Online dating sites and tickling

[Toerificdude]

Ok guys, I am fairly new here and rarely post but I got to thinking about this only because I, myself am currently on a online dating site and wonder if there is some hidden code for finding gals that like foot play and/or tickling.

Ok, for example...check out this pic of this gal that is supposedly on the market. I only feel comfortable posting this because she turned out to be a solicitor for a sex site; which meant she was on there to just troll for customers. Anyways, I have seen quite a few girls that like to put "the pose" on their pictures and it makes me wonder if they know how many guys are digging the foot pose or not. Well, I may be babbling but I was just thinking about this and thought that if there girls are into the tickling thing, they may just be afraid to mention it on their profile and use "the pose" as some code to maybe invite foot loving guys like myself to talk to them. Your thoughts?

 

[Stage Whisper]

It's entirely possible. I don't know many people (girls especially) who put tickling on their interests lists, well, anywhere. So they could very well be trying to put up a subtle code.

But in my experience, most of these poses involve the girl in question saying to herself, "Okay, I want to look cute and sexy at the same time to cover my bases. Also, I want to hide my big butt/thighs/belly, and maybe this pose will do it. I like to wander barefoot/have pedicures every month/day/hour, so maybe I should show off that I can take care of myself."*

*Shrugs* The best way to find out is PM them and ask them, at one point or another, why they chose that pose. It might lead into a confession that they like foot/tickle play, or that they hate it with a burning passion.

* Female talking here. I'm not trying to generalize, I'm just posting what my experience has been when poking around various sites. Thanks. 😀

 

[LoveSoles81]

I wouldn't bring up the tickling fetish until you have a succesful first date. You have to make them comfortable with you before you tell a girl you have a crazy foot fetish!

 

[Bugman]

Have you tried Myspace?There are a number of groups and individuals there.

 

[tickleteasing]

lavalife if you go to the intimate section tehre is a specific choice under turn ons that is for those who love being tickled

 

[paracarl44]

Anyone having luck at Yahoo?

I have found their site Slow to meet people.

 

[ticklesenseless]

I don't know. I have a hard time finding real people on most dating sites. I do seem to find a lot of people trapped in Africa seeking a dime for the trip back to the good ole USA. It's especially funny when you IM them and they type so slowly until they get to the part where the script works and copy and paste the script into the IM. I got bored once and IM'd with one for a few hours. Nothing like making them think they caught a fish and then laughing at them.

That being said, as a guy into being tickled, I do put that in my profile. Of course, that probably just scares the ladies off. Well, that and my picture.

 

[TaraToes25]

I did it!

Ok guys, I am fairly new here and rarely post but I got to thinking about this only because I, myself am currently on a online dating site and wonder if there is some hidden code for finding gals that like foot play and/or tickling.

Ok, for example...check out this pic of this gal that is supposedly on the market. I only feel comfortable posting this because she turned out to be a solicitor for a sex site; which meant she was on there to just troll for customers. Anyways, I have seen quite a few girls that like to put "the pose" on their pictures and it makes me wonder if they know how many guys are digging the foot pose or not. Well, I may be babbling but I was just thinking about this and thought that if there girls are into the tickling thing, they may just be afraid to mention it on their profile and use "the pose" as some code to maybe invite foot loving guys like myself to talk to them. Your thoughts?

I di dtry an online site for "alternative lifestyles" in NYC and posted a pic that was far from revealing, but did show my feet/toes... I included feet in best feature area, and admitted that i am extremely ticklish.... met 3 guys, and 2 were gross, one was perfect... and married...my luck.

all were attracted to the foot thing...and i got a ton of mail, but burned out on the online dating thing fast... the married guy was permitted to suck my toes... that's all. I'm a nice girl!

Tara

 

[Coffee]

was it alt.com by any chance?

 

[Toerificdude]

I di dtry an online site for "alternative lifestyles" in NYC and posted a pic that was far from revealing, but did show my feet/toes... I included feet in best feature area, and admitted that i am extremely ticklish.... met 3 guys, and 2 were gross, one was perfect... and married...my luck.

all were attracted to the foot thing...and i got a ton of mail, but burned out on the online dating thing fast... the married guy was permitted to suck my toes... that's all. I'm a nice girl!

Tara

Thanks for the info, Tara and thanks to everyone that gave their suggestions. I'll have to try those subtle methods and see what doors open. It's just so dang hard to find them in my area!

 

[TaraToes25]

was it alt.com by any chance?

Yes...

 

[TickleWolf]

I've been signed up at alt.com for a while now. Sorry I missed ya Tara
Actually met someone there & we were together for a while. I've observed that, at least in NYC that the dominant women tend to be almost exclusively pro's or pro's pretinding to be lifestyle, until you contact them and suddenly they're asking for "tribute". And I'm not talking about a kind word here. Most submissives tend to be very pain oriented. People can list both tickling, and foot fetish as interests, but finding someone more into those things than others can be a quite a challenge.
May we ALL find that special someone.

 

[Phineas]

Well, I may be babbling but I was just thinking about this and thought that if there girls are into the tickling thing, they may just be afraid to mention it on their profile and use "the pose" as some code to maybe invite foot loving guys like myself to talk to them. Your thoughts?

I think that you're just projecting, to be honest. Most women choose pictures that will make them look good - they really don't think about it much beyond that.

I have a bunch of friends on MySpace that I also know IRL and when they post pictures that have "meaning" to those of us what have these predilections they are usually totally oblivious to it. You see a lovely pair of armpits stretched skyward in an "inviting" fashion - she sees a nice picture of her dancing at a club. Recently, a good friend of mine posted a photo of her and her friends' bare feet - because they were out clubbing, their feet hurt, and they took their shoes off and walked across the city barefoot. It struck them as funny so they documented it with a shot. They didn't do it to give the "foot guys" a charge, even though she later IM'd me and told me to go check out her pictures for a shot I'd "like".

I'd bet dollars to donuts that close to 99.99% of women out there have never heard of "the pose" or wouldn't know what it was if you brought it up.

 

[TaraToes25]

I listed bondage and foot fetish...

I've been signed up at alt.com for a while now. Sorry I missed ya Tara
Actually met someone there & we were together for a while. I've observed that, at least in NYC that the dominant women tend to be almost exclusively pro's or pro's pretinding to be lifestyle, until you contact them and suddenly they're asking for "tribute". And I'm not talking about a kind word here. Most submissives tend to be very pain oriented. People can list both tickling, and foot fetish as interests, but finding someone more into those things than others can be a quite a challenge.
May we ALL find that special someone.

I'm not sure why i was afraid to say tickling; i think i feared meeting a pure tickle torture type; just being tied and tickled for hours is not really my thing; it's fun with the right person, but i expect tickling with romance.... so the person has to be my "type" meaning we need to have chemisty... and being cute, articulate, bright, tall, ticklish is all a plus. Guys I meet in jeans and flip flops, with a few days beard, just destroy me... (a trim beard rubbed on my feet / between my thighs is very, very hot).

Tara

 

[Maestro1874]

I linked to Alt.com from Adultfriendfinder once. I was somewhat disappointed that they did not have tickling as a fetish selection in their profile builder. It sounds as though this hasn't been an issue, however. Online dating sites are tough. You CAN meet people there - one of my employees married a girl he found on EHarmony.com, nevertheless there are a great number of frauds and scams waiting to abuse responders. I suppose it's only SLIGHTLY ethically absurd to take advantage of the lonely.

 

[He-Man]

I have found their site Slow to meet people.

I've tried yahoo, match.com, eHarmony.com (or as the guy in the commercial pronounces it: "EEEE-harmony..dot com" ), even bdsm personals sites such as alt.com.

Guess which sites I found work best for me? The free ones like matchdoctor.com, plentyoffish.com (although alot of POF members are also matchdoctor members) adultmatchdoctor.com (it used to not be free, but now it is), and collarme.com

I haven't met anyone offline from those sites, but I've gotten more replies on just ONE of those free sites than I ever did on all the pay sites I listed combined.

And ironically, I seem to get the least spam e-mail replies from the free personals sites. (you'd think spammers would be most of the members on the free sites since it wouldn't cost em anything)

 

[He-Man]

I linked to Alt.com from Adultfriendfinder once. I was somewhat disappointed that they did not have tickling as a fetish selection in their profile builder.

No tickling option listed for the profile at alt.com? I thought I saw it on there when I used to use it. Maybe it was in another part of the profile that you can add, though. Wasn't there some kinda "interests" thing where you could check off fetishes on a checklist ? (I don't remember since it's been so long since I even went to the site. I know where was a section that DID have "tickling" as a fetish you could list on your profile, though)

 

[Maestro1874]

The coolness factor of ALT.com would go up tremendously if they did. I didn't go too deeply into the site, so it's quite possible that I missed it.

 

[TickleWolf]

being cute, articulate, bright, tall, ticklish is all a plus.

Tara

Wow, you're pretty much describing me right there. And I didn't even post a pic on alt. Have we met, by any chance? 😀 Minus the flip flops, however, I do own 4 pairs of sandals.
It's funny, I also mentioned romance there, but I really don't think a lot of people on alt are really looking for that. Right now, I think Lavalife looks like it has some potential. I might sign up this week & give it a whirl.