Oh, no offense taken, sir. No apology needed. Kind of you to offer such, too. I just want to offer hope, 'cause you folks have peers there, as we do in North America. Getting to meet individuals is just tough. Easier to meet in groups. It's why I run the gatherings section, too. Getting a group to meet is a good way to identify who is out there. Also gets a body familiar with their interest, and comfortable with it. Makes dating easier.
Makes marryin' one of us easier. I did. Always grateful I married her, too.
Peace!
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