OK enough about us what about them

[Jackalx33]

You know everyday I persuade myself that to have a tickling fetish is not the biggest of deals. Honestly there are more crazier ones then this. The fact that we love the action of making one laugh for our pleasure (sexual or not). So the point is that for those of you who told someone else about your fetish, have they ever felt comfortable to tell you their turn ons or fetish or any little secret. Think of this as a visa versa type deal. We no longer have to wait for the moment to tell our secret and not feel tension.

 

[Artoo]

Yup. Once people realise I'm open about sharing mine with them, they tend to open up to me about them, albeit usually in a sidealong fashion (I mean, for most people their sexuality is something private, so they don't go around telling everyone).

 

[Angel77]

I've never flat out TOLD a SO about my fetish but will one day! I've found renewed hope lol. But I have had them tell me about fetishes or kinks that they've had, like the foot fetish guy, the bondage guy, etc. I even had a drunk friend tell me just this past Halloween that she wanted to go to one of those fetish parties in DC because she heard that you "get to be spanked and I kinda like that!" It was really cool actually that they felt that they could be open with me and in turn it led to some really "fun" nights! Hey, whatever floats your boat 🙂

 

[Jackalx33]

Yup. Once people realise I'm open about sharing mine with them, they tend to open up to me about them, albeit usually in a sidealong fashion (I mean, for most people their sexuality is something private, so they don't go around telling everyone).

PHEW OK I MADE sense of this thread. Thank you artoo and cool dude! Then again I honestly think things can be done in other places then in this country.

 

[Jackalx33]

I've never flat out TOLD a SO about my fetish but will one day! I've found renewed hope lol. But I have had them tell me about fetishes or kinks that they've had, like the foot fetish guy, the bondage guy, etc. I even had a drunk friend tell me just this past Halloween that she wanted to go to one of those fetish parties in DC because she heard that you "get to be spanked and I kinda like that!" It was really cool actually that they felt that they could be open with me and in turn it led to some really "fun" nights! Hey, whatever floats your boat 🙂

WOw!! If that is not an open invitation then I do not know what is. Cool of you that you got that aura for people to tell you then and there.

 

[Artoo]

Then again I honestly think things can be done in other places then in this country.

You might be right about an increased amount of disapproval of fetishes in your country, though I think it's more to do with the people I hang out and the partners I've had (I tend to hang out with tolerant, open minded people anyways, because intolerant people do my head in).

 

[rhiannon]

I have one friend who is into BDSM. The others all are vanilla. Booooooooooriiiiiiiiiiiiing!