immobilyzme
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A few weeks ago I posted regarding my boyfriend's disinterest in my fantasies and the potential of a 3rd party being involved. Well, a lot has happened since then.
I brought up the subject with Rick again and had high hopes. I bought some cute bondage stuff, nothing leather or over the top, just soft stuff with velcro. I tried talking about some of the issues the posters brought up about indulging me in my fantasies and caring about my interests. It just went nowhere and led to a weekend of discussions of larger issues, some fighting and eventually we decided he should move out for a while. Not just due to the tickling, but some of you were right to point out there may be larger issues at play here. I post once to a website and my relationship ends! Wow, what an impact! For the better, though. I miss him, but it wasn't as great as maybe I had led myself to believe.
Sooooo, yes I called the friend. Not my style, I was freaking out, but I had to go there. He had heard about the "break up" and we chatted about that for a while and then with my hair standing on end, I mentioned our little conversation from some weeks ago. He was real cool about it, definately interested. He has a girlfriend but I didn't know if real serious, but I figured that was his issue to address. He addressed it by saying he would have to have her involved in the event. Actually, this put me at ease quite a bit. I wouldn't have called him if I didn't trust him, but the whole thing is so out of my world of experience, I just didn't know what to expect. So she was going to be there in some capacity, fine by me. I didn't really know her, but she seemed nice, fun.
I think there is a story section on the site here. I am going to post the experience there so this doesn't run on forever. I don't have time now, but will over the next couple of days. It was a great time and am so glad I have somewhere to go to relate the experience. Otherwise, I think I would just explode! Thanks and thanks to the people who have sent personal messages. I will try to get back to you!
I brought up the subject with Rick again and had high hopes. I bought some cute bondage stuff, nothing leather or over the top, just soft stuff with velcro. I tried talking about some of the issues the posters brought up about indulging me in my fantasies and caring about my interests. It just went nowhere and led to a weekend of discussions of larger issues, some fighting and eventually we decided he should move out for a while. Not just due to the tickling, but some of you were right to point out there may be larger issues at play here. I post once to a website and my relationship ends! Wow, what an impact! For the better, though. I miss him, but it wasn't as great as maybe I had led myself to believe.
Sooooo, yes I called the friend. Not my style, I was freaking out, but I had to go there. He had heard about the "break up" and we chatted about that for a while and then with my hair standing on end, I mentioned our little conversation from some weeks ago. He was real cool about it, definately interested. He has a girlfriend but I didn't know if real serious, but I figured that was his issue to address. He addressed it by saying he would have to have her involved in the event. Actually, this put me at ease quite a bit. I wouldn't have called him if I didn't trust him, but the whole thing is so out of my world of experience, I just didn't know what to expect. So she was going to be there in some capacity, fine by me. I didn't really know her, but she seemed nice, fun.
I think there is a story section on the site here. I am going to post the experience there so this doesn't run on forever. I don't have time now, but will over the next couple of days. It was a great time and am so glad I have somewhere to go to relate the experience. Otherwise, I think I would just explode! Thanks and thanks to the people who have sent personal messages. I will try to get back to you!
