoy m/m there is something inherent in a male that makes it seem odd. I guess just just have to be at a certain comfort level with yourself to get past it.
 
I think one of the reasons people see girl on girl action as hot and man on man action as disgusting is that women are supposed to be, by nature, sexy, sensual, soft, etc, and to see two women (very feminine women in most cases) on each other like that is accepted. Whereas, it seems, in man on man action, one (or both) seem to assume a slightly feminine role and many people find that disconcerting.

That being said, as a straight, female, 'lee, I'd much rather see a clip or read a story where the focus of the tickling was m/f. I'm not very much into f/f, f/m, or m/m. However, I will still look at clips that feature any of the other concepts because tickling of all kinds interests me. Especially if it means I get to look at 2 naked, hot, young guys.

🙂
 
I agree with Ticklishgiggle, really. Women are allowed to be 'open' and comfortable with each other. Okay, many women don't go that far, but it's generally considered a socially acceptable idea.

Men aren't really allowed to be open with one another like that. We're conditioned from a young age to consider emotions and such like as being things that should be kept inside ('Big boys don't cry'?). I think this means that straight guys feel uncomfortable with viewing such closeness between men, as it makes them deal with those sort of issues. I don't think that's homophobia, homophobia is that natural uncomfortable feeling felt by straight guys elaborated until it becomes a hating of m/m relationships/friendly activities.
 
Red_Feather said:
I agree with Ticklishgiggle, really. Women are allowed to be 'open' and comfortable with each other. Okay, many women don't go that far, but it's generally considered a socially acceptable idea.

Men aren't really allowed to be open with one another like that. We're conditioned from a young age to consider emotions and such like as being things that should be kept inside ('Big boys don't cry'?). I think this means that straight guys feel uncomfortable with viewing such closeness between men, as it makes them deal with those sort of issues. I don't think that's homophobia, homophobia is that natural uncomfortable feeling felt by straight guys elaborated until it becomes a hating of m/m relationships/friendly activities.

Hrmmm I guess it's all in how you're brought up. I was always open with my family and friends, and even share a closeness with them that you don't expect, to see.
 
yahrgoupie said:
Hrmmm I guess it's all in how you're brought up. I was always open with my family and friends, and even share a closeness with them that you don't expect, to see.

Oh don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say *every* guy acts like this, more how I see society views the topic in general. 🙂
 
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