New Here - Finally Becoming Comfortable With My Fetish

[ReeseNails13]

Hey all,

I'm a 27 y/o male ler.

It's been many years since I've been on here, but I'm glad to see everything is running full steam, haha.

Just wanted to share that after years (pretty much my entire life) I've kept my tickling fetish to myself. Never told a soul, but have always felt alone with this. I recently left a relationship where I finally spilled the beans. She was understanding and actually let me explore this fantasy irl. It was pretty amazing, but not entirely fulfilling since she didn't really share the fetish. Not a big deal, and I was so grateful that should we even be willing to indulge my freakier sides.

Just curious... does anyone else find it easier to divulge this fantasy to their romantic partner as they get older? I'm back on the dating market, and I've noticed that I have a strong desire to tell the girls I'm interested in that I have this fetish. Obviously I'm not leading the conversation with this information, but if there's a connection I really want to clue them in.

Anyways, glad to be back and hope everyone is doing well!

 

[inflight82]

I was lucky. I had told my partner shortly after I came out to him but he had already figured it out. It was one of those cases of me sneaking tickles on him and not being nearly as sneaky as I thought I was. Plus he was into spanking so when we put our passions on the table I wasn't the only one confessing. 😀

But I know that struggle. I had been tickled just playfully by another couple we know about a week ago and Ryan brought up wondering if we should bring those guys into it a little more and even though we're good friends with them the thought still terrifies me. There's two people who know me in person who know about it. As far as age I'm in my thrities and still skittish about who I tell in public. I doubt I will get over that.

 

[milagros317]

Welcome to the TMF, ReeseNails13, and congratulations on making your first posts. 😀
This is a wonderful place. Have fun here.