So I as hanging around people I used to work with today, and for some reason, we started to joke around about the S&M scene. So the one girl, we'll call her Mary said "Oh, I could never be tied up. I absoluely freak when I'm restrained at all". Now Mary is a strong willed girl, so without even thinking I said, "That's all right, I pegged you for a 'ler' anyway." I should mention here that no one knows about my tickling obsession. So Mary, said, "What's a 'ler'?" And me (sweating profusely on the inside) came up with "I meant, like, "superior" You know, like a domme?" Everyone at the table completely bought it (as vanilla people would, I guess). I did a big *whew* on the inside (there are some people I am just not comfortable knowing my little extracirricular activities, and they are some of them), but i kept thinking it would be interesting if one of them knew what I was talking about. 😉