Non-ticklish - like or dislike?

[ovation]

I was wondering if anyone liked or had a preference for a 'lee' that isn't ticklish at all, but who actually enjoyed the experience?

I ask this question as several threads have been about disappointment at having none-ticklish partners etc. and I wondered if anyone actually liked that in someone - I know I do.

I would say the majority of my past girlfriends have not been ticklish which I've totally liked, a couple have positively loved being tickled to the point of . . . well let's just say they enjoyed it! Don't get me wrong I like ticklish girls too, but this debate is about non-ticklish.

I didn't know back then what a tickling fetish was so I couldn't understand why I enjoyed doing the tickling so much, but I have to say it was truly amazing to have my girlfriend lay there with her arms above her head asking me to tickle her and absolutely loving every minute of it! Wow, I've just had a flash back - that was cool!

Anyway I'd like to know you're thoughts on this one especially if any of you have had similar experiences?

 

[maniactickler]

When i find out a woman isnt ticklish, i lose all interest in her.

 

[Strider]

Er, no disrespect, but I'd think a non-ticklish person would just find being tickled annoying.

 

[LindyHopper]

Er, no disrespect, but I'd think a non-ticklish person would just find being tickled annoying.

Not necessarily. A person who's not ticklish in the typical freak-out-and-pull-away sense might just be able to relax and enjoy the sensations.

I think a lot of people who enjoy being ticked are of the moderately-ticklish variety. They're sensitive to it, but not so much that it's unpleasant.

 

[Bugman]

Er, no disrespect, but I'd think a non-ticklish person would just find being tickled annoying

Not in all cases strider.I have had a few lady friends who,while not really ticklish still enjoyed having the soles of their feet stroked and touched in different ways.They would smile,sometimes close their eyes and tell me how good it felt and how much they enjoyed it.

 

[Stage Whisper]

*Shrugs* Okay, so I prefer it if my 'lee was laughing when tickled, but if he/she isn't ticklish... well, as long as he/she was enjoying the sensation, what does it matter? It would still fall under the category of sensation play.

 

[Mitchell]

I prefer if the lee is ticklish. To me, it makes the lee more sexy.

Mitch

 

[Strider]

Not necessarily. A person who's not ticklish in the typical freak-out-and-pull-away sense might just be able to relax and enjoy the sensations.

I think a lot of people who enjoy being ticked are of the moderately-ticklish variety. They're sensitive to it, but not so much that it's unpleasant.

Perhaps I'm just being a semantics nazi, but wouldn't that put it more in the realm of massage or just general sensation play?

 

[LindyHopper]

Perhaps I'm just being a semantics nazi, but wouldn't that put it more in the realm of massage or just general sensation play?

Sure. However you want to put it. 🙂

It's interesting. Some people seem to define tickling as a specific action, like stroking fingers over someone else's skin, performed by a 'ler. Others seem to define it by the reaction of the 'lee: it's only "tickling" if the 'lee reacts to it that way. And yeah, I personally tend towards the logic of that second camp.

 

[Bugman]

I think a lot of people who enjoy being ticked are of the moderately-ticklish variety. They're sensitive to it, but not so much that it's unpleasant.

Indeed Lindy,and i have passed some very nice evenings with just such ladies.I would rather they be more ticklish of course,but it was fun none the less..😀

 

[E-Dawg]

doesn't matter

If she isn't ticklish, she can enjoy foot massages without squirming and moving her feet away. As long as she enjoys having her feet touched (and I enjoy it as well), that's what matters. Being ticklish on her feet isn't a requirement. But if she is, then that's a big plus! The main things I expect are her feet to be pretty and well taken care of, and that she enjoys having her feet catered to.

 

[featherfingers]

Not necessarily. A person who's not ticklish in the typical freak-out-and-pull-away sense might just be able to relax and enjoy the sensations.

That's EXACTLY what I was thinking, Lindy! My ladyfriend doesn't laugh, giggle or even fart when I tickle her but she enjoys the sensation immensely! She often tells me she CRAVES being touched by my 'magical hands.' She may not giggle but the goosebumps that appear all over her body tell me she must be enjoying what I'm doing to her.

 

[maniactickler]

Ive met women who werent ticklish, but enjoyed the sensation of being lightly stroked. of course that doesnt last long cause im out the door! to me, a woman who isnt ticklish is cold, and less feminine.

 

[Mr. Blue]

I've been with women that aren't really "ticklish" but still enjoys all the other aspects of it. The touch, bondage, and for the sake of discussion the tickling even if she didn't laugh. Tickling, sensation play, or whatever you want to label it can be highly erotic. I'm lucky to be with a very ticklish lee, but still I've had some great times with non-ticklish girls.

 

[911]

A woman who isn't ticklish to me is like a woman who can't have sex.

 

[kis123]

A woman who isn't ticklish to me is like a woman who can't have sex.

That IMO is too bad, so sad for you!

If your tickling fetish is that strong, there may be a problem down the road for you. You have to intelligently know that there are plently of non-ticklish women who are very sexual. Unfortunately they're not sexual enough for you. I'm really glad that this tickling passion doesn't control me to this level; there would be so many men I'd never know otherwise.

 

[kis123]

I've been with women that aren't really "ticklish" but still enjoys all the other aspects of it. The touch, bondage, and for the sake of discussion the tickling even if she didn't laugh. Tickling, sensation play, or whatever you want to label it can be highly erotic. I'm lucky to be with a very ticklish lee, but still I've had some great times with non-ticklish girls.

Thank you; you're one of the few who "gets it".

 

[ovation]

Thanks all of you who have so far contributed to this thread.

I read some predictable responses but am very pleased that there are more who actually, like me, have enjoyed time with a ticklee who wasn't ticklish.

I have had many wonderful experiences where this is concerned and given the choice I would opt for not ticklish over ticklish, it can be both pleasurable and highly erotic for both the 'lee' and the 'ler'. You just have to open your mind to the many wonderful pleasures and experiences to be had from this sensory play. Just because a girl (in my case) isn't ticklish it doesn't mean she wouldn't want to be tied up and tickled, far from it, and in the cases I've experienced, once you get going the tickling can get more intense and that's when it really can get interesting. Believe me, it's truly wonderful. I hope more poeple will get to experience this side of tickling, it's very rewarding.

Anyway, thanks for taking the time to read and respond to my thread I appreciate it.

 

[maniactickler]

If you have a strong tickling fetish, how can you enjoy a woman whos not ticklish? i dont get it. its like dating a block of wood for me.

 

[ovation]

If you have a strong tickling fetish, how can you enjoy a woman whos not ticklish? i dont get it. its like dating a block of wood for me.

Define 'tickle fetish'? Where does it say you have to have a ticklee who screams with laughter at the slightest touch? I didn't say I disliked ticklish girls, what I am saying is there are many avenues to explore and they are equally as important as any other preference where this fetish is concerned. As an open forum for discussion I was just curious to see how many people have actually explored tickling or whether it's just an out-and-out 'gotta' hear laughter' obsession?

Maybe there needs to be a forum for non-ticklish girls! 🙂

 

[crydun]

He must be ticklish or I"m moving on....

 

[ovation]

Thanks again everyone for taking the time to reply to this thread.

 

[rtl]

Personally, as long as she's enjoying it then it doesn't matter whether she's giggling hysterically, or zoning out with a dreamy smile.

Her satisfaction is my own, and I wouldn't enjoy it if it hurt her; even if she was laughing her head off. I've been down that road where I know that laughter doesn't mean she's having fun; that illusion ends the minute the laughter stops. So, in that vein; lack of laughter doesn't mean she's not enjoying it...

 

[Bugman]

Personally, as long as she's enjoying it then it doesn't matter whether she's giggling hysterically, or zoning out with a dreamy smile.

Her satisfaction is my own, and I wouldn't enjoy it if it hurt her; even if she was laughing her head off. I've been down that road where I know that laughter doesn't mean she's having fun; that illusion ends the minute the laughter stops. So, in that vein; lack of laughter doesn't mean she's not enjoying it...

Very nice post....

 

[tickle_me_pink]

OK I am completely new to this forum and stumbled across it googling as I am educating myself on tickling. I thought perhaps I could offer an interesting perspective as a woman who is not ticklish 🙂

I had never thought of it and even disliked the idea and then met a friend who was into tickling....receiving...being the 'ticklee'...and I was turned off for a long time to getting to know them even. I had experimented a handful of times knowing they enjoyed this alot. I just didn't 'get it' back then. THEN one day a few months ago...a year maybe...I decided to look googling stories, videos, LEARNING WHY this was so important for him. I was turned on by his desire within it. The energy that was given from being tickled and I also enjoy watching the happiness that occurrs no matter how 'aweful' the tickling may seem.

AGAIN...I do not enjoy being tickled. HOWEVER the same hand contact to myself from him turns me on extremely much though not tickle feeling. One afternoon he mingled it and started to tickle me. While nothing happened drectly I decided to relax into the contact...all of a sudden I started laughing. I had an actual ticklish moment or two and it is my firm belief that if he had continued I might have learned what that was after a while.

Sometimes the most fun is learning each others tastes for things. He has learned I like things that he himself does not. Sharing means you learn and expand inside yourself. I now enjoy tickling him IMMENSELY even if I myself am not anywhere near that desire for myself. And unless I am mistaken he says I am very good at it naturally.

Ya never will know what is inside a non-ticklish person until you 'gently' prod them to do to you what you love to have done.

I hope that offers some positive insite from a non-ticklish woman. 🙂