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Personals section....Futile? Or has there been any success?
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Knox The Hatter
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From what I understand, there has been ENOUGH success in there for other people to be encouraged to persevere.
Okay, here's my own rather long-winded take on the subject.
I posted two or three times in the UK section of personals. None of them produced any positive results whatsoever.
However I have actually met three very liberated and wonderful girls because of my membership of the TMF and have tickled all three of them nearly to death. How? Well look at the TMF like some sort of meeting hall, exclusive to ticklers. Each forum is a room in said hall. Most members will automatically gravitate towards the bigger and more populous rooms like Tickling and General Discussion. Smaller rooms with fewer people in, will be of less interest. (Particularly to female members I assume, as any one of them could set a tickle-date with a male member within ten minutes of actively trying to. Female members have the upper hand on us chaps because there will never be a shortage of us to volunteer to meet in real life. The ladies have more safety issues with this scenario and because of the disparity in the membership numbers, can also pretty much pick and choose who they care to talk to and never be short of tickling conversation.)
Posts in forums like Personals by female members are in a huge minority compared to the males. When a guy posts there all a gal generally learns about him is that he's a guy, his location and that he loves tickling females/being tickled by them. (No offence intended to gay TMF'ers.) It's very unlikely that a girl would respond to that as I imagine they would want to know a lot more about someone before discussing meeting in real life. All three of the ladies I've met and tickled I've become aquaintances with in the chat room, or by posting on the boards. It developed over a period of time. Two of the three I actually knew and spoke to frequently for about 12 months before we arranged to meet. To my knowledge, none of them has responded to a post (or posted there themselves) in the Personals boards. The TMF is very much like said meeting hall that way. If you go into one of the smaller rooms and say not much else besides that you're a guy and you want to sadisticly tickle a girl, chances are you won't get much in the way of results.
So here's my closing advice to anyone who wants to meet people through the TMF. Treat the TMF as you would any real life meeting place. Go in and get to know people. Find out about them and show an interest in them as people rather than as objects of tickling fantasies. After all you wouldn't walk into a social club, get a mic, state what your hobbies are and then expect a compatible date to just walk up to you, would you? And finally, be prepared to have it take many months. After all, the internet has a very bad reputation for women turning up to meet guys and they turn out to be mad axe-murderers. It takes a lot of time for a lady to know and trust someone well enough to want to risk meeting them in real life.
I posted two or three times in the UK section of personals. None of them produced any positive results whatsoever.
However I have actually met three very liberated and wonderful girls because of my membership of the TMF and have tickled all three of them nearly to death. How? Well look at the TMF like some sort of meeting hall, exclusive to ticklers. Each forum is a room in said hall. Most members will automatically gravitate towards the bigger and more populous rooms like Tickling and General Discussion. Smaller rooms with fewer people in, will be of less interest. (Particularly to female members I assume, as any one of them could set a tickle-date with a male member within ten minutes of actively trying to. Female members have the upper hand on us chaps because there will never be a shortage of us to volunteer to meet in real life. The ladies have more safety issues with this scenario and because of the disparity in the membership numbers, can also pretty much pick and choose who they care to talk to and never be short of tickling conversation.)
Posts in forums like Personals by female members are in a huge minority compared to the males. When a guy posts there all a gal generally learns about him is that he's a guy, his location and that he loves tickling females/being tickled by them. (No offence intended to gay TMF'ers.) It's very unlikely that a girl would respond to that as I imagine they would want to know a lot more about someone before discussing meeting in real life. All three of the ladies I've met and tickled I've become aquaintances with in the chat room, or by posting on the boards. It developed over a period of time. Two of the three I actually knew and spoke to frequently for about 12 months before we arranged to meet. To my knowledge, none of them has responded to a post (or posted there themselves) in the Personals boards. The TMF is very much like said meeting hall that way. If you go into one of the smaller rooms and say not much else besides that you're a guy and you want to sadisticly tickle a girl, chances are you won't get much in the way of results.
So here's my closing advice to anyone who wants to meet people through the TMF. Treat the TMF as you would any real life meeting place. Go in and get to know people. Find out about them and show an interest in them as people rather than as objects of tickling fantasies. After all you wouldn't walk into a social club, get a mic, state what your hobbies are and then expect a compatible date to just walk up to you, would you? And finally, be prepared to have it take many months. After all, the internet has a very bad reputation for women turning up to meet guys and they turn out to be mad axe-murderers. It takes a lot of time for a lady to know and trust someone well enough to want to risk meeting them in real life.
MrTicklefeet
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I posted an ad there back in October. It's been viewed 39 times since, but as of yet, no responces. :-(
If you had a free coupon for a lottery ticket whould you stand in line and use it knowing most likely that you are not going win? The Personal section is free, so you are not wasting any money and only wasting a small amount of time. You should, however, realize that you are most likely not going to get any responses. So try it, but just don't sit back and wait you need to look in other places.
Morning Angel
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well put!
I agree with BigJim and Iggy Pop. I find out more about TMF members (their personalities, interests, opinions, even tickling styles) from their posts on the larger forums than I do from cruising the personals section. I think that a lot of people (myself included) find it more awkward to "sell themselves" than to just participate in discussions.
The chat can also be a way to get to know people better (despite the barrage of annoying cybertickle/sex PCs).
Morning Angel
I agree with BigJim and Iggy Pop. I find out more about TMF members (their personalities, interests, opinions, even tickling styles) from their posts on the larger forums than I do from cruising the personals section. I think that a lot of people (myself included) find it more awkward to "sell themselves" than to just participate in discussions.
The chat can also be a way to get to know people better (despite the barrage of annoying cybertickle/sex PCs).
Morning Angel
BigBrownEyes
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Ok, no, the personals are not completely futile. I agree, they're a longshot. But it is possible to meet another ticklephile through the personals at this site.
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I think the post that Big Jim had and having been ratified by Ayla is exactly the way to go. I have had success meeting two wonderful women by building an on line relationship first, the tickling came later. I have had little success on here, but met people on line. Does'nt mean it can't happen. Get to making some friends, after all friends are people I trust and trust is essential for some great tickling.
I think the post that Big Jim had and having been ratified by Ayla is exactly the way to go. I have had success meeting two wonderful women by building an on line relationship first, the tickling came later. I have had little success on here, but met people on line. Does'nt mean it can't happen. Get to making some friends, after all friends are people I trust and trust is essential for some great tickling.
Admiral Trouser
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I can only really talk of my own experience on this matter, and that consisted of meeting my 'lass through the gen boards of the forum, not through the personals: As far as I can make out of it all, the majority of people who come here are looking for a partner of some sort, so there's no need to post a thread about it, and prospective partners will learn far more about your charecter by reading through your regular posts than by reading your short biography and vital stats. Ergo, they don't seem to serve much of a purpose...
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