My life story - Please help me.

[dontwant2bhere]

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[isabeau]

to me it seems you are in love with her, just not her feet. and why should you get over your foot fetish? its natural for you to fantasize about feet. and welcome to the forum. as someone who doesnt particularly care for feet per se, i cant give you much advice. but it seems to me you are in love with her.

isabeau

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

Stop worship her feet. One of things about foot-fetish is the "worshiping" of feet. That is what you are doing. If you can stop worshiping her feet..you will get over it.

 

[leeboy]

Don't worry about "getting rid" of your foot fetish. It will never happen. What you need to do is embrace it ! Allow it to enhance your love life not ruin it. You are young. You will find that there are a lot of women with nice feet. Once you realize that you can focus on the other things that attract you to them then feet won't be the only yhing you think about. (just the best !)

 

[Ticklerguy4u]

If you are obsessed with tickling her feet..you worship them. It has nothing to do with wanting to suck them if you arent into that. but it seems that her feet are the only thing you keep mentioning over and over, you like tickling her feet because it excites you sexually. You are in love with tickling her feet and the response you get from it. There is no drug for it, just willpower.

 

[reflexology414]

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There was a drug company (sometime around 1997) doing research on this. TRUE STORY. They actually thought they'd isolated the chemical responses in the brain that produce a foot fetish, and they were researching the possibility of developing a drug to chemically subdue that response.

Honestly, I only heard about this during one specific news piece, and it didn't interest me because this is such a big part of who I am. It wouldn't be possible to "get rid of" my foot and tickling fetishes because they're such a huge part of who I am.

I'm not judging you, and I sincerely wish you the best. I just know I've chosen to embrace these qualities about myself, and I've accpeted them as part of who I am.

 

[scorpionldr]

well, I'm glad you guys can embrace it.....I've tried....amidst having enough troubles finding relationships, alot of good talking relationships have been ruined by it....girls just find it hilarious (in the bad way) or creepy.

 

[Redmage]

dontwant, I don't mean to dash cold water on you, but can I ask why you hope to learn how to rid yourself of your fetish here on this forum? Anyone who ever had that fetish and DID manage to get rid of it probably isn't going to be here. Those who are here either don't want to get rid of it, tried to and couldn't, or never had it to begin with.

I'm asking because it seems as though you must have thought of this. So I'm wondering whether you really want to rid yourself of your fetish or just want to learn to live with it.

 

[Mona Liza]

Oh, I really understand you. I have a boyfriend who can't stand being tickled but I love tickling. So I want to get rid of it too. And not just because of that.. there are other problems also becauce of it.
Just try to... well.. I am trying to tell myself that my love to tickling must stay just as fantasy because showing it out can cause problems both to me and to others. It helps to me... oh... and I told about my fetish to my boyfriend.. it was quite embaressing at the start and I felt awful but after some time it get better.. I wasn't so turned up about it because I told about it... maybe you can try also. But I don't know... maybe it helps just to me.. but you can try if you want.