must your spouse be into tickling ?

[brianspencer66]

This is for married and unmarried people alike. First off if your single, how important is it that you marry or live with someone who is into tickling at least a little or as much as you are? And for the married people out there did you marry someone into tickling and if not how do you satify your urges?

 

[ChosenofMystra]

While it is nice to be in a relationship with someone that shares your interests, it really isn't that pivotal for me that they be as into tickling as I am. Indulging your significant other once in awhile is nice, but I wouldn't expect/demand it of them.

 

[luvgirlsfeet]

being married myself i don't think that it's a must for my wife to be into tickling like i am but its definately healthy to playfully tickle each other

 

[Terra_Ascension]

For me, it's VERY important to be with a girl who loves tickling too!
This is because tickling is connected directly in my sexuality.
If I see a girl - my instinct is to tickle her!
There are millions of ticklephiles out there - so I don't see the problem with finding a partner who also loves it - I'm sure there's a ticklephile mate out there for everyone!

TA

 

[maniactickler]

Simple one for me. no tickling, no relationship!

 

[Mitchell]

I hope to marry a girl who is into tickling. That being said, if I don't, and end up with a mainstream person, she doesnt have to be into tickling. As long as I can tickle her every once in a while, and she doesnt absolutely hate it to the point where I can't tickle her at all, that would suffice for me.

Mitch

 

[cloudgazer2k]

years ago, i had promised myself to not get involved with a girl unless she knew and understood my fetishes. i wouldn't let myself be miserable with a girl that would be straight-laced and not be down to experiment with them. the few relationships i had that the girl just would not try (one even broke up with me a few days after i confessed my love for tickling), i felt alone and depressed. luckily, i have a girl who will do all the things i enjoy and more, and i indulge her fetishes as well.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Yes! An absolute must.
For if not, eventually down the line somewhere, it would cause a serious rift in the space time continum or at the very least, in the couples lives.

 

[deac95661]

While it may not be important to some, the healthy aspects of the relationship is very much at stake. While it seems innocent to some others will eventually find a strong dislike and therefore a serious riff will arise. TID hit it dead on the head.

 

[brianspencer66]

Yes! An absolute must.
For if not, eventually down the line somewhere, it would cause a serious rift in the space time continum or at the very least, in the couples lives.

ahh I love it when you speak french Trisha!

 

[Redmage]

My spouses share a number of my kinks, but not tickling. So I play that way with other people, with their knowledge and consent.

 

[TickledToDeath]

ahh I love it when you speak french Trisha!

Who?

 

[TickledToDeath]

While it may not be important to some, the healthy aspects of the relationship is very much at stake. While it seems innocent to some others will eventually find a strong dislike and therefore a serious riff will arise. TTD hit it dead on the head.

Thanks!
Rifts can be ugly. Can they not?

 

[LoveSoles81]

Simple one for me. no tickling, no relationship!

I agree!!!!

 

[tiklir]

My wife is not into the scene at all...but she supports me and allows me to play with my lees. I do not cheat..just play and it works well.

 

[Avenger314]

I have to say yes. When you come down to it, either the ticklephile has to be willing to do without it and not resent it, or the non-ticklephile has to consent to indulging without resenting it. Preferably enjoy it for its own sake, but without that minimum level of indulgence (or abstinence), problems loom.

 

[Tickler Bart]

I would say that she MUST MUST love tickling as much as I do.
There are some that may feel that I am setting my standards too high. I don't think so.
If I date someone a couple of times & we seem to be getting a little serious I MUST explain to her immediately that I have a major bare soles & tickling fetish. If she freaks & is not willing to, at least, talk about it then I know she is not for me.
I know it's not ALL important, but it is VERY essential to MY relationship with her.
It's just the way I feel about it.

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

Although it would be nice to be in a relationship with a guy who's into it as much as I am, I would be fine if he would just tolerate it and enjoy it. It's not a requirement that he has to like it as a fetish.

 

[FORD_TRUCKS1]

well i guess im not into tickling as much as the next guy (or girl,) but it dosen't really matter with me. if their into tickling its cool.

 

[Ticklemmmeeeeee]

Having had an intense love relationship with an amazing tickler I have a point of reference, sadly. However, I recently ended a relationship with a man that is into tickling but not nearly as fiendish about it or addicted to it as I am. This was a big issue for me. (The foot fetish was an even bigger issue in that I am hopelessly addicted and obsessed with gorgeous feet (primarily my own,lol) but he was not...huge deal for me.)

Anyway, I now know from personal experience that getting tickled by someone I am not in love with, though much fun, is not anywhere near as incredible as getting tickled by someone I am in love with.

I am not the least bit attracted to a man that is not driven mad by bare feet and as much into tickling as I am. Therefore, yes, the man I will end up with must be completely mad for feet and tickling or he will never make it a step inside my heart. 🙂

~tm

 

[Dancer]

This is for married and unmarried people alike. First off if your single, how important is it that you marry or live with someone who is into tickling at least a little or as much as you are? And for the married people out there did you marry someone into tickling and if not how do you satify your urges?

I've been married before, and my spouse wasn't into tickling like I wanted him to be. If I ever marry again, my man must be into tickling as much as I am. It's an absolute must for the relationship to succeed - not just from a physical standpoint, but an emotional one as well. I think about tickling day and night and it's an absolute fetish I've had since I took up belly dancing. Dancing for a man makes me want to be tickled on my stomach and I know there's a lot of men on this site who prefer "belly ticklng" over other areas. Slow, sensuous belly tickling is the biggest turn-on for me and I have to find someone who loves to do this!!!!

 

[LNGISLTICKLER]

hi dancer

Hey Dancer I am right here for you to tickle your tummy for the rest of your life.
- Chris

 

[Dancer]

Hey Dancer I am right here for you to tickle your tummy for the rest of your life.

- Chris[/QUOTE

Sounds like a match made in heaven!!! When do we get started?

 

[Master feathers]

interesting question

i found this question to be very interesting ....as a married man of 31 years i can honestly say that the fact that my wife is not anywhere near into tickling as i am has not really had an effect on the quality of our marriage .....she does indulge me in my fetish from time to time but there are so many other aspects to a relationship that are much more important ...of course to each their own ....some need tickling as a vital part of their relationship ....i just dont happen to feel that way ....

 

[MasterTT]

For me it is more of a trait issue than a fetish issue. Anyone I am with I would want to BE dreadfully ticklish, regardless of if they were into it or not. Just as I prefer people who have certain submissive qualities regardless of them being "in the lifestyle". I mean you can often negotiate the act of tickling, but you can't negotiate the mind numbing horror of a ridiculously ticklish woman who just can't handle being tickled... that is just a gift... then again I am a sadistic son of a gun sooo....