mental control??

[barefeetarebest]

hi fellow t-philes...
I'm kevin, both 'ler and 'lee; posted before but never formally intro-ed myself.

just a question:

does anyone here prefer (as a lee) to be (pardon the expression) be mind-f**ked while youre being tickled?
for example, i like my ler to remark that i'm very ticklish, ask questions like did you know you were THIS ticklish, call me a ticklish geek (even though I'm not that big of a geek, i can barely work the computer, i just like the sound of it and believe it makes me more ticklish!!!)
Things like this seem to make the difference in a tickle-scene also, with videos etc, there has to be dialogue.
tickle tickle
goochy goochy goo
spelling the words out when sole-writing, etc.

just my input

 

[ShadowTklr]

Hey Kevin:

Nice to meet you.
I think you'll find that most lees enjoy that sort of thing. I have used that for years, and it never fails to get my lee stirred up and more ticklish than ever. I'm a little bit darker and more sinister, but the same idea applies.

 

[gabrielle]

Oh yes, I do. I like it, when they make me aware of how helpless I am, tell me, what they are going to do to me – and then maybe do something else - all this verbal teasing adds a lot to the experience.
I don’t like any kind of baby talk though. If my tickler would start anything like “koochy koochy” or “tickle tickle” I’d probably gag him before letting him continue to play with me 😀

 

[lk70]

Oh yes, I do. I like it, when they make me aware of how helpless I am, tell me, what they are going to do to me – and then maybe do something else - all this verbal teasing adds a lot to the experience.
I don’t like any kind of baby talk though. If my tickler would start anything like “koochy koochy” or “tickle tickle” I’d probably gag him before letting him continue to play with me 😀

Yup, pretty much what she said.

 

[Avenger314]

hmmm..

I suppose I'm somewhat hypoctitical: I like when someone tickling me is 'naughty,' and I love the occaisional verbal taunt when I'm tickling someone.

My preferences are different when I watch a video, though. (I'm only into */f, for better or for worse).

If the ler is a female, I like light to moderate bantering.
If the ler is male, I only like up to light bantering; anythign mroe than that sorta takes me out of the moment. Exception: Whoever does the silvercherry vids. (at least, I _think_ they're silvercherry.) His banter is funny and witty and welcome. He did '2 ticklish petites,' 'something ticklish this way comes,' and many others. It's either silvercherry or MTP Jeff.

All bets are off if I know either or both of the ler and lee. Perfect example: Mimi and Lazarus' sample clips. Them talking to each other kept me perfectly in the moment, because I know of them as Mimi and Lazarus, more than just another pretty face. Well.... pretty pair of feet in Mimi's case, since that's all that's showing. And heck, Laz can coutn as having a pretty face anyway 😀

But there's my two cents.

 

[Moses25]

I think any type of thought control is abhorrent and illegal.

Of course, while someone is tickling you, well...that's a different kettle of fish altogether.

Cheers.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

It depends on my mood, no matter which side I'm on...though I'm definately much more of a lee than a ler. I generally love it when someone plays head games with me in the process. Verbal teasing and stuff are half the fun. But, there are times when I can't get into that....not often, but they're there. 😉

 

[tickledorange]

don’t like any kind of baby talk though. If my tickler would start anything like “koochy koochy” or “tickle tickle” I’d probably gag him before letting him continue to play with me

Thank Ai'isha I'm not the only one who is annoyed by that! If some guy starts with the baby talk, I totally lose his attention. However, if he can control my mind while he's got my body, it's so hot. I think it takes a while, though, to learn what combination of talk goes with the tickling, though.

 

[Coffee]

I agree it is great both as a ler and a lee. I love to verbally tease when i tickle and to receive it only adds it the fun.

 

[gabrielle]

However, if he can control my mind while he's got my body, it's so hot. I think it takes a while, though, to learn what combination of talk goes with the tickling, though.

No doubt. The better your tickler knows you, the better he knows, what exactly turns you on, he will know everything about your secret desires and fears and the more he knows, the more effective his teasing will be. And you’re right, this is so damn hot

 

[slacker2114]

While I've never gotten to apply this technique, I always imagined it would be very effective. Maybe even more so if the 'lee is blindfolded. Not sure. Perhaps soon, I'll have the chance to put it to the test.

 

[lk70]

While I've never gotten to apply this technique, I always imagined it would be very effective. Maybe even more so if the 'lee is blindfolded. Not sure. Perhaps soon, I'll have the chance to put it to the test.

Be sure to report back on that!

 

[tommytikl]

Something I did once at a non-NEST gathering with some special folks was to whisper in the lee's ear what the guys are her feet were about to do.
"What if they sucked on your toes?" Knowing they were about to go shrimp diving
"Could you even stand it if, BLANK, pulled out his feather?"
Noticing that Blank had pulled out a feather and was about to saw between her toes.
"You are completely under my control, you cannot escape, you don't want to escape, what happens to you is totally up to me?"
When I noticed both guys about to finger tickle each sole independently...

She commented that her only mildly ticklish feet turned into hyper-ticklish feet with the whispering, rightinherear so shecouldjusthearwhat I was saying.

I am not normally a "Dominante" male but when I whisper like that I feel like I am in complete control or dominating the lee.

Cool thread!

 

[Mistress Aura]

Response Control!!?? YAYYY!!

"You are completely under my control, you cannot escape, you don't want to escape, what happens to you is totally up to me?"
She commented that her only mildly ticklish feet turned into hyper-ticklish feet with the whispering, rightinherear so shecouldjusthearwhat I was saying.
I am not normally a "Dominant" male but when I whisper like that I feel like I am in complete control or dominating the lee.

As the resident voyeur, may I say I would have loved to witness this...

Special Aside: Myriads, this is a pretty good example of the "response control" you were educating me/us about, right?? (I think it's gotta be, because it's one of the first posts I've ever read that affected both my heart rate and my breathing at the same time... ) LOL

 

[slacker2114]

Be sure to report back on that!

I'll give a full report on how effective it is. Guarenteed. 😉

 

[lk70]

Something I did once at a non-NEST gathering with some special folks was to whisper in the lee's ear what the guys are her feet were about to do.
"What if they sucked on your toes?" Knowing they were about to go shrimp diving
"Could you even stand it if, BLANK, pulled out his feather?"
Noticing that Blank had pulled out a feather and was about to saw between her toes.
"You are completely under my control, you cannot escape, you don't want to escape, what happens to you is totally up to me?"
When I noticed both guys about to finger tickle each sole independently...

She commented that her only mildly ticklish feet turned into hyper-ticklish feet with the whispering, rightinherear so shecouldjusthearwhat I was saying.

I am not normally a "Dominante" male but when I whisper like that I feel like I am in complete control or dominating the lee.

Cool thread!

Dayum Tommy! You go boy!

 

[slacker2114]

Be sure to report back on that!

UPDATE: This method, combined with a blindfold/lee can't see is VERY effective. IMO, it tripled the ticklishness as well as heightened the responses. I highly recommend it.

 

[barefeetarebest]

thanks a million

i am definately going to expand my experimentation into this area with all your suggestions, you seem to all be in agreement and thank you for the input.

Happy tickling