Need a womens POV

[SteelJaw]

Ok heres the thing, I need a womens perspactive, ladies help a poor tickler out here.

Theres a girl, I really like her, Im trying to get back in touch with her, Shes funny, shes into some of the same stuff I am, I use to work with her and I wanted to ask her out very badly, but she was my boss, and that can be a big problem. Im not even sure if shes single right now *praying* We are pretty good friends and im hoping to expand on that. But heres the thing, I think shes ticklish, I saw her tickled once by another employee a friend of hers, damn near killed me to see it. but I need a good way (should the opertunity present itself) to find out. This is whats I need a (F) POV for, Ladies, whats would be a good way to find out that would make me look like a complete wack job? Id appreciat anyones opinion, but a womens would help.

 

[TklDuo-Ann]

You said that she's a good friend AND that you're trying to reconnect with her. It appears that you already have the beginnings of an opening. I'd go for the reconnecting for now and let the other wait. Once/If you get reacquainted, THEN you can think about the big question.

Most likely, there'll come a time when you are gabbing about past events. You can always mention that you recall "that time she got tickled" as one of a number of fond memories of her. It would be included with other things so it doesn't stick out there solo. You'll likely get your answer. And, if you tease her a bit about any admission, you might have a shot at a playful poke or two. See how she reacts and go from there.

 

[loves2laugh]

You said that she's a good friend AND that you're trying to reconnect with her. It appears that you already have the beginnings of an opening. I'd go for the reconnecting for now and let the other wait. Once/If you get reacquainted, THEN you can think about the big question.

Most likely, there'll come a time when you are gabbing about past events. You can always mention that you recall "that time she got tickled" as one of a number of fond memories of her. It would be included with other things so it doesn't stick out there solo. You'll likely get your answer. And, if you tease her a bit about any admission, you might have a shot at a playful poke or two. See how she reacts and go from there.

I agree, and if you feel uncomfortable mentioning the "time she got tickled"... you can probably playfully say something else like "i know you miss me" with a teasing poke or two...

 

[SteelJaw]

hmm, very good points, well hopefully ill get to bring it up, Thanks alot for the help. Sadly I have never had a real good opertunity to test my skils as a tickler. and If it were to turn out she was into itl, it would be the coolest thing ever.

Thanks again.

 

[aurora5150]

i don't know how close you two are as far as touch. but if you two pat each other's on the arm, just light stuff like that one way to see if she's ticklish would be to maybe hug her hello and give her side a litght squeeze, and then play it off as an accident you know? but i only suggest that if you guys are at that level. if not then wait till you two are more comfortable and in a place where a hug hello is not uncommon anymore. then you could try this.

i was also thinking maybe if she's sitting at a desk you could walk up to her and chat. while your chatting try to get behind her and give her shoulders a light squeeze. that may be a tickle point fir her as well.

i hope these help or even inspire you to come up with a few more ideas of your own. good luck 🙂

 

[SteelJaw]

i don't know how close you two are as far as touch. but if you two pat each other's on the arm, just light stuff like that one way to see if she's ticklish would be to maybe hug her hello and give her side a litght squeeze, and then play it off as an accident you know? but i only suggest that if you guys are at that level. if not then wait till you two are more comfortable and in a place where a hug hello is not uncommon anymore. then you could try this.

i was also thinking maybe if she's sitting at a desk you could walk up to her and chat. while your chatting try to get behind her and give her shoulders a light squeeze. that may be a tickle point fir her as well.

i hope these help or even inspire you to come up with a few more ideas of your own. good luck 🙂

well i took the first step, we have a lot in common, as I said I use to work with her, and I was attracted to her right from the begining. but when I saw her friend grab her sides my heart nearly hit my throat. Now im not a complete nut case, I care a lot for this girl and I just drop it in that we should go get coffee sometime, now I can sit and go nuts waiting for a responce lol.......holy crap, I think im in love....., thats never happend before....wierd 😵

Well I pray to god i get the chance to find out.

I was just reading about the health benafits of laughter and tickling. And I know there are some here that dont attribute tickling to sex, and I dont completely either, but honestly, if your going to be close to someone, can u think of a better forplay...seriously.

But thanks for all the feedback,
TklDuo-Ann, loves2laugh aurora5150: I am getting closer to finding out, My caring for her goes way beyond tickling and if shes into it too then I would be in hevan. As far as touching goes I would never touch anyone that didnt want to be touched. But she seems to have no problem with it, shes a hugger, one of my fave types of people ^^ So if she accepts my invite ill be able to at least get back in touch and take it from there. But thanks ladies, youve really helped alot. Wish me luck

 

[aurora5150]

well it kind of sounds like to me you really like this woman regardless of her tickle preference. i think you're on the right track. besides you sound like such a sweet guy......who could resist. good luck. i'm pulling for ya 🙂

 

[SteelJaw]

well it kind of sounds like to me you really like this woman regardless of her tickle preference. i think you're on the right track. besides you sound like such a sweet guy......who could resist. good luck. i'm pulling for ya 🙂

awww, thanks aurora, your right, I do like her regaurdless if shes ticklish or not. It would be cool if she is, but she and I have so much in comon, and so far it looks good. but if the reaction I saw before is right she is. Iv heard a lot of people say that laughter is good for a relationship, well god knows I can make people laugh...XD or at least give the a serious case of the giggles. But thanks for the feedback. Ill keep yall up to date.