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Not tickle cheating on my wife

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DMoore

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I am and always have been obsessed with tickling. I married a woman who said she was ok with it but as the years have gone on she has been less and less accommodating. Worse yet I am not allowed to tickle anyone else as she would consider it cheating and I have never cheated on a woman in my life. As it is me and Pornhub have become great friends. I am so frustrated with my life. I can watch tickling but I can't get tickled. Not from a video and I love to have my feet (and balls) tickled. It sucks when you want to do the right thing. We have had a conversation about this (mainly because of a video I liked that posted to my facebook page by accident that she didn't like) that had nice results for about 2 weeks and then it went back to the drought it is. It's been about 2 months (or 3) since she let me tickle her. Not really asking for advice (but would accept all, can't hurt to hear different opinions) but I really just wanted to vent. Thanks for listening. (reading really)
 
Sounds about like any stale marriage, not just tickling related. You want to do the right thing yet nothing seems to have any hope of changing. I guess I could take the road of all the advice columists and say it's time to go to marriage counseling, but I'm no expert. I'd say some personal counseling might be a start to see if you could get things sorted out in your own head first. Then see where to go from there. Just my humble opinion...
 
You're obviously respectful of her wishes, but you both deserve to be happy.
If you're trying to meet her halfway, and she's not making any effort in that realm, you deserve to know why;
that way, you have the right to decide whether to figure out a solution together, live with it, or make a change.
 
The good news is that it seems like you and your wife have had these conversations before with some results. The best advice I can give you is to keep talking with her about your needs, and of course, work to build a physical chemistry that you both can enjoy.
 
So a couple questions.. when you say you havnt tickled her in 3 months are you saying you have tied and tickled her or havnt tickled her at all. If its the 2nd one then Id be wondering why you havnt at least playfully tickled her. Are yall just not in playfull moods? Cause thats signs of a bigger problem. Also I know she knows about your fetish but does she KNOW about your fetish? Cause I can tell you that my wife learns something new all the times in terms of how much I like tickling. Having a fetish and a kink are different. Sometimes the lines get blurred. Does she know how much you love it? And how fustrating it is to not have it. Are yall doing the kinky stuff she wants to do? If you havet tied and tickled her in 3 months then thats not really that long as long as your doing other kinds of tickling
 
My thoughts exactly

@Robmic I have thought about counseling so this might be my best course of action. Thanks.
 
@ BeautifullyBNT I always put her first. I’m not the man I was when I was in my 30’s so I have to work harder to please her but I put in my work each and every time we are intimate. I have always put the needs of my lady before myself.
 
@RavensFan52 she knows how much my fetish means to me. I never tie her down. She’s not into it like I am. She tolerated it. Maybe she doesn’t want to do it anymore. Just more questions I need answers for.
 
Have you simply tried sitting down and talking about it? If she knows how important this is to you and cuts you off completely then maybe she's unhappy w/the relationship overall. Has she only denied you tickling, or is she no longer interested in any sexual activity? It sounds like you're an older couple and as I'm sure you know many people, especially women lose their sex drive as they get older.
If you're still having regular sex, just without the tickling, then just ask her why is she denying you something that she knows you're into.
 
This will be an unpopular view, but here goes.

Suppose this were "vanilla sex" instead of tickling. She decides she really just doesn't want to do it anymore. At some point, a conversation could explain that marital vows are not of vows of celibacy, more like a right of first refusal 🙂. You never agreed to ignore your needs for the rest of your life. So, if she can't/won't indulge your needs, then ultimately, you go to others who will. There are two ways for you to do that -- stay married and go to others for this (and she understands that because she won't indulge you), or don't stay married and go to others for this.
 
DMoore said:
@RavensFan52 she knows how much my fetish means to me. I never tie her down. She’s not into it like I am. She tolerated it. Maybe she doesn’t want to do it anymore. Just more questions I need answers for.
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What about playfull tickles? Outside of sex. Im asking cause I wanna gauge how fun and playfull yall are. Sounds like yall been married for a while but yall should still have fun around each other. If thats not there then it maybe a bigger problem
 
ChicagoDavid said:
This will be an unpopular view, but here goes.

Suppose this were "vanilla sex" instead of tickling. She decides she really just doesn't want to do it anymore. At some point, a conversation could explain that marital vows are not of vows of celibacy, more like a right of first refusal 🙂. You never agreed to ignore your needs for the rest of your life. So, if she can't/won't indulge your needs, then ultimately, you go to others who will. There are two ways for you to do that -- stay married and go to others for this (and she understands that because she won't indulge you), or don't stay married and go to others for this.
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This exactly is along the lines of what I was gonna say...speaking as someone who's been there before, and will never allow myself to be there again.
 
I appreciate all the responses. I am going to sit down and talk to her. We are both under stress these days but I always look at tickling or sex as a way to alleviate stress. I admit i’m Not at my best without my cialis :sigh: but I do my best. But our love life has been stagnant of late. We’ve been married for 18 years but I believe if we can’t talk it out then we may need an intervention. And believe me, with all the pictures and vids on this site and others it makes it hard not to want to engage in extramarital activities if I found a willing partner and that’s not what I want to do. But I want to do it. I hate that feeling. Lucky for me i’m No longer the handsome man I once was and women are not lining up to be tickled by me so no chance of cheating.
 
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