Most awkward video shoot ever...

[daddy]

That's exactly what Meredith should have told you BEFORE the shoot. By not telling you this she played you and when you called her on it, she tried to hide behind political correctness.
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Exactly. Well said Drew.

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daddy

 

[Cosmo_ac]

You're making this into a lot bigger deal than it really is.

You didn't do anything sexual, there was no erotic tickling. I am sure it was kind of unsettling, but there is a point where you grow past that and accept the person. Gender is no longer necessarily just about physicality...much of it has to do with psychology.

I disagree. At least to a point. Introductions and friendships are one thing. But this was a business deal. When i order a quarter pounder at McDonalds, i don't want to open up my bag and find a Mcchicken burger. Thats what happened here, and the person has every right to be upset.

 

[BostonTickling]

You're making this into a lot bigger deal than it really is.

You didn't do anything sexual, there was no erotic tickling. I am sure it was kind of unsettling, but there is a point where you grow past that and accept the person. Gender is no longer necessarily just about physicality...much of it has to do with psychology.

If I had in fact known and been briefed that I was going to tickle a male I wouldn't have missed a beat. You can't fault me for feeling awkward. In my humble opinion I think I handled it pretty well.

 

[Sandrock74]

You're making this into a lot bigger deal than it really is.

You didn't do anything sexual, there was no erotic tickling. I am sure it was kind of unsettling, but there is a point where you grow past that and accept the person. Gender is no longer necessarily just about physicality...much of it has to do with psychology.

I'm not sure I understand what your saying. Gender isn't physical?!?

 

[maniactickler]

And the winner of the ignorant response to the situation is.....




Really? I love how you dry heave in disgust... oh but then you'd politely as her to leave.

Thank you! its a natural response i have when seeing a male get tickled. i cant help it, just being honest.

 

[Ace Riley]

I'd be little put off, but hey, different strokes for different folks. If you post it, I'm sure there's someone out there that will buy it.

Was about to say this. Market isn't exactly small for this kind of thing. lol

 

[Ticklshchic03]

I'm not sure I understand what your saying. Gender isn't physical?!?

I couldn't tell if that was sarcasm or not lol


If it's not. I'd love to talk to you. PM me. I could go on a rant about the diff between gender and sex but it's not approp / relevant to this thread. 🙂

 

[Soda83pop]

If you jump all over her because she sent you a transvestite, and that's just weird, I'm guarantee she will look at you and say ".....and you shoot tickle videos, who's the freak?"

This isnt a case of it being "weird" its the fact that was business. Thats all. If Im helping my buddy get models for his "Busty Black Chix" website, and I sent him an Asian model with modest cup sized breasts, he will be pissed. Not because the Asian model isnt lovely, or cool, or even sexy....but because she isnt what he is shooting. Its not only unfair to the the producer, its unfair to the model. There are many, MANY a director or producer that would have sent this model home...not because they had anything against her not genetically being a female, but because they shoot females and she really isnt female.

It would be like sending a bondage model to a tickle shoot, without telling her its tickle play. "Well, I thought since it was a bondage shoot, its all the same." Well, as we all know in here, its not. And now you have a perfectly gorgeous bondage model, who only has one hard no: tickling. Same principle.

 

[ticklebrowse26]

interesting

You handled this far better than I could've.

It's nice to see someone be that cool and laid back about tickling.

 

[BostonTickling]

You handled this far better than I could've.

It's nice to see someone be that cool and laid back about tickling.

Thanks man. I appreciate it 🙂

 

[tmac]

You handled this far better than I could've.

It's nice to see someone be that cool and laid back about tickling.

Agreed....the shoot wouldn't have happened in the LIB studios, especially if I had to pay he/she..wouldn't match the girl next door types I promote. You did better than I would have.