Penny for your thoughts?

[moondog83uk1]

Hey everyone.

Okay, this is the dilemma (though some of you might not see this as a dilemma). I've been chatting to a lass on the Net and she has spoken about meeting up. She lives about half an hour away and we have also covered the topic of sex and stuff.

Long story short - she has shown great interest in my tickling fetish and has said that she is willing to get bound and tickled, even to the point of desribing where she likes being tickled and where she is most ticklish. Problem is, she looks like she fell outta the Ugly Tree and hit plenty of branches on the way down.

So to meet or not to meet? Can you lot get a thrill outta tickling a girl who, how should I say this, doesn't tickle your fancy? Oh, and she does seem a bit of a desperte too (lik I might never get away if I go there, you know?). Much obliged for your thoughts, gang.

Love and peace, Moondog 😀

 

[sole seeker1]

Hello Dog,

I just thought I'd try to reply to the two issues you've raised.

"Can you lot get a thrill outta tickling a girl who, how should I say this, doesn't tickle your fancy?"
- I dunno, can you? This is a real subjective thing, and whether or not you would enjoy it is a question only you can answer. Everyone else's opinion is gonna be given from their subjective point of view, not yours.

"... she does seem a bit desperate too (like I might never get away if I go there, you know?)."
- Hey guy, anytime you sense danger, stay away. Stalking happens to men, as well as women. It is a major pain in the ass and definately a situation to stay away from.

 

[heavenkitty1]

I have to agree with Sole Seeker..... if you don't feel okay with EVERYTHING that is going on, don't go there.

If I wasn't married, I'd be advertizing for someone to have as a tickling buddy but if I didn't feel okay with all aspects, I wouldn't even get things going 🙂

 

[His Divine Shadow]

Go with what you feel inside. It often is the right way to go. If you feel that you won't like it, or you feel threatned, don't get anywhere near her. You should find a person who makes you feel happy, not someone who makes you wonder as to yes or no. *Tosses two cents on table*

 

[moondog83uk1]

Hat's Off.

Cheers gang,

Yeah, I wasn't comfortable with going through with it but didn't know if I was being a bit over-cautious, you know? I mean, she is a bit up and down, changing moods all the time. And I don't relish the idea of bein stalked, though I'd take precautions to prevent such a thing happening. But, just for confimation, I am deciding against it. There's plenty of women out there.

And on the subject of tickling a woman who isn't your cup of tea: this is a discussion forum and that is exactly what I was intending - I was hoping for others to voice their opinions.

I already know that I could probaby get turned on - but anything other than tickling and I think I'd do a runner.

So, could you get turned on / enjoy yourself tickling a woman who you found unnattrctive?

Thanks for all your opinions gang. Love and peace, Moondog 😀

 

[sole seeker1]

Re: Hat's Off.

could you get turned on / enjoy yourself tickling a woman who you found unnattrctive?

Hmmm.... good question for discussion, when posed in general terms.

I can enjoy tickling people to whom I'm not attracted. I have tickled family members lots of times, (my mom, my brother, my daughter when she was a little girl) and I wasn't sexually attracted in those cicrumstances.

As for getting turned on by tickling someone to whom I would not usually be attracted... I dunno. I suspect it would depend on my relationship with the victim. How I saw them before I tickled 'em.

I might get turned on by tickling a stranger or a friend, whether I was originally sexually attracted to them or not. The situation hasn't come up that often. Just 'cause it hasn't happened yet doesn't mean it isn't possible, and it wouldn't bother me if I found myself... er... stimulated in those circumstances. 😱

 

[Snatch]

Re: Hat's Off.

could you get turned on / enjoy yourself tickling a woman who you found unnattrctive?

I don't think so, for me tickilng is a purely sexual thing. I don't enjoy tickling people I'm unattracted to, same for people I feel close to; for example family.

 

[BigJim1]

Whether it's because of looks or personality, if you're not sexually attracted to someone, don't get into a sexual situation. I'd gather that tickling and bondage would be just that mate.