Nextrend2011
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Ok, so maybe the title of this thread is a little too powerful for the story itself, but once you read, I think you'll understand why I titled it that way so here goes:
Background: Me and my current girlfriend have been dating since roughly last October and things have been wonderful between us. We're always laughing, having a good time, and simply just enjoying what time we get with each other. (We're both mega busy college kids so often we'll not get as much time as we'd like) As of this early July, we decided to go on a break due to extra stress in life that was putting tension on our relationship, but we still hang out, talk, and "do" things 😉
The Story: Once you realize that you are a person with a quirk or a "kink" as we like to say, sometimes it's difficult for us to open up and allow our significant others (let alone play partners / friends) to know about our sexual oddities. Finding that special someone who's open minded to everything is a rare thing sometimes and when you find it? Hold onto it! That's where my girl (we'll call her "A" for anonymity) comes into play. She's 19, quirky, fun, and incredibly open minded and supportive and I knew from the get-go that I wanted to finally open up after 23 years and share my quirks with someone.
"A" is 5'5" with straight long brunette hair. She's 115lb of petite quirkyness with soft size 7 feet and incredibly ticklish basically EVERYWHERE. When I first met her, I found out through happenstance that she actually hated having her feet touched, period. Needless to say, I was a bit worried at that point that I wouldn't be able to effectively share my quirk and decided to keep it a secret for awhile...at least until I was able to break her of her "hatred." One day I was giving her a back rub and after I was done and still had the lotion out, I decided to give it a shot and started to rub her feet. Before she had time to say anything I just said to her, " I know you aren't a fan, but I just want to help you relax and feel good, so I hope you don't mind." She just smiled, nodded, and I went on with the massage. Score! The seed had been planted so it was just a matter of methodology from that point on. Gradually, I incorporated the foot massage into our routine more and more and she was more than compliant and even "into" it. A even quoted, "Mm, I could get used to this...it feels so good and relaxing." Once I heard that, I knew she had been broken so it was just the next step of admitting my fetishes:
Admitting my foot fetish came before admitting my tickling fetish. One night we were talking about sexual things and kinky parts of life and I asked her "So, are you into any kinky things?"....being the playful quirky person she is, of course she would reply with "Well, maybe...but you gotta tell me first!" This was my moment...so with a bit of a flush I replied, "Well you know how I love to give you massages all the time? Well....I kinda sorta have a bit of a foot fetish." I flinched at this point expecting a "wtf" or a "really?!" in return but instead I got a look of curiosity. She did say "really?" but she didn't reject it right away....she just giggled and said I had nothing to be embarrased about. Long story short, a week later we were getting into foot play and I was in heaven. (side note: she wasn't exactly "into" using her feet right away but literally two days ago she told me, "At first I kinda hated it, but the more I do something, the more I enjoy it 😉 " WIN)
Before even admitting my tickling fetish, me and "A" have always been playful and tickle fights were automatically a thing between us. I'd pin her down, playfully poke her sides, even discovered ticklish spots on her she didn't even know about. (Collarbones = evil) I think she knew I was into it after awhile when she finally started fighting back and even sat on my hips one day and just tortured me for a solid 10 minutes. But all the while in the back of my head I was thinking, "Do I tell her? Do we just keep it to a fun flirtation or take it to a next level? " It was this point when I actually joined the TMF in hopes of meeting fellow ticklers, learning things, getting advice, and just opening myself up to the world of laughter, squirming, and giggling. (So glad I did) About 4 months into our relationship the talk of kinky activities and such came up and I decided to just flat out tell her. Man up right?
"So A, I have another kinky quirk of mine I kinda wanted to share with you, but have been embarrased by....it's really weird, but I kinda really like tickling"
Again, I flinched, but this time it was just a smirk I received back and an approving giggle. "It's not that wierd babe, plus it's kinda fun" WIN! Not only did I get it off of my chest, but I managed to get an approval in return! I did find out that it wasn't really a turn-on for nor a fetish, but it was something she found to be fun and enjoyable in small spurts so I couldn't complain about that....but over time my curiosity and interest grew and grew and I've wanted to take it to the next level and explore...which brings me to our most recent conversation that just blew my mind as I wasn't expecting to hear what I heard from her:
Over the summer we've lived 2 hours apart and only seen each other twice, but we still text, IM and call each other all the time to keep in touch and see how we're doing. We talk about all the vanilla aspects of life, and of course, the kinky side of the spectrum...wishing we could be with each other to "explore." Literally last night, we ended up having another of those conversations which ended up highly enjoyable and rather eye opening:
About a week prior to this I actually opened up and told her about my involvement on the TMF forum to which she was surprisingly open and curious about. We love each other QUITE much and everything I'm into she wants to learn about and she's curious about...something that's so rare to find in a person these days. Plus, she was the one that told me that "Anything I do enough, I start to enjoy...plus it's with you so I'll enjoy it even more!" We got on the subject of sexual things and of course, the kinky, and were talking about how I thought I was sexually more perverse than her in a ratio of about 100:1 She just responded "no....it's just that you're more educated than I in sexual things" Ok....good response...so being my natural witty self I responded: "Well, guess it's a good thing I'm a good teacher...if you want to learn about quirky things that is 😉 " The rest of the conversation went like this VERBATIM:
A: "like I said, I'm a curious person, and if it's something you're into, i wanna learn about it!"
Me: "I can only hope you're "into" it or eventually "like" it haha
A: "well there's only one way to find out!"
Me: "Man, what if you don't like anything? That'll kill a large part of my sexual nature 🙁 " <--- Was fishing for an answer 😉
A: "But what if I do?"
Me: "If you do enjoy it that would be awesome lol. Granted anything foot / tickling related you're kinda unsure about lol"
A: "the more i get used to things the more i start to enjoy them"
Me: "Is that why you really enjoy foot massages now though you hated them being touched at first?"
A: "mmhmm i mean, they dont turn me on, but they definitely feel good and relaxing"
Me: "haha, usually regular back massages turn girls on, but not all of them"
A: "i can see that, but i always have wayy too many muscle knots for the massage to turn me on..."
Me: "Understandable, tickling probably won't do that either xD"
A: "lol, ticklings enjoyable, until i get clusterfucked...but i do enjoy tickling you and seeing you squirm 😉 "
This is where I interject again....did I just hear her correctly? Did she just say what I thought she said? She enjoys tickling me and seeing me squirm? My mind was blown at this statement and not that you need to know, but was highly turned on when she said that. Being a switch is a wonderful thing. Carry on:
Me: "Tickling is just something you need more exposure to cuz the more you get used to it, the longer it takes to get to that clusterfucked stage..
and you enjoy seeing me squirm eh? hehe...that's kinda hot!"
A: "i hope youre right!....hehe, yea, i do...that's why I get annoyed when you stop me!" <--- I tend to naturally fight back 😀
Me: "I didn't know you enjoyed tickling me that much haah. Well, at least to that extent....noted 😉 "
A: "its fun hehe *fun fact you didnt know about ^*
Me: "I like this fun fact alot seeing how that accounts for about 40% of my quirk right there....60% is me getting you 😉
A: "We'll work on it 😉 "
Me: "I'd love to!"
A: "Good, hehe!"
And that was the gist of the entire conversation that we had last night. Not only did I find out that, despite the fact that she really doesn't have a tickling "fetish" persay, she enjoys making me squirm by tickling me, I found out that she's becoming more and more open minded to my kinks and is interested in learning and slowly getting exposed to it. Just when I thought all bets were off and she wasn't gonna ever be into it, pandora's box has been opened and the games have only just begun 😉
Background: Me and my current girlfriend have been dating since roughly last October and things have been wonderful between us. We're always laughing, having a good time, and simply just enjoying what time we get with each other. (We're both mega busy college kids so often we'll not get as much time as we'd like) As of this early July, we decided to go on a break due to extra stress in life that was putting tension on our relationship, but we still hang out, talk, and "do" things 😉
The Story: Once you realize that you are a person with a quirk or a "kink" as we like to say, sometimes it's difficult for us to open up and allow our significant others (let alone play partners / friends) to know about our sexual oddities. Finding that special someone who's open minded to everything is a rare thing sometimes and when you find it? Hold onto it! That's where my girl (we'll call her "A" for anonymity) comes into play. She's 19, quirky, fun, and incredibly open minded and supportive and I knew from the get-go that I wanted to finally open up after 23 years and share my quirks with someone.
"A" is 5'5" with straight long brunette hair. She's 115lb of petite quirkyness with soft size 7 feet and incredibly ticklish basically EVERYWHERE. When I first met her, I found out through happenstance that she actually hated having her feet touched, period. Needless to say, I was a bit worried at that point that I wouldn't be able to effectively share my quirk and decided to keep it a secret for awhile...at least until I was able to break her of her "hatred." One day I was giving her a back rub and after I was done and still had the lotion out, I decided to give it a shot and started to rub her feet. Before she had time to say anything I just said to her, " I know you aren't a fan, but I just want to help you relax and feel good, so I hope you don't mind." She just smiled, nodded, and I went on with the massage. Score! The seed had been planted so it was just a matter of methodology from that point on. Gradually, I incorporated the foot massage into our routine more and more and she was more than compliant and even "into" it. A even quoted, "Mm, I could get used to this...it feels so good and relaxing." Once I heard that, I knew she had been broken so it was just the next step of admitting my fetishes:
Admitting my foot fetish came before admitting my tickling fetish. One night we were talking about sexual things and kinky parts of life and I asked her "So, are you into any kinky things?"....being the playful quirky person she is, of course she would reply with "Well, maybe...but you gotta tell me first!" This was my moment...so with a bit of a flush I replied, "Well you know how I love to give you massages all the time? Well....I kinda sorta have a bit of a foot fetish." I flinched at this point expecting a "wtf" or a "really?!" in return but instead I got a look of curiosity. She did say "really?" but she didn't reject it right away....she just giggled and said I had nothing to be embarrased about. Long story short, a week later we were getting into foot play and I was in heaven. (side note: she wasn't exactly "into" using her feet right away but literally two days ago she told me, "At first I kinda hated it, but the more I do something, the more I enjoy it 😉 " WIN)
Before even admitting my tickling fetish, me and "A" have always been playful and tickle fights were automatically a thing between us. I'd pin her down, playfully poke her sides, even discovered ticklish spots on her she didn't even know about. (Collarbones = evil) I think she knew I was into it after awhile when she finally started fighting back and even sat on my hips one day and just tortured me for a solid 10 minutes. But all the while in the back of my head I was thinking, "Do I tell her? Do we just keep it to a fun flirtation or take it to a next level? " It was this point when I actually joined the TMF in hopes of meeting fellow ticklers, learning things, getting advice, and just opening myself up to the world of laughter, squirming, and giggling. (So glad I did) About 4 months into our relationship the talk of kinky activities and such came up and I decided to just flat out tell her. Man up right?
"So A, I have another kinky quirk of mine I kinda wanted to share with you, but have been embarrased by....it's really weird, but I kinda really like tickling"
Again, I flinched, but this time it was just a smirk I received back and an approving giggle. "It's not that wierd babe, plus it's kinda fun" WIN! Not only did I get it off of my chest, but I managed to get an approval in return! I did find out that it wasn't really a turn-on for nor a fetish, but it was something she found to be fun and enjoyable in small spurts so I couldn't complain about that....but over time my curiosity and interest grew and grew and I've wanted to take it to the next level and explore...which brings me to our most recent conversation that just blew my mind as I wasn't expecting to hear what I heard from her:
Over the summer we've lived 2 hours apart and only seen each other twice, but we still text, IM and call each other all the time to keep in touch and see how we're doing. We talk about all the vanilla aspects of life, and of course, the kinky side of the spectrum...wishing we could be with each other to "explore." Literally last night, we ended up having another of those conversations which ended up highly enjoyable and rather eye opening:
About a week prior to this I actually opened up and told her about my involvement on the TMF forum to which she was surprisingly open and curious about. We love each other QUITE much and everything I'm into she wants to learn about and she's curious about...something that's so rare to find in a person these days. Plus, she was the one that told me that "Anything I do enough, I start to enjoy...plus it's with you so I'll enjoy it even more!" We got on the subject of sexual things and of course, the kinky, and were talking about how I thought I was sexually more perverse than her in a ratio of about 100:1 She just responded "no....it's just that you're more educated than I in sexual things" Ok....good response...so being my natural witty self I responded: "Well, guess it's a good thing I'm a good teacher...if you want to learn about quirky things that is 😉 " The rest of the conversation went like this VERBATIM:
A: "like I said, I'm a curious person, and if it's something you're into, i wanna learn about it!"
Me: "I can only hope you're "into" it or eventually "like" it haha
A: "well there's only one way to find out!"
Me: "Man, what if you don't like anything? That'll kill a large part of my sexual nature 🙁 " <--- Was fishing for an answer 😉
A: "But what if I do?"
Me: "If you do enjoy it that would be awesome lol. Granted anything foot / tickling related you're kinda unsure about lol"
A: "the more i get used to things the more i start to enjoy them"
Me: "Is that why you really enjoy foot massages now though you hated them being touched at first?"
A: "mmhmm i mean, they dont turn me on, but they definitely feel good and relaxing"
Me: "haha, usually regular back massages turn girls on, but not all of them"
A: "i can see that, but i always have wayy too many muscle knots for the massage to turn me on..."
Me: "Understandable, tickling probably won't do that either xD"
A: "lol, ticklings enjoyable, until i get clusterfucked...but i do enjoy tickling you and seeing you squirm 😉 "
This is where I interject again....did I just hear her correctly? Did she just say what I thought she said? She enjoys tickling me and seeing me squirm? My mind was blown at this statement and not that you need to know, but was highly turned on when she said that. Being a switch is a wonderful thing. Carry on:
Me: "Tickling is just something you need more exposure to cuz the more you get used to it, the longer it takes to get to that clusterfucked stage..
and you enjoy seeing me squirm eh? hehe...that's kinda hot!"
A: "i hope youre right!....hehe, yea, i do...that's why I get annoyed when you stop me!" <--- I tend to naturally fight back 😀
Me: "I didn't know you enjoyed tickling me that much haah. Well, at least to that extent....noted 😉 "
A: "its fun hehe *fun fact you didnt know about ^*
Me: "I like this fun fact alot seeing how that accounts for about 40% of my quirk right there....60% is me getting you 😉
A: "We'll work on it 😉 "
Me: "I'd love to!"
A: "Good, hehe!"
And that was the gist of the entire conversation that we had last night. Not only did I find out that, despite the fact that she really doesn't have a tickling "fetish" persay, she enjoys making me squirm by tickling me, I found out that she's becoming more and more open minded to my kinks and is interested in learning and slowly getting exposed to it. Just when I thought all bets were off and she wasn't gonna ever be into it, pandora's box has been opened and the games have only just begun 😉
