Patient lers?

[lk70]

This tends to tick off many LERs who want to hear the laughter.

Ann

Ann's comment in another thread got me to thinking about a conversation I had with a friend yesterday.

I have spots where light constant tickling will eventually lead to an unbelievable explosion of laughter and begging but begin with only squirming or even less reaction but I've found that most lers aren't willing or able to find these spots because they ALWAYS focus on spots that get instant response. It's a shame for them, really, because they don't know what they're missing. A certain other half of the dreaded Tlk Duo did it to me once...not sure he was even aware with all the other activity going on. He had been lightly tickling the same spot for quite awhile while others were focusing on known spots. Eventually it got to where his fingers were all I could focus on.

So lers - what's up with that?

Lees - is it just me, or do you notice the same thing? And what do you do about it? Do you clue them in, or breathe a sigh of relief when they don't figure it out?

 

[TickledToDeath]

Damn good question.
As the ler, I will patiently figure out pretty much every "allowable" ticklish spot. As the lee...........I refuse to answer. 🙄

 

[Tamia78]

As a Lee...I think it depends. My underarms generally will just get you a bit of squriming, but if the Ler keeps coming back there repeatedly while tickling all my other "hot" spots, then he can get my laughing my butt off in no time! Maybe it's a sensitivity issue?

--T

 

[jaba]

jaba agrees.......what's the rush?........

This is a very good topic, and one that I have pondered and have been frustrated by for years.....

I recently did a movie review of a movie where the tickler was particularly impressive in his tickling, and it was because he was obviously experienced, and he had a patient, steady tickle stroke, on very vunerable areas, (but not always the obvious ticklish spots) that were driving the lady lees absolutely crazy, and the laughter produced from the ladies was extrodinary......

In the overwelming majority of the tickle media I have seen, the tickler, though well intentioned, is usually so agressive in the tickling that the ticklee, especially a very ticklish one, is usually quickly "burned out" and is reduced to exaustion and results in screaming (which I particularly abhor )....and heavy breathing for survival, instead of laughter....

What a waste of valuable tickle time with a ticklish, laughing lass....its pretty frustrating to watch......

In my opinion, the first two minutes of most tickle productions are the really best part of the movie, because you get the best reactions from the lee before the overly agressive tickler exausts his ticklee....too agressive and "frantic"....

Personal experience? I have always wondered what is the rush? You have a exquisitely ticklish lady tied comfortably before you.....

Explore SLOOOOWLY.......while explosive laughter is welcomed.....a true "hidden tickle treasure" can be found in lightly, teasingly circling those spots that will "eventually" coax the helpless giggles from her.....the first hints may be the slight crack of a smile in the corner of her lips.....

It is those secret places, often not obvious or evident at first, where a true tickler finds satisfaction, and "satisfaction of the truly ticklish" can be blisfully achieved.....


But it takes time.......and patience..... 😉

Believe me.....if she REALLY loves tickling, and you are a patient, pretty good tickler... she's not going anywhere, ha ha.....







jaba

 

[kilitiinko1]

Patience!

Patience almost always pays off in the end.As a `lee,the longer I`m teased in a not so obvious spot,the more likely my initial resistance can be broken down,especially with a light relentless stroke. When the dam bursts,be prepared for a struggle against my bonds! Also, the longer the tickling and teasing continues the more ticklish I become - that is,previously nonticklish spots somehow betray me and become ticklish! Hooray for patient ticklers!!!

 

[Helena]

A patient, teasing tickler is wonderful.
I think it would be fantastic to receive tickles from a patient and unhurried ler. Someone who isn't in a rush and has a light touch would drive me nuts.

 

[TickledToDeath]

Patient Lers?

I was a patient in a hospital once and I was a ler back then too!
Tickled one of the nurses briefly. 😉 😀 🙄

 

[SmileyTkls]

I'd have to agree, a lot of 'lers want to "break" the 'lee as fast as possible, as loudly as possible. I prefer to take time, see how long the 'lee can go, and explore all the ticklish spots, building the laughter gradually. That seems to make both more happy, but hey, that's just my opinion. 😉 And which spots were these for you, Lynn? 😀

 

[venray]

A certain other half of the dreaded Tlk Duo did it to me once...not sure he was even aware with all the other activity going on. He had been lightly tickling the same spot for quite awhile while others were focusing on known spots. Eventually it got to where his fingers were all I could focus on.

*taking notes....and calling Drew.... 😉 )

 

[TickledToDeath]

Ann's comment in another thread got me to thinking about a conversation I had with a friend yesterday.

I have spots where light constant tickling will eventually lead to an unbelievable explosion of laughter and begging but begin with only squirming or even less reaction but I've found that most lers aren't willing or able to find these spots because they ALWAYS focus on spots that get instant response. It's a shame for them, really, because they don't know what they're missing. A certain other half of the dreaded Tlk Duo did it to me once...not sure he was even aware with all the other activity going on. He had been lightly tickling the same spot for quite awhile while others were focusing on known spots. Eventually it got to where his fingers were all I could focus on.



Lees - is it just me, or do you notice the same thing? And what do you do about it? Do you clue them in, or breathe a sigh of relief when they don't figure it out?

Remembering the info you have given and will pass it along to wife and friends.

 

[TickledToDeath]

I'd have to agree, a lot of 'lers want to "break" the 'lee as fast as possible, as loudly as possible. I prefer to take time, see how long the 'lee can go, and explore all the ticklish spots, building the laughter gradually. That seems to make both more happy, but hey, that's just my opinion. 😉 And which spots were these for you, Lynn? 😀

Yes indeed, time, patience, tenacity and pacing ones self is key.

 

[lk70]

*taking notes....and calling Drew.... 😉 )

Remembering the info you have given and will pass it along to wife and friends.

And which spots were these for you, Lynn?

Opportunitistics buzzards, the lot of you.



Jaba - you sir, I am quite sure, have plenty of patience 😀

'Lees! Keep it coming! Let's teach these lers a thing or two...

 

[Knox The Hatter]

Milady knoweth whereof she speaks.

 

[venray]

Opportunitistics buzzards, the lot of you.

Well...DUHHHHHH....lol...you would have it no other way..


On topic:

I have had the pleasure of having a few patient lers work me over.....the results are wonderful.....

 

[TickledToDeath]

Milady knoweth whereof she speaks.

Care to share or do we have to tickle it out of her!

 

[TickledToDeath]

Opportunitistics buzzards, the lot of you.

**Spreading wings and overing overhead!**

 

[BorisandNatasha]

A patient tickler will always prevail. All it takes is time. All in due time. The tickler will get everything he or she wants.

Boris

 

[Redmage]

I have spots where light constant tickling will eventually lead to an unbelievable explosion of laughter and begging but begin with only squirming or even less reaction but I've found that most lers aren't willing or able to find these spots because they ALWAYS focus on spots that get instant response.

So lers - what's up with that?

In some cases it might be lack of patience, but I think that in many cases it's simply lack of knowledge. A 'ler who doesn't know that patient attention to a certain spot will reap rewards has no reason to stay there. After all, we don't want our 'lees getting bored while we waste time on an area that just isn't all that ticklish.

Sometimes I can tell that there's more lurking beneath the surface, and in that case I'll often keep after it. But I'm sure there are areas that I miss simply because on a first pass I can't spot that potential.

 

[Mislaffsalot]

Light touch or patient tickling is the best kind IMO. I mean, don't get me wrong, crazy intense tickling can have me screaming with laughter, but if the ler slows down and tries to find sensitive spots with light touches and tickles (hint: like my hip bone area and pantyline) he could have me laughing and giggling just as crazily. And its more of a turn-on that way too. 😉

 

[steph]

Right. It doesn't take long for them to find out the best (worst?) spots on me like this--I realized just now reading these comments that I unintentionally respond differently when they've found the places that make me the MOST crazy. Or maybe it IS on purpose? Huh. I dunno. Either way, the ler figures it out REALLY fast.
XOXO

Light touch or patient tickling is the best kind IMO.

 

[Bugman]

A patient, teasing tickler is wonderful.
I think it would be fantastic to receive tickles from a patient and unhurried ler. Someone who isn't in a rush and has a light touch would drive me nuts.

May i drive you somewhere my dear? HEHE.

 

[Helena]

May i drive you somewhere my dear? HEHE.

Buggy,
Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

 

[Bugman]

Buggy,
Buzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

BUzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.

 

[TklDuo-Drew]

Ann's comment in another thread got me to thinking about a conversation I had with a friend yesterday.

I have spots where light constant tickling will eventually lead to an unbelievable explosion of laughter and begging but begin with only squirming or even less reaction but I've found that most lers aren't willing or able to find these spots because they ALWAYS focus on spots that get instant response. It's a shame for them, really, because they don't know what they're missing. A certain other half of the dreaded Tlk Duo did it to me once...not sure he was even aware with all the other activity going on. He had been lightly tickling the same spot for quite awhile while others were focusing on known spots. Eventually it got to where his fingers were all I could focus on.

So lers - what's up with that?



Note to self...................bring pen, paper, and brain to next gathering.


Drew

 

[Mastertank1]

Ah, sweet ladies;

Patience is indeed my strong suit.
One of my 'lees once said that the song 'Slow Hand' might have been written by a 'lee yearning for my return.
I love to take a loooooong time about tickling; and my touch is always gentle. I have actually had complaints that I was TOO gentle, but never the reverese. As for those who thought I was too gentle; slow persistance showed them that my gentle methods would eventually break them, and far more thoroughly than the haste of others.
There is also the fact that my preferred gentle techniques, when combined overtly sexual touching, if that has been agreed to, can result in my giving the 'lee tickled orgasms, or ticklegasms.
I have accomplished this both orally and by intercourse, and to see my 'lee cum while laughing or giggling from my tickles is the ultimate joy for me as a 'ler.