New girlfriend! What to do??!!

[Kraven]

Here's the thing. I've met this girl several weeks ago and we started to go out. I'm 20, she's few years younger than me. We like each other and well, it is a typical BF/GF relationship. So I need an advice on how to get her into tickling. Well, we had several ticklefights, Im a 'ler so I tickled her. She's pretty ticklish so its a lot of fun, and she tickled me back and sometimes she was the one to start the "fight" so it's pretty clear that she enjoys it, also to my surprise I found out that I am very ticklish myself I really had no idea about that. So any ideas on how to convince her to get into serious tickling ( i mean with her being tied up ) or at least the other way around? I wouldn't mind trying that now that I know that I'm ticklish...

 

[tickled_in_pink1]

dont rush it. Give it time. if you come straight out and say it, she might get scared, but who knows? (you could try) wait a few more months. try easing it into sex. after you two have had sex for a while, try tying each other up. then after you two have become use to it, start using tickle torture, or whatever tickle fantasies on each other.....thats the safe way

Who knows, first way might help. Good luck!

 

[dubman]

With me, it was easier to get my ex into tickling before sex...she was a virgin at the time. I waited for my birthday, and I told her that I really liked being tickled, and I asked if she could tie me up for my birthday. She was surprisingly cool with it, and I think most girls would be. Eventually, she wanted to try it. It's amazing, because most people seem to view tickling as being mostly harmless and innocent.

So, my advice is to just tell her that you want to try something kinky, and if she really cares about you, she'll at least consider it, but more likely she'll go for it.

 

[FeatherDaemon1]

Being just a few weeks into your relationship unless she already knew how heavily you were into tickling I would wait. Don't rush into it. She may just see the tickling as playing or foreplay, not something which you see as a fetish. Do you understand how she sees any fetish community? How open is she experimentation? Tickling really involves a BDSM element. She may see that sort of thing as weird.

If you keep on having tickle fights she eventually understand that you like tickling. I'm sure she notices the effect it has on you. Perhaps down the road she may pop the question to you and ask you what you see in it. However, unless you really understand how she'll react I'd just try to learn as much as you can about her feelings. You'll really need that knowledge when the question comes up.

Just a few weeks really is too soon.

 

[morgandee]

>few years younger

how loli is she~

 

[MaxDragon]

Play a card or board game with the stakes being the loser gets tied up, or the winner gets to do what he wants to the loser. Then lose on purpose(dont let her know its on purpose). After you take your medicine, challenge her to a rematch and win.

 

[QueenBeeBeeMari]

just ask her tell her how much you like it.

 

[HOLLYWOOD]

the hollywood brother would continue to do the tickle fight thing but do not tell her flat out until you trust her a little more. also on another note the hollywood brother congradulates you on your find. as you get older it gets harder and harder to get someone younger so enjoy it. there will come a time many many years from now where the thought of a young 18 to 21 year old is a pipe dream