Need some tickling help..

[RedPanda]

Hey guys, I'm not sure if anyone here can help but do leave suggestions!

So I reccently just got into a relationship with a great guy, but I'm not too sure how to drop the tickling card in. He doesn't tickle me like playfully or anything at all but he himself is actually ticklish (not hugely but wriggling my fingers in his ribs is enough to get him to react/laugh) so I sometimes tickle him but he never does stuff back. He did say to me he didn't really like being tickled but he doesn't seem to mind me tickling him, but maybe that's why he doesn't tickle me or anything.

Any of you guys got suggestions on how I could get him to sort of playfully tickle me? I know I'm not gonna get the whole tickling experience thing out of him, but I just wanna make a start.

Thanks guys!!

 

[Refrigerator]

Well, you could write "Tickle me!" on your forehead, I suppose. 😛

 

[TKLVR18]

Maybe a bit of honesty is in order--not quite the whole shebang "it turns me on" right at first at least. Perhaps next time you playfully tickle him and he protests or mentions 'hating' it you can be kind of coy with a "Oh, see I don't mind it so much..." If he's paying attention he'll pick up on it 😉

~K

 

[ticklehound]

I've been there.. I would suggest

-- bringing it up in conversation, like about an article you read or something. There are plenty mentioned here. Or maybe how you got a pedicure & how much it tickled, but you kinda liked it.

-- maybe watching something, if you "happen" to stumble across a mainstream tickling scene or even a bondage thing (like 50 Shades of Grey), saying "I don't think I could handle that!" or "If you tickled me like that, I'm pretty sure you can make me spill my biggest secrets.

-- simply running up to him & saying "Tickle Fight!" Most guys would appreciate the spontaneity. Maybe employ some games in the bedroom. I don't know what level of intimacy you're at this point early on in the relationship.

-- making yourself vulnerable in ticklish situations. Stretching, holding something kinda heavy, putting your feet in his lap. Or even fake an innocent touch tickles you. You could even say, "Don't you dare think about tickling me!"

Then, if these work, you could later drop the card, say you have to admit how much tickling excites you.

I hope this helps.

 

[Sensualswitch10]

Those were some great suggestions ticklehound. The only thing I could add is (and the timing is somewhat important) to mention that you used to date a guy who would pin you down and tickle you. And how much you liked it. (Hopefully you've had that experience?) Need to be a little careful with that one tho. Some guys get jealous when you bring up exes.

 

[itsjustaride]

I agree that just being honest and direct is the best course. You don't have to mention the word "fetish" but simply let him know that tickling turns you on or that you really enjoy being tickled. I can't imagine why he wouldn't be happy to tickle you if he knew you liked it. It's also much easier to ask your partner to tickle you than the other way around.

 

[tickletherapist]

You should understand it's not a big deal at all.
Just tell him tickling is used as a therapy all over the world because it has many positive effects, it's healthy which is a fact, according to scientific research. And besides it's real fun and great experience, and you really like that sensation. And tell him that you will especially love his touch, and it would be great to try it as some sort of massage.
Tell him that tickling is not so hard as giving you a massage.
If he won't tickle you after all that then he's probably too lazy to give you what you like.

You may show some of our videos, like this one:
A clip about tickle therapy