Next step!!!

[Jhitman112]

So my GF and I were having a discussion the other night and we came up on the topic of fetishes. I asked hers of course, and well then I was asked if I had any and my heart jumped into my throat! I literally paused and for a moment, I had no idea what I was going to say. Then I just said it. I told her about my foot fetish. At first it was nerve racking but then she started to ask about it, kind of felt like she was maybe interested in it??? My question for all you great people would be this.... Should I now tell her about my tickling fetish?? Or should I wait? Is there a better time to tell her?? I guess that was three questions lol! Thanks all in advance.

 

[Darkknight]

I actually tell a woman the whole thing, I tell them I have a tickle fetish and feet are my favorite part to tickle (that covers the foot fetish part). It's best to let her know all of it so later she doesn't say, "I thought you only had a foot fetish" and then they wonder what else you are hiding from them.

 

[OmahaTickler]

You may have to try and "read" her. As Dark notes, she may be someone who prefers to hear the whole thing outright. However, she may be someone who prefers baby steps in the deviancy department. If she seems to have a vanilla-sex personalilty, take it slow. If she has an "I'll try anything once" attitude, then consider a more aggressive stance. Try to keep track of her demeanor. You don't want to get to a place in which she's only indulging in your fetishes to keep you happy, when in fact she's not really into them. Over time, that can breed resentment.

 

[TheMasterTouch]

From what you said, she asked you a direct question, so give her a direct answer. You don't necessarily have to go into great detail about HOW you like to enjoy and explore your fetishes, but I certainly don't think it's going too far to say something like "I also like to tickle." The judgment call is how many details to reveal at this stage of the relationship. If she asks what you like about it, you might want to start with something like how tickling is another form of affection and is a way of bonding with another person. Use her reactions to those things to see how much more you feel comfortable revealing. There are no hard and fast rules for these things.

 

[BeautifullyBNT]

I always say to try to not make it a big deal. Be humorous and playful about it. No one gets weirded out when things are funny and playful.

 

[sadi]

Personally, (and as a female, which might or might not be important 😕) I'd try to somehow 'initiate' a tickle fight in some sense. She says a smart remark, or you really see any reason to bug her over something she says - or does not say, for that matter - after gauging her reaction (how ticklish is she? Does she seem to have a stubborn streak, and try to get you back? Or does she seem to crumple like a deck of cards?), I'd try to then ease into mentioning that you have a greater 'interest' in tickling... a fetish. Then, depending on where the two of you have ended up, you might end up doting on her foot, mentioning your foot fetish, as well.
Either way, I'd try to create a situation where the mention comes up pretty soon, if you think there's any chance of developing a further relationship, as having things like this hidden... you just have to almost make her prepared for something 'worse', before you mention something "childish" like tickling's a turn-on for you.
I say, if someone told me they had a foot fetish, which would "normally" put me super-off, if a side-effect of that 'fetish' is offering as many foot massages as desired, that right there might make me change my mind (before I was able to come to terms with this particular interest of mine). If your girl likes her feet being massaged, I'd try to capitalize on that fact, if she seems averse to your having a foot fetish. Either way, you get more feet (and tickles), right? 😉

All the best either way, and PLEASE let us know how things go!