hi there ... does anyone has any suggestions on a first time 'lee experience (interested in f/f, although i am not gay or bi) within the northern california region?
There is a group of people who have regular gatherings and munches in the bay area. I would suggest hooking up with us and then go from there. Start with a social gathering and then see what is comfortable for you.
Take a look under the gatherings section general west coast I believe is correct.
You can also PM me or LindyHopper for questions on the get togethers.
Recommendation - Take up Bagelfather on his offer. I'm a former West Coaster and I hosted a bunch of gatherings out there myself. Bagelfather is a FABULOUS Host and a Gentleman first and foremost.