Never really been tickled...

[caitaithemaitai]

Well, I guess it's time for my first real post.

I'll turn on my better typing skills for this one 😉

So... I've never really been tickled. I live with my parents who are ultra-conservative, so I've never even been allowed to have a boyfriend... so I'm really, really screwed when it comes to having people to tickle me. I've only had a handfull of 'lers, who were all friends, mostly other girls.

I don't even really know what I want to say! I'm just wondering really if there's anyone else out there that's a 'lee who isn't in a position to do anything about it.

 

[jaba]

your tickle time will come.....

Welcome to our community.....

Your tickle time will come, sweetie....

Trust me, there are other ladies in your situation..... ....you are certainly not alone.......

It will just take a little time, and patience and a friend you can trust.....


But the time will come......


Good luck.......





jaba

 

[GirlWhoLikes2Laugh]

You are definitely not alone. While I was growing up, I was an only child and wasn't close with my cousins because most of them were about a decade older . I did get tickled by my Mom a few times and a babsitter. Growing up I was mostly around adults unless I was at school, camp or other places were there were other kids. I did get tickled more in college and especially more since I've joined this form by people who I've met from here who live close by.


Don't worry. I am sure like jaba said you're time will come with time and patience.

 

[Mz Chaos]

I did get tickled more in college and especially more since I've joined this form by people who I've met from here who live close by.

Seems like when it comes to tickling and opportunities it's all about "location location location."

Out in Washington State, I was thinking that the only way I was gonna get tickled was to go out and find a kinky Sasquatch. Things have been pretty okay since I've moved to a place closer to more 'Lers. Like Jen said... all things come in due time... I'll keep my toes crossed that your time will come real soon.

 

[911]

I'm mostly a ler but I am also in no place to do anything about it. I don't have much of a social life right now and no girlfriend and even if I did I'm not sure I could even mension tickling to them so I feel your frustration.

 

[Fox2000]

Heh, I'm in the same boat as you 😉 I'm what I call a "hopeful 'lee." I was only really tickled by my cousin and a few friends while I was growing up. Since then, however, I've barely been tickled at all. Maybe it's because the folks around me aren't very physical people, or maybe I just haven't paying attention at the right times, but right now there appears to be very little I can do to change my situation.
Even though I'm in college now, that hasn't changed much, but I think that's because I'm on a very conservative/controlled campus. Heck, nuns patroll the grounds here...

I any case, I think not being tickled so frequently isn't an absolutely terrible thing. On the rare occasions when we do get tickled, we'll enjoy it that much more 🙂 As they say, patience is a virtue. I hope that things go well for you here, and congrats on your first real post.

 

[marcusb]

I actually met someone in your situation a while back. She had never been tickled. We explored tickling her and all that fun stuff and in the end she's hooked on it.

At first I thought she was kidding that she'd never been tickled... but it was true.

Lots of fun. 😉

 

[50greg]

Well, I guess it's time for my first real post.

I'll turn on my better typing skills for this one 😉

So... I've never really been tickled. I live with my parents who are ultra-conservative, so I've never even been allowed to have a boyfriend... so I'm really, really screwed when it comes to having people to tickle me. I've only had a handfull of 'lers, who were all friends, mostly other girls.

I don't even really know what I want to say! I'm just wondering really if there's anyone else out there that's a 'lee who isn't in a position to do anything about it.

I know how you feel. I have cerebral palsy, and I don't get out much. Most women I have known haven't seen me as a tickle playmate. Hang in there! 🙂

 

[indivision]

This is pretty much the situation that I in, too. I'm mostly a 'lee, though I wouldn't object to being a 'ler, either. I have a hard time meeting people, too, due to my nature, so needless to say, I haven't really met any ladies in my area (central Ohio) that are into tickling. Oh well. My time will come, I'm sure. And I'm sure yours will, too. We just have to hang in there! 🙂

 

[Ticklemmmeeeeee]

Welcome caitaithemaitai 🙂 I had the extreme opposite experience, my dad tickled me like mad every day throughout my childhood...but I never really got tickled by another man (save for cousins and uncles) until I was in my late teens...and even that was first only over the phone because I was too chicken,lol.

My advice to you is to continue learning about yourself as a lee/ler and what types of things you like (or think you may like)...and when you can pursue some safe experiences to explore getting tickled casually by people you trust, have fun with it and when you start to feel like that is getting old there is nothing like getting tickled on a regular basis by someone who adores you and gets to know your tickle personality!

Just one of the wonderful things about this forum and the members here is that during times when you are not getting tickled you can still express it and talk with other people who do not judge you for it or try to "cure" you. Best of luck to you!

~tm

 

[Dancer]

Well, I guess it's time for my first real post.

I'll turn on my better typing skills for this one 😉

So... I've never really been tickled. I live with my parents who are ultra-conservative, so I've never even been allowed to have a boyfriend... so I'm really, really screwed when it comes to having people to tickle me. I've only had a handfull of 'lers, who were all friends, mostly other girls.

I don't even really know what I want to say! I'm just wondering really if there's anyone else out there that's a 'lee who isn't in a position to do anything about it.

I know exactly what you're talking about and how frustrating it can be to want to be "tickled". My suggestion to you is to enroll in some belly-dancing classes in your area. I'm sure they have them through one of your parks and recreation centers in Georgia. I took belly-dancing and found I lost all my shyness and my fear of exposing my bare midriff in public. After I took belly dancing for 3 months, my first tickle experience came with a co-worker. I wore a top to work that day that showed just a little skin whenever I reached up high to grab a file. That night after 5:00, I had the pleasant surprise of a male co-worker ask if he could tickle my stomach in our conference room. I was frightened at first, but he tickled so light and sensuously, it about drove me nuts. I've been hooked ever since. Next time you go to the grocery store, try wearing a "midriff top" and notice how you feel when the cold air hits your stomach.

 

[crydun]

Here's what I did....

confided in a few, close friends who liked the idea of tickling me and give me "therapy" on a semi-regular basis. Now, of course, they're moving away so I'll have to find a new "tickle buddy." But, it'll happen.

In the meantime, get comfy with your kink. Once you're comfy with it, others will be too.

 

[sushi854]

I'm assuming that since you're posting here, you're at least 18 years old. I know the point of this post was to inquire as to whether others are in the same situation as you, but since others are throwing in their $0.02, so will I.

Are you happy in this situation? Because frankly, I'd be totally insane. Of course, I realize that I may have had a different upbringing and different principles, but you seem to express some amount of displeasure with your current situation. You haven't gone much into detail about your situation (the extent/nature of your family's conservatism, whether you're a student, etc), and I'm not trying to pry, but have you considered maybe moving on and getting your own place or something? I can understand not wanting to alienate yourself from your family. Would your parents totally freak out if you started dating someone now? Tickling aside, I'm just curious. 😉

 

[Toerificdude]

Hi there. I have posted a couple of times and I'm in a similar situation. I have had very, very few opportunities to tickle someone of the opposite sex and I'm very interested in exploring my desires more frequently. I am a "ler" and there is nothing more enjoyable than tickling the beautiful soles of a lady. If any female is out there that would like to discuss this and just chat please PM me or send me a message on here. I'm Toe_rific_dude on yahoo. 🙂